"Because I have been wet with the rain, I always want to hold an umbrella for others."
There are many celebrities who do charity. Some people just make shows, while others have suffered themselves. After they have the ability, they want to do their best to make others live a better life. This is true for the well-known actor Sun Li .
Sun Li debuted for many years and has starred in classic film and television works such as " Jade Guanyin " , " Happiness is like a flower " , , " New Shanghai Beach " " "
has won many awards representing honors and strengths.
career is obvious to all, and the relationship is favored by God. Unfortunately, I met a ungrateful wolf in the public welfare undertaking that I have devoted myself to for many years.
Sun Li was once bitten by the ungrateful wolf who had been sponsored for four years and posted a 6,000-word long article to complain,
Why did Xiang Haiqing, a poor student who had sponsored for many years, do something to repay kindness and revenge? How is he doing now?
Although Sun Li is now glamorous, there are tears behind the scenery. She has a wonderful life, but she has an unfortunate childhood.
In 1982, Sun Li was born in an extremely ordinary working family in Shanghai. Her birth made this not-wealthy family worse.
The family is too poor. Her parents often quarrel over money and chatter every now and then. Fortunately, her mother has always been very nice to her and has never vented her complaints about her father on Sun Li.
The long-term care of her mother also deeply infected Sun Li, planting a seed of kindness in her heart.
When she was 13 years old, her father swept the mother and daughter out and threw 2,000 yuan to her mother, which was considered Sun Li's support.
After her parents divorced, Sun Li lived with her mother for 7 years without a fixed place. She often had a meal but no meal.
Fortunately, she had a good mother who took everything with her own strength, blocked most of the storm for Sun Li, and protected the kindness in her heart, and did not make Sun Li lose hope for human nature due to misfortune in childhood.
The hard work of life has tempered Sun Li's strong consistency, laying the groundwork for her to show her strength in the entertainment industry.
In 2001, Sun Li participated in the draft in Singapore , winning the second place as a dark horse, and was able to officially debut.
Years, Sun Li went to Kunming to shoot her first TV series in her life, "Jade Guanyin". During the filming, she happened to see the documentary "Hope in the Mountains".
documentary mainly records the stories of children with good character and academic performance in 8 poor areas and 51 poor families working hard to read.
Sun Li was attracted by one of them who did not surrender to fate for her dream and was full of ambition in the rural boy Xiang Haiqing.
After reading his story, Sun Li recalled her experience and felt compassionately.
When she was talking to her mother, she wanted to fund this boy who touched her deeply.
Sun Li's mother is also the kind of person who "has obviously not satisfactory life, but cannot stand the suffering of the world".
The mother and daughter hit it off and decided to fund Xiang Haiqing and pay attention to his growth throughout the process. The original intention was to do their best, hoping that he could be self-reliant and self-reliant and achieve a career.
As a star, Sun Li is not convenient to take over, and most of the subsequent remittances and funding are completed by her mother.
Under Sun Li's arrangement, the mother quickly obtained relevant information from Xiang Haiqing from the program team. The mother and daughter did not drag on the slightest.
Starting from May 2002, Sun Li and her daughter began to provide public welfare funding for Xiang Haiqing for four years.
In fact, when she started filming, Sun Li didn’t have much working capital, and the money she gave Xiang Haiqing was saved by saving money.
Xiang Haiqing, who just learned that he was sponsored by a kind-hearted person, had tears in his eyes and was grateful. He vowed to study hard and repay the kind-hearted person in the future.
Unfortunately, Xiang Haiqing gradually forgot his original intention and transformed the touching story that was originally "a drop of water should be repayed with a spring of water" into a realistic version of "farmer and snake".
Sun Li regularly sends 500 yuan to Xiang Haiqing every month, promising to fund him until he graduated from university.
She said that she did it. Even if she was busy filming, even if she forgot to eat and if she was sick, she never forgot to take medicine.
In addition to financial support, Sun Li will also write letters to communicate with Xiang Haiqing, ask about learning situations, understand the trivial matters of life, and care about everything in detail. Rather than funding, it is actually more like a sister to a younger brother.
Perhaps Sun Li, who has eyes and kind-hearted, soon became popular in the film and television industry. The TV series "Jade Guanyin" made its debut overnight, helping Sun Li successfully win many awards such as the most popular actress and the most popular TV series actress who is loved by the audience.
career has become popular quickly, and the funding for Xiang Qinghai is still continuing. From the letters, I learned that Xiang Qinghai's mother has made contributions to her family and has suffered from severe asthma .
After that, in addition to remitting money, Sun Li will also considerately send asthma medicine to Xiang Haiqing's mother at a high price.
In a poor state, Xiang Haiqing was far ahead of his academic performance, knowing that he had no choice but to do his best.
After receiving funding from Sun Li and her daughter, his grades did not go further, but instead showed signs of regression, which led to failure in the college entrance examination.
Learning that Xiang Haiqing failed the exam, Sun Li did not give up on her funding, but instead wrote a letter to encourage him, build confidence for him, and let her start over.
After repeating the exam for a year, Xiang Haiqing lived up to Sun Li’s mother’s expectations, and his grades were pretty good, enough to get him into college.
When filling out the application form, Xiang Haiqing applied for Sun Li’s city Shanghai Fisheries University . His initial idea was to facilitate repaying his kindness.
At this time, he had never seen the prosperity of the city, and his heart was as clean as a piece of white paper. But the university is a small society, and there are many comparisons. College students who have just entered the school are easily infected with bad bad trends.
Especially after learning that the person who sponsored him was actually a big star, he developed a "borer" mentality and felt that he had hugged a thigh.
