In November 2015, Liu Xiaoqing published his third autobiography, "Life is Not Afraid of Starting Over." At the book launch conference, there was a person who appeared that surprised everyone.

In November 2015, Liu Xiaoqing published the third autobiography "Life is Not Afraid of Starting Over."

At the new book launch conference, there was a person who appeared that surprised everyone.

He is Liu Xiaoqing’s ex-husband, Chen Guojun.

Why do you say that?

Because many people know that they have had great conflicts, so much so that they have not had any intersection in the past 26 years.

Now the two of them are chatting and laughing on the stage. They must have laughed off their grudges after meeting each other.

Although Chen Guojun has directed some good works, his reputation is far less than that of Liu Xiaoqing.

How did these two seemingly incompatible people come together, and how did they become grudges?

. The tremor of the soul

In 1953, Chen Guojun was born in Changchun City, Jilin Province.

His father is a literary and artistic worker who directed plays in the army.

Under such influence, Chen Guojun developed excellent artistic talent since he was a child.

But as he grew up, Chen Guojun was influenced by 's heroic deeds in resisting U.S. aggression and aiding Korea, and determined to become a scout.

After graduating from high school, Chen Guojun joined the army and soon became the technical backbone of the reconnaissance company.

He is already handsome. He is dressed in military uniform and has an extraordinary temperament. He is the center of attention wherever he goes.

Once Chen Guojun went shopping on the street and was discovered by a leader of Changchun Film Studio .

The man thought that with his thick eyebrows, big eyes and majestic air, he was really suitable to be an actor.

So he approached the group leader and asked him to recommend Chen Guojun to take the actor examination at Changying Studio.

Chen Guojun originally didn't want to be an actor, but the leader said "This is an order" and he couldn't shirk it.

In this way, Chen Guojun became a drama actor inexplicably, and his destiny was changed from then on.

After several years of training on the stage, Chen Guojun's acting skills became more and more mature, and he began to slowly explore the film industry.

In 1980, Chen Guojun starred as Xia Yu in the movie "Medicine" and became famous in one fell swoop.

During that time, he also fell in love with his colleague Zhao Yamin.

and not long after, he and four other couples held a collective wedding, which caused a sensation in the local area.

Two years later, Zhao Yamin gave birth to a son for him, and the family of three was very happy.

In the eyes of outsiders, Chen Guojun has a successful career and a stable family. He is a complete winner in life.

But no one could predict that the appearance of a woman completely destroyed the family.

In 1982, Changchun Film Studio was preparing to shoot "Inside the Heart", with Chen Guojun playing the leading actor Zhang Sen.

The heroine Ouyang Lan was played by Liu Xiaoqing, the most popular actress at the time.

Before this cooperation, Chen Guojun had read Liu Xiaoqing's information and works and knew something about her.

Despite this, the scene when the two met for the first time was something Chen Guojun would never forget.

It was in Room 309 of Changying Guest House. After Chen Guojun opened the door, he saw Liu Xiaoqing at first sight.

Liu Xiaoqing was shorter and less beautiful than on the screen. Chen Guojun was a little disappointed.

But when he looked into this woman's eyes, a different feeling arose in his heart.

In Chen Guojun's own words, it is "a tremor of the soul."

From that moment on, Chen Guojun realized that there would definitely be a different story between him and Liu Xiaoqing.

Since they play a couple in the film, they inevitably have to study scripts and play scenes together frequently.

In such an environment, the two gradually became familiar with each other and became friends.

As the communication deepened, they found that they had a common language on many things.

's ideas about acting often coincide with each other, which often makes the two of them overjoyed.

They gradually felt that the other party might be their confidante.

During that time, Chen Guojun's wife and children were not around, and Liu Xiaoqing had just divorced her ex-husband.

It seems that everything in the outside world is creating opportunities for the two of them.

Finally, when the two of them went to perform together in another place, they crossed the last red line.

. Abandoning wife and children just for Liu Xiaoqing

The income of actors in that era was not high. The monthly salary of an actress like Liu Xiaoqing was only 48 yuan.

Therefore, many celebrities participate in acupuncture performances to earn some pocket money when they are not busy.

