In 2004, Xiaoxiangyu left Wang Weinian .
How beautiful it is when we are in love, how cruel it is when we are separated. Wang Weinian couldn't wait long.
The following year, Xiao Xiangyu appeared in "A Date with Luyu " and confessed this relationship.
She admitted that she married Wang Weinian because the "price-performance ratio" was higher, and Wang Weinian, a useful man, could solve many problems for her, so she chose him.
As for the reason for the divorce, she did not explain, leaving only one sentence: "That was an unforgettable day."
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In the circle, Xiao Xiangyu and Wang Weinian are both famous figures, but Xiao Xiangyu's starting point is higher.
After all, Xiao Xiangyu was born in a scholarly family, and her grandmother was the king of Henan opera . She donated a fighter jet during the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea.
Grandpa is also a screenwriter of Henan opera . Basically everyone in the family is a practitioner of Henan opera.
Xiao Xiangyu, as the younger member of the family, also inherited Yin Ze from her ancestors, and was disciplined by Chang Xiangyu as her successor.
When everyone else was in elementary school, Xiao Xiangyu was asked by her grandma to recite classic passages from Henan Opera.
Under strict education, Xiao Xiangyu was admitted to Chinese Opera Academy at the age of 12, and became an instant star on the stage at the age of 15.
From then on, Xiao Xiangyu became the successor of Henan Opera.
How good is she? 22 years old, leader of Henan Yu Opera Troupe, earning a lot of money.
In the Henan opera "Mandarin Ducks Playing in the Water", she and Wu Jumin played a couple who fell in love because of the play.
At that time, Xiao Xiangyu was transferred to Shanxi to serve as the leader of the Henan Opera Troupe. Wu Jumin followed him to Shanxi and got married there.
In the first few years of their marriage, the two still loved each other, but the career gap between men and women became more and more obvious, and Wu Jumin also felt a great sense of gap.
The two then continued to quarrel, and finally they chose to divorce.
After falling in love for the first time, Xiao Xiangyu devoted all her energy to her career, building a Hope Primary School, teaching children drama, and living a free life.
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Wang Weinian was born in Taiyuan City, Shanxi Province. Although his family is not passed down from generation to generation like Xiao Xiangyu's family, it can be regarded as a scholarly family.
's father Wang Chengtu is a calligrapher, and his mother is the vice president of Taiyuan Municipal Court.
There are six people in Wang’s family. Wang Weinian has the highest artistic attainments and has been passionate about art since he was a child.
At the age of 14, Wang Weinian was admitted to the Shaanxi Provincial Art School and studied Jin opera for nine years. Because of his excellent academic performance,
was assigned by the school to work in Shanxi Jin Theater.
At that time, he was in his early twenties, handsome and young, and soon became a popular figure in Shanxi Jin Theater.
has a promising career and has attracted the attention of many girls, but he doesn't like it.
Later, his family helped him arrange a marriage. The other party came from his parents' family, and they were childhood sweethearts.
Seeing that the two elders were very happy, Wang Weinian got married to each other in a daze. Both families knew that the wedding was just a formality and very hasty.
But his wife is a smart person, which makes their married life very comfortable.
As his marriage improved, Wang Weinian's career was also affected. Jin Opera He suffered deeply from the narrow audience and the almost marginalized type of drama.
In the end, he chose to change jobs. He happened to see Shaanxi TV station filming Yang Family General, so he went to work as an actor on the crew.
He also got the important role of Yang by accident. With a successful career, he also had a lot of fun with Zhang Jizhong, the actor in "Yang Liulang", and the brotherhood between the two began.
Seeing his career gradually take off and his wife giving him a son, Wang Weinian is full of energy as an actor. When he didn't want to film, his son died unexpectedly, causing a rift in the originally loving family.
In order to make up for his wife, he tried to make more money, and then he appeared in TV series such as Guan Gong and Di Renjie's Legend of Cases.
Unfortunately, his wife felt that acting was an unstable job, and a life of less gathering and more separation also made her very painful. .
