"I seemed to fall into a black hole and fall deeper and deeper. Seeing that the light at the entrance of the hole was getting smaller and smaller, I heard someone calling me constantly, but the sound seemed to be very far away... What happened, my wife?"
——Liu Tao's husband Wang Ke
1 Wang Ke: Abuse of drugs
In 2013, he announced that he would withdraw from the entertainment industry and enjoy the life of a rich wife. He went in and out of the private plane Liu Tao , suddenly posted a long article on Weibo to make a comeback with a high profile.
She said:
"My married life is full of dangers, and I have cultivated my virtuous wife style beyond my thoughts. I will tell it with my real experience. When facing the harsh reality, how can we survive in marriage..."
This long article has a huge amount of information. Liu Tao, who has always been strong, used the word "回回回" as heavy as .
She detailed the life after her flash marriage in 2008. Wang Ke encountered the financial crisis of and his wealth plummeted to bankruptcy.
In 2009, just when Liu Tao was pregnant, the global financial crisis of broke out, and the 29-year-old Wang Ke insisted on his own until his business abroad collapsed completely.
The army was defeated like a mountain falling, and the trees fell and the money scattered.
Wang Ke experienced the ugliest side of human nature, such as the rebellion of friends and betrayal of close friends.
At that time, Liu Tao was waiting for delivery in the United States. Wang Ke traveled to and from the United States many times a month, facing huge pressure and jet lag, and began to suffer from severe insomnia and headaches.
He chose to take sleeping pills and analgesic to the pain. After taking the medicine, he closed himself and did not eat without leaving the room.
After lasting for a while, Liu Tao felt that Wang Ke was already very abnormal,
"He kept taking medicine, talking nonsense, throwing things randomly, and was in great pain, and even hitting his cup on his head like crazy."
Liu Tao persuaded him kindly but Wang Ke spoke ill of him harshly.
Liu Tao, who was full of belly, was unwilling to give up this marriage. She began to record Wang Ke's medication situation and found that Wang Ke had taken more than 200 medicines a day when he was the most outrageous.
and take the strongest sleeping pills, a class of psychotropic drugs and painkillers for treating patients with advanced cancer cancer.
Wang Ke, who took these medicines, lay in bed all day long and was in a state of dying communication with Liu Taoling.
"It's skinny and bone-skinned, and no pair of pants can hang on the waist"...
Liu Tao tried his best to keep him, changed Wang Ke's medicine bit by bit, pulled him up to eat something, and wanted to go for a walk with him.
When she thought everything was getting better, Wang Ke gave the most terrifying "gift" on the day Liu Tao gave birth to her.
Wang Ke was with him on the day of Liu Tao’s birth. The child launched the delivery room at around 3 a.m., and Liu Tao was then released.
On the way back to the ward, he suddenly heard a "bang". Wang Ke fainted and shook constantly, like epilepsy seizure . He foamed at the mouth and his limbs twitched and curled into a ball.
The ground is slowly wet, and Wang Ke has urinary incontinence .
The doctor was panicked and asked quickly, "Does he have a history of epilepsy?"
, whose anesthetics have not yet been resolved, and shouted out with all his strength:
"He is dependent on drugs, which should be a withdrawal symptoms or an overdose of drugs."
Wang Ke finally came alive after three days of rescue.
On the day he was discharged from the hospital, he and Liu Tao were in a wheelchair with a newborn baby. The driver was stunned when he saw it,
"Who gave birth to a child!"
later confirmed that Wang Ke had a serious withdrawal reaction , which was very dangerous for drug-dependents. His heart had stopped beating that time, which was equivalent to half of his death.
Wang Ke, who became famous at a young age, was once called " Beijing Four Young Masters " with Wang Xiaofei, Wang Yu , and Wang Shuo.
Now these four top rich second generations, Wang Yu retired to the world for love, Wang Shuo illegally held a gun and was jailed, Wang Xiaofei! ?
Everyone has also seen Wang Xiaofei's messy days.
In comparison, Wang Ke, who is addicted to drugs, is doing well with the support of Liu Tao.
Wang Ke also had a net worth of 10 billion yuan at his peak. His credit card arrears of 2.6 million yuan was sued by the Beijing Branch of Guangfa Beijing;
owed him another 6.6 million yuan to Ms. Xie and was sued in court.
The life of rich people is really hard to describe.
is like the Xiao S who has been bitten by Wang Xiaofei these two days. Over the years, the screen image has been a celebrity hot mom who loves to speak yellow, eats male star tofu, and makes a lot of money. Who knows that she is a heartbreaking woman who can only fall asleep with sleeping pills every day.