At that time, an uncle of Chen Guojun was working as a radio director in Harbin and was planning a party.

After he learned that Liu Xiaoqing was filming in Changchun, he wanted to invite Liu Xiaoqing to participate through Chen Guojun's relationship.

After Chen Guojun told Liu Xiaoqing the news, she happily agreed. During the days when

was in Harbin, the two got along day and night, and their relationship became deeper and deeper.

Although neither of them broke through the window paper, each one could feel the other's affection.

In between performances, the organizer sometimes arranges for them to go out for fun.

In the evening, the two of them performed on stage together.

After the performance, they gathered with other actors to enjoy food and chat.

Sometimes the chat was too late and Liu Xiaoqing did not dare to go back to the room alone, so Chen Guojun would send her back.

In Liu Xiaoqing's room, the two of them would chat for a long time, as if they had endless things to say.

Every time, Liu Xiaoqing was so sleepy that he couldn't open his eyes and fell asleep naturally, so Chen Guojun quietly left the room. During that time of

, it was like this almost every day.

Until one day, Chen Guojun did not leave the room, and the two came together naturally...

After Chen Guojun cheated, he knew that he was sorry for his wife and children, but he could not control his heart.

After thinking about it, he decided to divorce his wife.

In that era, the whole society was stricter than now on cracking down on cheating and third parties.

Chen Guojun's divorce request was opposed not only by his family, but also by the entire film studio.

Superiors held more than thirty criticism meetings for Chen Guojun, hoping to stop his wrong behavior.

But he was unmoved and determined to get a divorce.

In the end, Chen Guojun's wife Zhao Yamin had no choice but to let go when she saw no hope of retaining her.

After the divorce, Zhao Yamin did not want to stay in this sad land and took her children abroad.

After this incident, Chen Guojun is no longer suitable to be an actor.

So Liu Xiaoqing found an acquaintance in Beijing and seconded Chen Guojun to Beijing from Changying Theater Company.

At the same time, she also planned the movie "Ruthless Lover" for Chen Guojun, hoping that he would change his career to become a director.

However, because Chen Guojun had never directed a movie and his technical skills could not convince the public, conflicts often occurred within the crew.

Whenever this happens, Liu Xiaoqing, as a producer and starring actor, has to stand up to appease both parties.

But Liu Xiaoqing also had a bad temper, so sometimes he not only failed to persuade Chen Guojun, but also got into trouble and had quarrels with him.

What's even more terrible is that after finally finishing the film, it couldn't be released due to various reasons. More than 200 copies sent by

across the country were all returned to the warehouse, and all money was lost.

Later, Liu Xiaoqing used his connections to get sponsorship, and the couple collaborated on the movie " Qingqing Artillery Squad". Although the film

was released normally, it received a mediocre response due to low reviews from all parties.

Chen Guojun did not become a famous director as he thought.

During that time, Chen Guojun's career hit a low point.

Not only was no one looking for him to act, but no one was looking for him to film. It was as if he had been forgotten by the world.

At the same time, Liu Xiaoqing's career is getting better and better.

The failure of those two films did not have much impact, and she still continued to make film appointments.

As the gap between the two gradually widens, their relationship becomes no longer stable.

Finally, when Liu Xiaoqing was filming "Furong Town", the relationship between the two had an irreparable rift.

. Twenty years of grudges

In 1986, director Xie Jin of Shanghai Film Studio was preparing to film "Furong Town" and invited Liu Xiaoqing to play the lead role of Hu Yuyin.

The male protagonist of the film is Jiang Wen, who has just made his debut. After the

movie was launched, Liu Xiaoqing was filming in Hunan, while Chen Guojun stayed in Beijing to work.

Not long after, Chen Guojun received an anonymous letter telling him that Liu Xiaoqing and Jiang Wen had an improper relationship.

At first, Chen Guojun didn't take it seriously, thinking it was someone's frame-up.

In his opinion, Liu Xiaoqing is 13 years older than Jiang Wen. They are almost a generation apart, so how can they have feelings for each other?

But Liu Xiaoqing's move made Chen Guojun have an uneasy suspicion.

