Almost all women believe that: The real difficulty in marriage is not the relationship between husband and wife, but the irreconcilable relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But this is a complete exception to some women.
Xie Lingling , a child star in the 20th century, won the 4th Golden Horse Award for Best Child Star and the 13th Asian Film Festival at the age of 10. It is called a "genius child star".
Of course, what makes Xie Lingling the most famous is that she successfully performed the role of "Wanjun" in Qiong Yao's drama "Wanjun's Cousin".
In those days, those who were recognized by Qiong Yao and who played the heroine of Qiong Yao drama would become popular without exception.
The same is true for Xie Lingling. At the age of 18, she participated in the Qiong Yao role selection . With her cute, beautiful and lovely appearance, she became the best candidate for "Wanjun" in Qiong Yao's eyes. After becoming famous as
, Xie Lingling became an unshakable actress in the actress circle, and her career has been bright since childhood.
"There was a child star in Taiwan who played Tang Baoyun 's childhood. She was both cute and good at acting. It was a sensation at that time. She was Xie Lingling, and I was very envious."
At that time, Lin Qingxia had a dream of being an actor, but she had not yet become famous. For stars like Xie Lingling, she was completely looking up to her. shows how famous Xie Lingling is.
Of course, it is one thing that Xie Lingling has good acting skills. Her most famous thing is her beauty.
Qiong Yao once said: "(Xie Lingling) is surprisingly beautiful, as beautiful as a dream. Her fair skin is almost transparent, and she looks like a work of art carved with crystals."
Although this is a bit exaggerated, it is enough to give people imagination.
Xie Lingling's beauty was so radiant at that time, and it was so fascinating.
As the second generation of Taiwan’s rich Lin Jianyue , he naturally could not be immune. When he saw Xie Lingling’s true face, he fell into the quagmire of love almost without any resistance.
Lin Jianyue is the son of Lin Baixin rd wife Yu Baozhu . He studied abroad and is famous for his fickleness.
It is said that he wanted to get married when he was only 20 years old, and the person he wanted to marry was Niu Niu, who was famous in the entertainment industry at that time. At one time, Lin Jianyue and Niu Niu got engaged, and it was obvious that good things were going to happen.
But at this time, Niu Niu and Lin Jianyue had ideological differences: I will continue my acting career even if I get married, and I will never be a full-time housewife.
How could Lin Jianyue accept it? As a young man from a wealthy family, he should not let his wife smile outside and show it to others. So, after the two argued, they broke up.
Lin Jianyue was single for several years, and his experience in studying abroad made him even more arrogant. Of course, he has become more fickle and romantic, and pursuing girls of all kinds is one of his fun.
At this moment, Xie Lingling, who was so red that she turned purple, appeared.
A woman who is so beautiful that a man's heart beats faster, successfully made Lin Jianyue "snatch the gun": I insist on marrying Xie Lingling as my wife.
How come Xie Lingling has never heard of Lin Jianyue's name? She couldn't believe this playboy, not to mention that he is one year younger than him . Such a marriage really makes her lack of confidence.
Lin Jianyue, however, expressed his determination not to hold on to the beauty and never look back in this matter. tried every day to make Xie Lingling happy, give gifts, surprises, care and love.
In fact, every unmarried girl is the same. is often easily lost in the face of earnest pursuit.
Xie Lingling has never been in love. At a young age, she was naturally moved by Lin Jianyue's strong pursuit of offensive.
1980, 23-year-old Lin Jianyue and 24-year-old Xie Lingling formed the Qin and Jin dynasties. The grand wedding was a major event in the entertainment industry at that time.
Xie Lingling fell in love with her and never thought of a way out. She went out of the entertainment circle and entered the family circle, and since then she became a full-time housewife.
The scenery of the former goddess was completely erased and she became an expert in giving birth to a baby in seconds.
0 years, Xie Lingling gave birth to five children for Lin Jianyue, including two sons and three daughters.
Even as a wealthy wife, this behavior of giving birth to a baby has destroyed Xie Lingling's own beauty.
Every year, either on the way to have children or in the world of accompanying children, Xie Lingling couldn't let Lin Jianyue, the "little bee" in the flower bush, stop for too long.
When Xie Lingling gave birth to children, Lin Jianyue started an indulgent life. is with other women every day, and is not at all concerned about going out.
Xie Lingling saw it and remembered it in her heart, but she was still traditional, thinking that true marriage comes from tolerance for the other party and her own strong patience.
"As long as he doesn't admit the scandals in the newspaper in person, as long as he goes home, as long as he can make me stand in front of outsiders."
Xie Lingling will never pursue it. She wants to endure it in that marriage.
This reminds us of a person, Liu Luanxiong 's original Bao Yongqin .
A woman who doesn’t want to expose her husband’s phone call with other women at home and doesn’t “carry” her ultimate fate can only be to be ignored by others.
Fortunately, Xie Lingling was not idle either. Her husband was spending time outside, so she entered the Lin family company and started to manage.
Moreover, at this time, people discovered that in the eyes of her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu, she was truly a daughter-in-law who was "like treasures and pearls".
Yu Baozhu personally taught Xie Lingling to manage her business and took her from various commercial places. She is young and smart, and she can learn these things at once, which makes Yu Baozhu feel deeply relieved.
Xie Lingling got Yu Baozhu's personal transmission and began to shine in the business world.
Lin Jianyue has exposed another scandal: she lives with the new star Wang Zuxian . In order to please Joey Wong, he spent 30 million yuan to buy a villa for him.
As soon as the news came out, the image of the Lin family was greatly affected, and Joey Wong was also questioned by the outside world. But this is not the most important , because Xie Lingling, as the most innocent person in this matter, has become the person who is most injured.
Ginger is still old. Yu Baozhu took the lead in the face of her son's mischief and took the initiative. At the press conference, she called out to the media: "I just think my son spends 30 million to summon prostitutes."
Now the entertainment industry is blown up, and Joey Wong is destined to be unable to stay any longer and go straight to a foreign land. But Xie Lingling also realized: if doesn’t divorce, she will only have other people’s sympathy.
In 1995, Xie Lingling decisively proposed to divorce Lin Jianyue.
At that time, Lin Jianyue didn't want to divorce at all. Unexpectedly, even his old mother turned against him and stood on the verge of Xie Lingling: I'll come forward to find a lawyer to help you with a divorce lawsuit! Is a mother-in-law like
? Are they wise or wise? It is estimated that many women who saw Yu Baozhu's behavior directly asked to hang a small yellow car, right?
Lin Jianyue, under the double attack of his mother and wife, signed the divorce agreement : gave 400 million Hong Kong dollars to Xie Lingling, and all five children followed her mother.
Xie Lingling obviously took a decisive approach in her marriage. Her husband was not trapped, but she used her charm to trap her mother-in-law. What fate did you cultivate in your previous life? It's incredible.
A woman’s confidence can only come from herself. After Xie Lingling’s divorce, she not only became a strong woman in business, but also raised all her five children to be excellent.
However, she never touched marriage again. After quitting from the halo of "Mrs. Lin", she became a real single nobleman, devoted herself to doing business and doing charity. She could improve her qualities if she had time.
Now she is 66 years old and has long reached the age of enjoying her life and rarely appears in front of the media. However, her successful self-management method has become a model of women's self-improvement, making her a real winner in life.
