"Marry Bai Fumei and reach the pinnacle of life" is what many people think. Of course, imagination is beautiful, but reality is always unsatisfactory. It's not that diaosi can't counterattack, it's just that the chance of a successful counterattack is too low. If diaosi wants to counterattack, she must at least shed her skin.
Diaosi is naturally deficient. Her background, connections, and wealth are all inferior to others. It is difficult to turn over. If you dare not challenge yourself, you will never have a chance to turn around. Those who go from the bottom to success are not very lucky, but they have been settling for a long time before they have a chance to soar into the sky.
In fact, today’s rich people, five, six, seven or eight generations back, are all ordinary people. Some people's foundations were worse than they are now, but after generations of accumulation, they finally turned around and sang. Rich people are not born rich. Diaosi can also counterattack, they just need to let go of some things.
The poorer the people, the more selfish and stingy they are. This is because their foundation is poor and they don’t have many things, so they try their best to grab everything they can. Forging many good karma, sacrificing oneself to help others, and being selfless, for most diaosi, this is more terrifying than killing them.
These people always have this kind of mentality, and they don't care about matters that have nothing to do with themselves. Only by guarding your own one-third of an acre can you protect yourself and not hinder others. However, is this really the case? If you are willing to give up, you will gain something if you give up. If you stick to your wealth like " Grandet", how can you make more money?
Indifference and materialism make it difficult for people to survive in this society. You always have to pay to get something. Therefore, we must learn to smile, and even learn to nod, bow, and flatter others. Only in this way can you make your road wider; if you are stingy with a smile, how can anyone give you money to earn it?
Let go of selfishness, broaden your mind, and make good friends. Only in this way can you have more and more people around you. Know how to give to others, and you will always meet like-minded people. When the time comes, someone will definitely pull you in. A handful. You know, the key to helping others is based on sentiment.
Sometimes, the poorer the people are, the more they care about face. They don’t want to do this or that. It seems that if they do those things, they will lose face. If you can't do the heavy ones, or don't want to do the light ones, there is nothing so good in the world that can make you feel comfortable and make a lot of money while doing it.
There are not many things that really suit your mind. Sometimes you have to let go of your "arrogance" and start with the things you don't want and don't want to do. Let go of the so-called "face" and do well in what you are doing at the moment. Only in this way can you have a chance to encounter something that pleases you.
You must know that if you are in a state where you are neither good enough nor low, and if you still have to be picky, you will definitely have nothing to do for a period of time, and you will also not have a penny of income. In this way, you may think that you have gained the "face" you insist on, but you have lost the foundation of life and the opportunity for precipitation.
When a person is poor, the first thing he has to do is to survive, and he must have a sense of crisis of "being in a hurry and not choosing what to eat". Only when you survive, settle down, and gain a firm foothold will you have the ability and foundation to find better opportunities and get yourself out of the "circle" you once had.
People want face, and trees want bark. Everyone needs face throughout their lives, but face is not given by others, but earned by oneself. After you make money, others will naturally respect you. As Li Ka-shing said: "When you put down your face to make money, it means you are sensible; when you use money to earn back your face, it means you are successful."
There will be no pie in the sky, opportunities are given to everyone. of those who prepare. All successful people never achieve success by waiting, but by taking the initiative. If you want to pick up pies from the floor, you need to get up early. If you want to succeed, you have to fight for yourself.
Windfall may come from the sky, but it may not fall on you. Relatives and friends are well-off, but they are not obligated to help you. If you want a good life, you must work hard yourself.Waiting, relying, and asking will not get you the life you want. Only by persisting in taking action and making continuous progress will your goals be achieved.
Diaosi lacks many things, but this is not destined for life. Destiny gives people the same time and space. Some people go from poor to rich, and some people go from rich to poor. There is luck in this, but more of it is personal dedication. As long as you are willing to work hard, it is never too late.
Live fish swim upstream, while dead fish swim upstream. If you want to counterattack, you need to put in more effort. If you fantasize about "pie in the sky" and others' selfless hands, then fate will not favor you. Diaosi wants to counterattack, get ready to peel off your skin. Suffering from the fire and being reborn in Nirvana may be painful, but the result is great!