Once, Liu Xiaoqing returned home to Beijing during a break.

Chen Guojun was very happy. He cooked a table of dishes and invited relatives and friends to join her.

After dinner, Liu Xiaoqing did not go back to the room to read, but ran to the bathroom to wash Chen Guojun's clothes.

This is the first time since the two of them got together.

Seeing this behavior, Chen Guojun was very happy on the surface, but he was murmuring in his heart.

contacted the anonymous letter from some time ago. Chen Guojun guessed,

Liu Xiaoqing felt guilty and wanted to use this method to make up for it?

After having this idea, Chen Guojun began to pay attention to Liu Xiaoqing's every move.

He was a scout and had amazing observation skills. Once he got serious, he quickly found evidence at home.

It was a book called "The Story of the Duke of Windsor". It told the story of the male protagonist who gave up his throne for love.

Chen Guojun is a book lover and has a lot of books at home, but he has no impression of this book.

After some speculation, Chen Guojun believed that Jiang Wen had given this book to Liu Xiaoqing, so he confronted her.

Under Chen Guojun's questioning, Liu Xiaoqing admitted that she had had a relationship with Jiang Wen.

Chen Guojun was heartbroken after learning the truth. After leaving a suicide note, he committed suicide by swallowing a large amount of sleeping pills.

Fortunately, Liu Xiaoqing's mother found him in time and sent him to the hospital before rescuing him.

Liu Xiaoqing, who was far away from home at this time, immediately flew back to Beijing to take care of Chen Guojun and promised him that he would not make the same mistake again.

But it’s hard to reconcile a broken mirror, and how can the two people who already have a grudge in their hearts live together as usual?

After this incident, the marriage continued to survive for more than a year, and the two naturally divorced.

As the saying goes, it's easy to get together and get together easily, and if you can't be a couple, you won't become enemies.

But no one expected that a few years later, Chen Guojun and Liu Xiaoqing would become enemies over a book.

In 1995, Liu Xiaoqing was prosperous in the entertainment industry, gaining both fame and fortune.

When she reached middle age, she wrote an autobiography to commemorate the first half of her life. The book naturally mentioned her marriage to Chen Guojun.

The next year, Chen Guojun came across this book called "My Confessions" on the recommendation of a friend.

After reading it, Chen Guojun was very angry by the content in the book.

On the one hand, when he and Liu Xiaoqing divorced, they agreed not to expose the privacy of both parties.

On the other hand, he believed that Liu Xiaoqing distorted his image in the book and blamed his "domestic violence" for the reason for the divorce.

For these two reasons, Chen Guojun felt revengeful and wrote a book "The Story Liu Xiaoqing and I Have to Tell".

It can be said that in that era without the Internet, the two performed a high-level fight against each other.

It was precisely because of this that the two became enemies and had no contact for more than 20 years.

. A "hug" to eliminate grudges

After the divorce, Chen Guojun remained single for a long time and devoted all his energy to his career. The two movies

collaborated with Liu Xiaoqing made him realize that there are still many shortcomings in his abilities.

So he passed the Adult College Entrance Examination and entered the Beijing Film Academy Directing Department for further studies.

After several years of study, Chen Guojun's directing ability improved rapidly and he began to be able to act independently.

After entering the 1990s, domestic movies were in a slump, so Chen Guojun began to make TV series.

In 1995, the TV series "The Woman Who Crossed the River of Men", which he filmed, aroused enthusiastic response after it was broadcast.

After that, Chen Guojun began to focus on the field of crime films and made considerable achievements in this field.

His film "The End" has a score of 9.2 on Douban and is still a landmark work in domestic crime dramas.

In this way, Chen Guojun started his third marriage while enjoying the aura of a famous director.

As an outstanding graduate of Beiying, Chen Guojun is often invited back to school to give lectures to students.

Once, he met a student named Fu Liyun. The two had a very interesting chat and left each other's contact information.

As time went by, the two fell in love.

Because Fu Liyun is 16 years younger than Chen Guojun, her parents do not agree with their relationship.

But the stubborn Fu Liyun identified Chen Guojun, told her parents emotionally and rationally, and finally convinced the two elders.