In 2005, on the way to the school to report, Xiang Haiqing proposed to meet his benefactor who had sponsored him for three years.
Sun Li never thought of getting benefits from Xiang Haiqing, but since the child was willing, she couldn't refuse, so she agreed to meet Xiang Haiqing.
There are not many young people who don’t pay attention to celebrity dynamics. When they first saw each other, Xiang Haiqing realized that the big star Sun Li was the one who sponsored him.
I don’t know if it was too touched or if he was excited to see Sun Li, he burst into tears. The 17 or 18-year-old man cried so hard that he was so touching.
Sun Li and her daughter were very pleased to see Xiang Haiqing reacting so much, and mistakenly thought that he was a good child who knew how to be grateful.
When she first went to college, Xiang Haiqing was still calm, studied hard, and worked hard, and wanted to make a breakthrough in Shanghai by relying on his own abilities.
But he was discouraged before the good times lasted. There were too many rich students in Shanghai. He was always frugal, but under the influence of the general environment, he gradually became lost and began to become vain.
Sun Li still sponsored him 500 yuan every month. In the past, 500 yuan could not only meet his daily needs, but also send some home.
Later, he had no money in every few days. At first, he still asked Sun Li and his daughter for tactfulness, but later he became simple and crude, and said directly: "Auntie, the money is gone."
At the beginning, Sun Li and her daughter felt sorry for him, thinking that it was not easy for a poor child, so as long as he spoke, he would send him money without saying a word.
Perhaps it was too easy to ask for money. Xiang Haiqing gradually began to expand, and his former ambition was also left behind.
He went from being a hardworking and studious good student to a decadent young man who lost his ambitions all day and spent playing games in Internet cafes.
He even talked about a girlfriend Friend, to pretend to be a big shot in front of your girlfriend, spend money too much, wear famous brands, spend 1,000 yuan in 10 days, without any concerns.
After a long time, Sun Li and his daughter felt that something was wrong, and funding was not to support him. In order not to make Xiang Haiqing rely too much on the outside world and become a self-reliant person,
So he made a decision to stop funding to Xiang Haiqing.
Help is a love part, not helping is a duty, Sun Li and his daughter do not owe Xiang Haiqing anything, and it is also appropriate to stop funding. Reasonable,
But in Xiang Haiqing's opinion, it is not that true. Sun Li and his daughter's funding is the source of funds to support his "big young master"'s life. After this little money is cut off, how could he buy a famous brand for his girlfriend?
After many negotiations failed, he became angry and directly chose to post a post to "expose" Sun Li and his daughter's "various evil deeds".
Xiang Haiqing's text is extreme. Not only does he not feel indebted, but he feels that Sun Li and his daughter are sorry for him.
He felt that he had a miserable childhood, poor family, and celebrities made money so quickly, so it was natural for him to spend more.
Listen to this, which is really angering. What makes him even more angry is that Xiang Haiqing puts Sun Li some false "big hats".
He also argued that he spent a lot of money because he served as a class committee member in the class. Sun Li and his daughter kindly advised him to resign from the class committee member with the priority of learning, but he misinterpreted it as shameful.
even said that Sun Li and his daughter were kind enough to gain a good reputation and do fake charity. "
When I saw Xiang Haiqing's article, some people thought that his life was pitiful and there were many people who spoke for him.
almost affected Sun Li's acting career. Fortunately, Xiang Haiqing's classmates did not come forward to expose his lies.
revealed that he lived in school and was wearing a name Cards are not as bitter as Xiang Haiqing said, which made public opinion return to Sun Li's side.
The well-known writer Han Han even made a joke: "Ordinary people can't even raise dogs in the city, why can Sun Li raise a "wolf in Shanghai?"
Han Han is worthy of being a young and famous writer. In one word, Sun Li spent 4 years raising an ungrateful wolf.
The truth is revealed to the world, Sun Li and Xiang Haiqing no longer have any intersection, and the two's encounters are very different.
Sun Li's career is still at its peak. She met love in "Happiness is like a flower", starred in " Huo Yuanjia ", won the Hundred Flowers Award Best Newcomer, participated in "New Shanghai Bund" and won the Magnolia Best Actress...
's career is booming, and her family is harmonious. She did not stop doing charity because she was bitten by helping Xiang Haiqing. Instead, she paid more for charity, donated more money, and did more things. Sun Li was on the road to doing charity.
In 2022, it has been 20 years since Sun Li sponsored the ungrateful wolf Xiang Haiqing. Sun Li is still Sun Li, and Xiang Haiqing is no longer the one who spends money and makes a fortune. The truth of the incident was revealed. In order to save face, Xiang Haiqing, who has always been good at face, chose to take a year off to avoid public opinion. During his time at school, alumni sneered at the behavior of ungrateful wolves.
A long article of 6,000 words almost made him lose all his friends. He lived a very lonely college life in the future.
finally survived until graduation. Because of his character, he repeatedly encountered a job search in Shanghai. Later, in order to survive, he returned to his hometown to find a job that could barely make a living.
He also tried to change his destiny through the public exam , but his strength was not good and failed the exam twice.
Gratitude is a science. It is difficult for people who do not know how to be grateful to achieve great things. Even if they achieve success, they will lose everything because of profit-oriented efforts.
What ruined him might not be the 6,000-word long article at all, but his greedy heart that "the snake swallows the elephant in a lack of human heart".
Even after writing a long article, he has always had the opportunity to start over, to revive his mistakes, and to continue moving forward with a grateful heart, and perhaps to seek a good future.
profit-oriented, lose your original aspiration, and be saved if you are broken, but you have no choice.
Xiang Haiqing's ending is true and he deserves it. He can't blame anyone, he can only blame himself.