The only thing the poor people are worried about is "What should I do if I don't have money?"
Rich people are different. Some people are busy transferring their money to all over the world because they make too much money, and they are busy using their brains to buy products. If they are accidentally cheated, they will jump off the building if they fail to invest. It's so miserable! ⌓‿⌓
As ordinary as you and me, you have no way to feel the happiness of rich people, so you have to watch the pain of these super rich people, and let us have some fun with a monthly salary of 3,000!
2 He Chaoying : Schizophrenia
In 2004, a woman with gray hair and wearing large children's clothing attracted people's attention on the streets of Hong Kong.
She is so scattered that she is haggard, but her face is filled with an indescribable innocent expression.
No one would have thought that this woman is the jewel of gambling king Stanley Ho’s pearl in his hand, and He Chaoying, who has been pampered by thousands of people.
She and her younger brother Ho Youguang was once considered "the most beautiful children of the gambling king."
He Chaoying was versatile when she was young, good at painting and outstanding taste. She studied in Switzerland and the UK.
She originally had a good impression of Ho Zhenting and and was a business partner. Both families intend to get along.
However, as Stanley Ho and Ho ying-tung become enemies due to the dispute over equity , the two families also get along with each other.
Ho Zhenting married Hong Kong sister Zhu Jingjing, and Ho Chaoying married the son of Hong Kong funeral tycoon Xiao Baicheng .
In this marriage, He Chaoying lived a very unhappy life.
Two people without emotional foundation are tied together by family marriage. They are both young masters and ladies in the family. They quarrel and refuse to give in to each other, and Xiao Baicheng is romantic.
In 1981, He Chaoying ended this marriage that made her feel very humiliated and returned to her parents' home with her daughter Xiao Wenzheng .
She originally planned to devote herself to her career and start everything over the beginning.
Who would have thought that things are unpredictable?
Shortly after her divorce, her younger brother He Youguang and his wife were suddenly in a car accident in Lisbon, Portugal, and both died.
Stanley Ho was hit hard when he heard the bad news of his eldest son. The Li Wanhua , who had been bedridden for many years, made even worse and almost collapsed.
Under multiple blows, He Chaoying developed a serious disgust for the real world, and she had always wanted to find out the truth about her brother's car accident.
He Chaoying left Hong Kong with her 3-year-old daughter Xiao Wenzheng and began a wandering life around the world.
20 years, they have lived in more than 20 countries and have never returned to Macau.
Until 2004, Li Wanhua died.
He Chaoying, who appeared in front of people, became that way. It is said that she suffered from a strange epidemic and could not be cured.
Her mind and behavior returned to her childhood, staying in Disney hotels all year round, and she loves pink and desserts.
Xiao Wenzheng took care of his mother intimately. She explained:
"Mom is just too thin, so she wears children's clothing."
Is it?
In psychology, this phenomenon of He Chaoying is called " degeneration ".
"regression" is a psychological defense mechanism.
refers to adults who consciously or unconsciously show inappropriate behavior that does not match their current age when encountering special circumstances, such as huge blows or serious anxiety.
's purpose is to make yourself pay attention or help through childish behavior, so that you can be in a relatively safe environment and all the requirements you put forward can be met.
In other words, she created a fairy tale world like she was as carefree as she was a child, with love for her parents and harmonious family, and the cruelty of escaping reality.
In 2007, He Chaoying was knocked down by a three-year-old child in the cafe of Grand Hyatt Hotel. After the other party’s mother apologized, she suddenly stepped on the boy’s left foot. After
, He Chaoying was charged with "ordinary assault".
In court, psychiatrists confirmed that Ho Chaoying suffered from severe schizophrenia .
In 2014, Ho Chaoying died of illness in Hong Kong Health Hospital at the age of 67. The cause of death was a blood vessel explosion.
Before her death, both kidneys were necrotic and were tortured by illness.
Her father, Stanley Ho and several other wives did not appear at the funeral.
He Chaoying's farewell ceremony was the most deserted game in the gambling king family. No one in the family came forward, and it was Huo Zhenting who took the lead in completing it.
After she left, there was not even a tombstone.
3 Depression
Depression is the most common mental illness among rich people, no one.
participated in Xi Mengyao in " Happiness Trio ". For the first time, he revealed on the show that he had been tortured by postpartum depression .
Xi Mengyao, after becoming a mother, caught her off guard with all kinds of melancholy emotions.
She often inexplicably anxious: she was worried that her child would treat the nanny as a mother, and she was worried that she would fight with the nanny and fight...
At that time, she was a mother for the first time and was very panicked, thinking that the child loved the nanny more and did not love her, and cried anxiously at home.
