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Before I went to Shanghai, Ye Liyi was singing a special "theme song" for Shanghai in Hong Kong across the mountains and seas.
"The waves are running, the waves are flowing, and the surging rivers never stop..."
Since then, people are hard to separate from each other.
transmission rate is so high that even foreign singers who don’t know how to Chinese can hum a few words like a decent one.
It’s just a pity that she, who looks bright and beautiful, was suffering from “inhuman” behind her back.
To get rid of the "shackle" of my mother
Ye Liyi was born in Malaysia in 1984.
Like most families, parents are ordinary employees and dream of their children being successful, and Ye Liyi is no exception.
At the wishes of her parents, she was "forced" to enter a school that could only speak English.
School regulations: Whether it is a teacher or a student, whether it is a classroom or a free activity, all must speak English.
exaggerated and unrealistic, so Ye Liyi also "disdains" about this.
But soon she encountered the "iron fist" of campus pickets:
"The campus speaks Chinese and is fined 0.5 yuan per sentence."
Not long after, Ye Liyi's lunch money was fined.
can't speak English and cannot ignore lunch. In the end, Ye Liyi simply became a "dumb".
not only does not speak in class, but also just smiles when meeting a teacher on campus.
However, I can escape for a while, but I can't escape for a lifetime. The decline in
's scores made the teacher quickly notice this "little mute". In order to make her open her mouth, she threatened her directly:
"If the grades in the next semester drop, they will pick up the bedding and leave."
had no choice but to work hard.
entered the top ten from the countdown to the top ten, from the top ten to the top five, and was about to graduate, and he firmly sat in the throne of the class monitor with his excellent grades.
It’s a pity that even if the grades are excellent, they cannot escape the fate of being a worker on the assembly line. The reason is very simple:
competition is too fierce.
After graduation, you didn’t go to the assembly line to work as a worker. If you weren’t really strong or you were lucky.
and Ye Liyi is obviously the second type.
"coincidentally" encountered bank recruitment, and "coincidentally" stood out from more than one hundred people. After
, she started her two-point and one-line life from home to work every day, which was very dull and boring.
In order to make life interesting, she will hold parties with some music-loving peers in her spare time, play freely in the party, and have fun.
and this also allowed her to gain the first marriage in her life.
The other party’s surname is Yu, who is eight years older than Ye Liyi. The same interests and hobbies make the two people dating more frequently. After
, Ye Liyi, who had just fallen in love, resolutely married Mr. Yu despite her parents' opposition.
Of course, in addition to falling in love over time, the main reason why Ye Liyi married him desperately was her mother's restraint.
Whether it is an adult or a minor, Ye’s mother is very strict in governing Ye Liyi.
You must get home before 10 o'clock in the evening. You cannot go out to live by yourself, you cannot wear heavy makeup, and you cannot stay at night...
Such love makes Ye Liyi breathless.
So, she thought of getting married and wanted to start her own business and get rid of her mother's shackles.
just made her never imagined that the man she was going to spend the rest of her life with actually had two faces.
Before marriage, mature and steady, not only will she take care of her emotions, but she will also tolerate her temper, but she will change immediately as soon as she gets married.
Ye Liyi was very disappointed, but she had no choice but to focus her life on her work.
22 years old, with the encouragement of friends, Ye Liyi participated in the "Sound Treasure Night" held by TVB.
originally just wanted to try it out, but unexpectedly, he passed the hurdles and won the championship.
Later, she quit her job and signed a record company. Later, she made a big splash and became a top singer in Hong Kong with the song " Shanghai Beach ".
How popular is this song?
is so popular that as long as there is a performance, she will not be able to get off the stage if she doesn’t sing this song.
and so later she said:
"I have sung this song at least tens of thousands of times, especially after the TV series is broadcast, as long as there is a performance, the audience must order this song. If they don't sing it, they will not be able to get off the stage."
However, her career is smooth, it is unbearable to be sad in life.
Disasters never happen: Divorce and cancer
Unlike many female celebrities, Ye Liyi did not give up her career because of her family.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this that her first marriage came to an end.
Mr. Yu rejected Ye Liyi as a singer. In his opinion, women should be honest in taking care of their husbands and children at home and should not show up all day long.
Ye Liyi disagreed.
She disagrees with her husband's ideas and does not want to give up the career she has worked hard to break out because of her husband.
Different views and disagreements in personality, the conflict between the two is becoming increasingly greater.
Later, even though Ye Liyi was exhausted from the hospital due to work pressure, Mr. Yu ignored him.
The thoughtfulness and gentleness at the time of Ye Liyi's choice of career all became a passing cloud.
In the end, the two divorced and never met ever since.
After the divorce, Mr. Yu took his son back to his hometown, and Ye Liyi went to London for her career.
is also here. She started the second spring of her life and met a man named David.