In 2002, Chen Guojun and Fu Liyun held their wedding in Beijing.

In the third year after her marriage, Fu Liyun gave birth to her son Chen Yonglin, and 52-year-old Chen Guojun became a father again.

In the year of his destiny, Chen Guojun returned to the warm and harmonious family of three, as if everything had returned to its original point.

This experience touched him deeply, and he felt that he could not help his eldest son Chen He.

In order to make up for his debt, he began to contact Chen He and asked him what he wanted to do.

After learning that his son also wanted to be a director, Chen Guojun began to do his best to help him.

not only imparts knowledge and experience to his son, but also opens up contacts and secures resources for him.

With the help of Chen Guojun, Chen He quickly grew into an outstanding director.

father and son also collaborated on works such as " on the Songhua River " and "The Great Tide Cantabile".

The movie " High Speed ​​Rail Testimonial ", which was released in December last year, was also produced by the father and son.

Compared with Chen Guojun, who has a happy family, Liu Xiaoqing's life is somewhat unsatisfactory.

Shortly after her divorce, she was imprisoned for tax evasion, and her relationship with Jiang Wen also ended without a problem. After

was released from prison, she married agent Afeng, but they divorced within a few years.

It was not until 2013 when she married wealthy businessman Wang Xiaoyu that she stabilized.

The huge difference in life paths made Chen Guojun and Liu Xiaoqing think that they would never meet again in this life.

But a program on Hebei Satellite TV caused them to meet unexpectedly.

In 2015, on the stage of " Star Reunion ", Chen Guojun and Liu Xiaoqing met again after many years.

When talking about past experiences, both parties generously admitted that they had made mistakes.

In the end, under the witness of the live audience, the two men hugged each other to resolve their differences.

Chen Guojun was very happy about such a result. In an interview, he said:

"We really loved each other back then. Although the result was not good, I was very happy to reconcile in the end."

Not long after this incident, Liu Xiaoqing's third book The autobiography was published, and Chen Guobin was specially invited to be a guest at the press conference.

On the stage, the two of them were chatting and laughing happily, with no trace of their past grudge.

Now, these former lovers have become true friends.

After experiencing love, hate, anger and obsession, the two of them embarked on completely opposite paths of life.

Compared with Chen Guojun, who now lives a behind-the-scenes life with his wife and children on the hot bed,

Liu Xiaoqing, who has married into a wealthy family, is still active on the short video live broadcast platform.

Not long ago, the 69-year-old Liu Xiaoqing appeared in a live broadcast room to write and sell words on the spot.

With national popularity, Liu Xiaoqing sold a piece of "Fu" with the character "福" for 888 yuan.

While harvesting the feelings of fans , also aroused heated discussion among netizens.

Some netizens said that Liu Xiaoqing is not a master of calligraphy, but the price of his calligraphy is not cheap at all.

Some people even questioned that Liu Xiaoqing is a well-known lady, why is she not enjoying herself at home but going out to make money?

Faced with all kinds of voices, Liu Xiaoqing only said this to reply:

"I have climbed many mountains, but experienced more troughs.

I am very satisfied with my life because I chose the fresh clothes and angry horses I like. "

Perhaps this is a true portrayal of her willful life. Although she has no children, she has finally lived the life she wanted, and her life is not in vain. .

Conclusion

Chen Guojun did not hesitate to abandon his wife and children in order to be with Liu Xiaoqing.

But as the passion faded, this sworn love only lasted less than 6 years before falling apart.

From the perspective of a bystander, you may feel regretful.

But Chen Guojun doesn't think so, because he knows that love never depends on the result, only the process.

Two people who are together because they love each other can also be separated because they don't love each other.

It all happens naturally, anytime, anywhere.

Fortunately, Chen Guojun, who had been wandering around for most of his life, finally realized what he needed.

Because of this, he gained a perfect family in his third marriage.

At the same time, his reconciliation with Liu Xiaoqing filled up the only regret in his heart.

Chen Guojun, now 69 years old, has a harmonious family with many children and grandchildren.

When I think of the absurd life I once had, I will probably just laugh it off!