Someone asked, what does adult love look like?
There are many kinds of love, but in my opinion, adult love is not only unforgettable romance, but more about respect, maturity, and rationality.
In domestic dramas, we have seen too many idol drama-like love. Their love is vigorous and romantic scenes, but their love is also missing the truth of adult love.
But last night's finale " Thank you Doctor " gave me different warmth.
"Thank you Doctor" is a medical care drama starring Yang Mi and Bai Yu and Bai Yu . Through the stories of doctors and patients, we show the warmth and coldness of the world.
However, this drama leaves behind a hidden and surging emotional line in many medical plots, allowing the audience to see that adult love is so rational, restrained and affectionate.
In the love of adults, respect is a good medicine.
Xiao Yan (played by Yang Mi) was a field doctor. However, in an accident, his fiancé, who had been in love for many years, collapsed in a foreign land where wars were raging.
From then on, that almost perfect lover who could not love will always remain in Xiao Yan's heart.
Xiao Yan hid all the pain in his heart, came to his fiance's hometown, Shanghai, and to the emergency department of Tongshan Hospital, where Xiao Yan and Bai Zhu (played by Bai Yu) met.
Xiao Yan has a high medical level and is rational in doing things. He always puts the needs of patients first. As she works together for a longer time, Atractylodes is deeply attracted by Xiao Yan.
But after getting along with each other, although Xiao Yan’s story has never been clearly stated, Bai Zhu still guessed Xiao Yan’s hidden pain and secrets.
Adult love does not need to be thoroughly asked. Bai Zhu did not force Xiao Yan to respond to him. He only said one sentence, "People always have to look forward" - he gave Xiao Yan enough respect.
In the love of adults, understanding is a redemption.
White moonlight is so beautiful, how could Xiao Yan immediately forget the white moonlight and fall in love with Atractylodes?
But Atractylodes also are so warm and sincere. How could Xiao Yan's heart not be moved?
In this process of warming up relationship, how to deal with Xiao Yan’s relationship with Atractylodes and Bai Yueguang, “Thank you Doctor” brings us textbook-like answers.
Xiao Yan and Atractylodes cured one patient after another together, and Xiao Yan of course noticed Atractylodes' surging love.
But the injured corner in her heart made her unable to accept Bai Zhu's love, so she chose to ask Bai Zhu out and reject him directly.
This is how adults deal with love. She did not drag and waste it because she did not want Atractylodes to continue to misunderstand, so she made a mature treatment.
. Bai Zhu did not stick to her, and he never crossed the line again because he understood Xiao Yan's decision, and this understanding was also a redemption for Xiao Yan.
The ambiguous relationship between Xiao Yan and Bai Zhu is more a bit too fucked and less a bit too frivolous.
Xiao Yan did not come out of the lost love, but Bai Zhu's love is too hot, how could Xiao Yan not be moved?
"Thank you Doctor" uses restrained shots and considerate behaviors between Xiao Yan and Atractylodes to show the ambiguity of the extreme pull between them.
Atractylodes gave Xiao Yan enough patience. He was waiting for him to let go of the past. The love of adults is not as romance as romantic as the romance of flowers, but it gives people a sense of security.
After seeing the patient's separation and death, Xiao Yan was finally willing to take off the wedding ring from his neck. The love used to be beautiful, but people should look forward.
But how could Xiao Yan face up to his love for Atractylodes?
Putting down the white moonlight does not mean that Xiao Yan is willing to accept the love of Bai Zhu. She still decided to leave Tongshan Hospital and return to Switzerland.
But an accident happened again. Atractylodes rushed into the breakfast shop where the explosion occurred for rescue, and encountered a second explosion.
Xiao Yan saw the injured Atractylodes and felt the fear of parting with her lover again. She finally realized that Atractylodes is so important!
She said to Atractylodes: "I'll wait for you to come back."
This is the love of adults. It is forbearance and restraint, and it is more full of respect and understanding.
Did Xiao Yan wait for Atractylodes in the end? Can she gain happiness this time?
In fact, the finale of Tencent Video and iQiyi last night, but I don't want to spoil it - if you also want to understand or revisit it, then welcome to 19:30 CCTV-8 prime time to watch the love finale of Xiao Yan and Atractylodes!