If you have to use an item to describe it, the most appropriate thing in my opinion is: candle.
burned itself and illuminated others.
Just in his first year of meeting, he was willing to give up his future for Ye Liyi:
"I want to be your agent."
Before Ye Liyi could speak, he continued:
"Although I work stable, I don't have many opportunities to be promoted. Instead of doing a job that can see the future at a glance, it's better to do my best to help you."
Ye Liyi was a little hesitant because she didn't know what her future development would be, but when she saw the man's firm eyes, she nodded in a strange way. After
, the two lived and struggled together, and friendship gradually sublimated into love as time goes by.
However, the two who fell in love did not enter the marriage hall as soon as possible, but waited until Ye Liyi's career stabilized before she officially got married.
has a successful career and gets along well with her second-married husband. It’s a pity that the two do not have their own children.
On the one hand, it is because she is old and has risks of giving birth at an advanced age;
On the other hand, it is because of her bad habits when she was young, which has caused her physical condition to decline rapidly and it is difficult to get pregnant.
The husband advised her to calm down and let everything go, but she was eager to give him a complete home.
Natural conception cannot be done, so artificial test tube.
From the age of 36 to 42, Ye Liyi tried four test tube fertilizations.
Every time an embryo is implanted, Ye Liyi feels that there is a little life in her belly, so she is extremely careful whether she is sitting or walking.
However, every test tube ends in failure.
Just as she wanted to continue trying, a bad luck suddenly came to her.
was diagnosed with cancer and was diagnosed with
1996, 48-year-old Ye Liyi went to the hospital for examination as usual, but was told by the doctor that she had "breast cancer".
Suddenly, she felt that there was nothing in her world.
Faced with life, she had no confidence and even complained about the injustice of fate to herself.
She complained about the world and tried to spend her whole life in a sluggish state, but her husband and son gave her endless warmth.
They accompany each other day and night and take care of them with all their hearts, which made Ye Liyi's heart burst into a strong desire to survive.
To prevent the cancer from spreading, the doctor advised Ye Liyi to cut off the right breast.
Losing breasts means completely losing the qualification to be a mother.
This is a huge challenge for any girl, let alone Ye Liyi, who is eager to give birth to a child for her husband?
But she did not hesitate and resolutely accepted the doctor's advice. Although
eventually defeated the disease, the impact of cancer on emotions and his son's lifelong event made Ye Liyi suffer from depression .
She smiled on weekdays and cried all day long during that time, and even the door was unwilling to go out.
She trapped herself in the darkness and tried to escape from the world.
symptoms became more and more serious, and her husband had to take her to the hospital again:
"Severe depression, follow her at home and avoid her self-harm."
Afterwards, he put away all the sharp things in the house and smoothed all the edges and corners.
In addition, David takes her wherever she goes, even when she goes to the bathroom.
Three years of nursing and care have helped Ye Liyi get out of the troubles of the disease.
However, after defeating the disease, new troubles also follow.
The husband's spine began to degenerate, causing his left leg to be unable to move and could only rely on a wheelchair;
The newborn grandson was diagnosed with brain cancer. Although he recovered his health after surgery, it affected his intelligence.
Later, in order to better take care of the family, Ye Liyi chose to fade out of the stage and settle in Australia with her family.
According to Ye Liyi, when they were in Australia, they lived upstairs and downstairs, she and her husband lived upstairs, and her son and daughter-in-law's family lived downstairs.
At the beginning, everyone often gathered together to have dinner, but later the epidemic was severe and they had to separate.
"We can't sit together to eat, so we will find a way, either I cook and take it to their door, or they cook and put it in our door, and then everyone will start a video to eat."
When talking about the grandchildren, Ye Liyi smiled even more happily.
She said that she and her granddaughter were learning from each other. She taught her granddaughter Chinese and taught her granddaughter to sing "Shanghai Band", while she followed her granddaughter to watch videos to learn cooking.
As for the grandson, he was diagnosed with cerebral palsy at birth. He is still 12 years old and still can't speak or walk.
However, Ye Liyi and her husband are no longer with their grandchildren, because in June this year, she went to London to visit relatives with her husband.
It would be fine if I didn’t go, but both of them were diagnosed as soon as I went.
"Maybe it is because of the time difference, the resistance has become weaker." Ye Liyi said.
Fortunately, the two of them were vaccinated and did not feel very uncomfortable after the diagnosis, and they recovered on the fourth day.
Conclusion
Ye Liyi is unfortunate because she has experienced too many illnesses.
But at the same time, she was also lucky because she met her second husband, who accompanied her through all kinds of ups and downs.
Finally, I hope Ye Liyi will live a healthy and healthy family.