In the end, his wife chose to divorce him, and Wang Weinian also chose to clean himself out of the house because of guilt. He has always been full of regrets about this relationship.
03
One is a woman who was delayed by Phoenix Man, and the other is a divorced man full of guilt. How did they get together?
In 1994, Wang Weinian was invited to host the variety show "Entertainment Gate".
His humorous language and outstanding acting talent made this variety show prosperous, and Wang Weinian became a mainstay of the TV station.
Once Xiao Xiangyu went to the TV station to work. When Xiao Xiangyu heard a friend calling her name, he turned around and smiled, and Wang Weinian happened to see this smile. Since then, that beautiful image has never left his mind.
In order to attract Xiao Xiangyu's attention, he always asked the other party various questions abruptly. For example, Xiao Xiangyu received a lot of money for the last episode of the show, and then forced Xiao Xiangyu to glare and ask him "Who is spreading rumors?"
In this way, the two met and naturally became Xiao Xiangyu's friends.
After getting along for a long time, Xiao Xiangyu also found love for each other, and Wang Weinian also regarded Xiao Xiangyu as the only one in his heart.
As soon as she calls, Wang Weinian will run to help her with anything.
As the saying goes, a martyr woman is afraid of being entangled by her husband. Wang Weinian's silent dedication moved Xiao Xiangyu very much. After 6 years of love, the two finally entered the palace of marriage.
After getting married, Xiao Xiangyu devoted all her attention to establishing an art academy and held various social activities almost every day.
Compared with Xiao Xiangyu's career ambition, he is also trying his best to surpass his wife. He dealt with large and small things in the school, and for a while he was too busy to live on campus.
In addition to being a couple, they are also colleagues. Sometimes, they sleep in the same bed and both find it boring.
Moreover, Xiao Xiangyu felt that Wang Weinian was too ambitious and he had to do all the work of eight people.
The busier the work, the more frequent the disputes between the two people will be. The days when each other is not around will plant an invisible bomb for the relationship. In the end both men will be blown to pieces!
In 2004, two seemingly confused people walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau and received divorce certificates .
Although they are divorced, their relationship for many years is still there. Sometimes, when she was sick, Xiao Xiangyu would call him to say hello.
Let’s put it this way, there was a time when everything was difficult to overcome, except for Wushan, it was not a cloud.
A few years later, Xiao Xiangyu fell in love with Fan Zefeng, a die-hard fan. Although the other party is 3 years younger than them, and there are news about old cows eating young grass from time to time, they don't care.
Fan Zefeng loves Xiao Xiangyu very much. For a middle-aged woman, money and wealth are not as important as real care.
I thought happiness was finally coming, but I never thought that Xiao Xiangyu’s physical examination revealed a fibroid in her belly, which had to be removed.
Xiao Xiangyu, who was afraid of surgery, asked the doctor if there was any other method. As a result, the doctor told her that she could choose to have a baby by caesarean section, so that the fibroids could be removed.
Fan Zefeng also agreed with the doctor's opinion, and then they got married, had children, and successfully removed the fibroid.
After having children, Xiao Xiangyu always puts her family first. She even brought her family into the crew during filming, and she was regarded as a truly good Chinese wife.
Where is Wang Weinian? Still alone, alone.
experienced two failed marriages. He gradually understood the routines of the emotional world and became an emotional expert, specializing in guiding young people who are deeply involved in emotional disputes.
Wang Weinian convinced many couples and gained the reputation of "China's No. 1 Matchmaker", but he was still a deserter.
Many people will attribute their marriage to Xiao Xiangyu to his career, but love belongs to two people, and it takes two hands to make a sound.
It stands to reason that both people are wrong. Xiao Xiangyu is considerate of others but not good at listening.
In the final analysis, two people have different definitions of family. One desires love, and the other is more inclined to give!
Therefore, marriage is a profound knowledge, and the balance between family and career must be grasped well, otherwise it will be killing the goose and getting the egg, and the joy will be in vain in the end!