He Youjun thinks she is pretentious and makes such an exaggerated thing for this little thing.
In fact, postpartum depression is like this. Every time you feel sad, it looks like a pretentious thing. In the eyes of others, you are just a woman who makes trouble. Only you know:
You may collapse because of the crying of your child, or you may despair because of a husband’s unintentional words. Behind every incomprehension is the double test of physiological and psychological.
Fortunately, Xi Mengyao's husband He Youjun faced this problem. He turned from a cold and academic master into a childish ghost, making Xi Mengyao happy at any time, and helping Xi Mengyao get out of the shadow of depression.
And another Hong Kong giant is not that lucky.
Cai Jiaying , the second daughter of Hong Kong toy king Cai Zhiming .
Her father is worth US$8 billion and is also a famous figure in Hong Kong.
Her younger brother Cai Jiazan married Donnie Yen sister-in-law Wang Yuanyuan , and spoiled his wife to heaven.
But when Cai Jiazan was in middle school, one day he found that his second sister didn't come out for breakfast and lunch.
He thought something was wrong and went to his second sister's room to check it out, but there was no response when he knocked on the door.
Cai Jiazan broke into the door and saw his second sister lying in the cloakroom with a tin foil charcoal stove next to it.
Cai Jiaying shows no sign of life.
is only 26 years old.
Later, Cai Zhiming explained to everyone that his second daughter has always suffered from depression.
, and it is speculated that Cai Jiaying was troubled by the scandal of her father Cai Zhiming and TVB actress Chen Miaoying.
Cai Jiaying’s eldest sister Cai Jiamin said in an interview that Cai Jiaying began to be troubled five years ago and needed regular psychiatric treatment, because she strives for perfection and has difficulty in resolving her heart knot, resulting in a tragedy eventually.
Cai Jiazan also had emotional problems for a long time because she witnessed her sister's death.
Cai Jiaying's funeral, her parents were deeply saddened by the death of her beloved daughter.
April 1 that year was also the day when my brother Leslie Cheung left.
4 Trauma sequelae
Hong Kong's second largest wealthy family, the eldest son of Xingongli Real Estate Development Co., Ltd. Guo Bingxiang , after being kidnapped in 1997, his life was worse than death.
Sun Hung Kai 's market value once exceeded Li Ka-shing's Cheung Shi. The difference is that Li Ka-shing has the final say, Sun Hung Kai has three sons.
The three sons of the Guo family are not idiots. They not only inherited their father's career well, but also carried forward it better. They once became role models in the industry as successful cases of family business inheritance.
Guo Bingxiang, Guo Bingjiang , Guo Binglian are all of them of similar age, both from prestigious schools, and they are all doctoral students per capita, so the three of them are good brothers who support each other on the surface, but in fact, no one is convinced by each other.
In 1997, Guo Bingxiang was unfortunately kidnapped by Zhang Ziqiang , code-named "Big Rich Man", which is different from Li Zeju . The negotiations between the Guo family and the kidnappers were in a stalemate. Guo Bingxiang himself has a very tough temper, so he suffered a lot.
was trapped in a small black box that could not stand up and squat down for seven days. They were eating, drinking, defecating and urinating inside, and suffered heavy damage to their body and mind.
The worst thing is that he suspects his family is unwilling to save him back.
Because Guo’s family has been bargaining with the kidnappers. After Guo Bingxiang was redeemed, he suffered from "manic depression" and was extremely unstable. He continued to treat for more than a year without any effect.
Guo Bingxiang died of in 2018, and his multiple organ failure.
was kidnapped in 1997 and died in 2018. These decades have almost condensed all the depression, grief, anger, struggle and struggle in Guo Bingxiang's life.
He has been in a state for a long time and cannot get close to anyone.
Postscript:
The hot search S in the past two days, and he also suffered from depression and was accompanied by anorexia.
Because Big S debuted at the age of 17, she has lived under the spotlight of since she was a child, and her every move has attracted much attention.
makes her feel lost in freedom and privacy, and her perfectionist personality makes her suffer from depression and eating disorders.
Xiao S once joked, "I'm afraid that Big S will kill her with a knife."
, and Big S even responded, "If you want to kill, kill your mother first."
Later, Big S spent more than a year fighting depression, striving not to be controlled by the inner demon, and then slowly got better.
Look at it, the life of rich people is not that happy, and the life of ordinary people can actually be very happy.
We cannot wait for others to understand our emotions as time goes by. If you need help, you must speak up bravely.
Of course, every time I see such a rich person not having a good life, I will be much better!
