Foreword Xu Yajun is a well-known actor. His wife Zhang Shu is 12 years younger than him and is also an actor. Xu Yajun has appeared in "Finding the World Back", "Stormy Beauty", "The Empty Mirror", "Tangshan Earthquake" and "The Years of Burning Youth" TV series such as "Stay Ma

Foreword

Xu Yajun is a well-known actor. His wife Zhang Shu is 12 years younger than him and is also an actor.

Xu Yajun has appeared in " Looking Back in the World ", "Wind and Rain Beauty", " Empty Mirror " and " Tangshan" The Great Earthquake ", The Burning Years of Youth ", Staying Married Like a Jade ", Long Live the Wife ", In the Name of the People ", Tour Inspection Team " and other TV series.

He is handsome, charming, and handsome. It can be said that he has been handsome from childhood to old age.

He also has a rich marriage. He has been married 4 times and is known as a "divorce professional."

The most famous one is his marriage to the great beauty He Qing.

But the first three times ended in failure. Even beauties like He Qing failed to win his heart.

It wasn't until 2004 that he met his current wife Zhang Shu, lived a happy life. From then on, there were no scandals.

Zhang Shu was not beautiful and not well-known. How did she win over the heart of a prodigal?

01

Xu Yajun was born in Handan, Hebei Province in 1964, but because his parents were both soldiers, he followed his parents to live in Beijing as soon as he was born, and grew up in a military compound.

There are three boys in the family. Xu Yajun is the youngest and the most favored. His parents are usually busy with work, so his two brothers "cover" him. They are domineering and mischievous no matter where they go.

So Xu Yajun’s first half of his life was really about getting wind and rain.

The one on the left is Xu Yajun

When he was in elementary school, Xu Yajun studied in a key art school. At the beginning, the acrobatic troupe went to recruit students. Xu Yajun wanted to go but was stopped by his mother. Her mother felt that the acrobatic troupe training was too hard and did not want him to suffer. .

So we waited again, and the children's performance team of CCTV came to select people. Xu Yajun really wanted to go, but the teacher did not recommend him.

Because the teacher felt that this child was too naughty, and it would be an embarrassment to the school if he went.

But unexpectedly, the teacher who went to recruit students took a fancy to Xu Yajun, who had good looks and good looks, and insisted on recruiting him to join the troupe.

In the troupe, Xu Yajun participated in many drama performances, and with his acting talent, he soon became a member of the troupe. He stood out.

starred in his first movie "Youth Like Fire" in 1975, and his handsome face has already taken shape.

When I was 12 years old, the Central Academy of Drama children's class came to enroll students again, and the teacher pulled out a few outstanding children.

The teacher in charge of enrollment, Chang Li, looked at it and asked, "Who's name is Xu Yajun?" No one said anything.

The teacher said: "That child is too naughty and may not be able to learn well." However, Teacher Chang Li insisted on seeing him. The teacher could not resist but had to call him out.

In this way, Xu Yajun easily entered the Central Academy of Drama, and Cai Guoqing became a classmate.

When he was in college, in Cai Guoqing's words, "Xu Yajun was extremely handsome, and several beautiful girls in our class loved him." However, Xu Yajun was still young at that time and was focused on learning acting well.

At that time, Xu Yajun had a female classmate who rehearsed with him. In order to wake her up early every morning to rehearse, he tied a red string on the girl's thumb and little finger.

When he asked the female classmate to sleep, he took the red string from the bed. He stretched out the door. Xu Yajun got up at five o'clock in the morning. When he got up, he pulled the female classmate's red thread until he woke her up. The girl was never angry and cooperated with him.

Cai Guoqing gave him this behavior Named "Red Thread and Thread".

In 1980, 16-year-old Xu Yajun entered the China Children's Art Theater after graduation. He was considered to have a formal job, with a monthly salary of 37 yuan.

Here he met his first wife Huang Jianping. They were both at the age when they first started to fall in love. They rehearsed and ate together every day, and feelings naturally developed.

The two of them loved each other so much that they got married as quickly as possible as soon as they reached the age to get married. After the marriage, the two of them had a very sweet time.

After work, they went shopping together, and when they got home, Xu Yajun took a shower Huang Jianping cooks and lives a happy life.

But something unexpected happened. Less than a year after getting married, Huang Jianping was diagnosed with cancer at a young age.

The treatment level at that time was limited, and she passed away soon after.

Xu Yajun was heartbroken. He suffered the pain of losing his lover before he was 20 years old.

He is devoted to his career. In 1986, he starred in the TV series "Finding the World Back" together with Song Dandan , in which he played the role of the bad boy "Earl".

This role seemed to be tailor-made for him, with his long hair. , the melancholy eyes, especially the action of tossing the hair, are so handsome,

the cold and arrogant beautiful boy, with the Count of Monte Cristo's heart of hatred and desire to be loved, also pricked the hearts of countless young girl audiences at that time

Song Dandan was crazy about it.

After the TV series was broadcast, Xu Yajun became popular and won the Popular Television Golden Eagle Award for Best Actor.

also became the first actor to appear on the cover of China's " Popular Movies " magazine.

Girls from all over the country wrote to him, the mailboxes at the post office were full, and some claimed to marry him with a dowry of 60,000 yuan.

But Xu Yajun, who had just lost his wife, had no time to read these letters. He felt that he could no longer fall in love with anyone else.

At this time, Zhang Xi, who had always had a crush on him in the troupe, was heartbroken to see him lose weight day by day.

often took the initiative to approach him and took care of him in every detail, including cooking, washing clothes, etc. in the name of caring for his colleagues.

Under Zhang Xi's care, Xu Yajun gradually came out of his grief.

He also found that Zhang Xi was indeed a good girl with a good temper and a gentle personality. Moreover, the two of them were from similar backgrounds and were well matched.

So they got married not long after. , Zhang Xi was filled with joy, thinking that he had married the love of his life,

but Xu Yajun only regarded her as a "nanny". Such a marriage was destined to be a tragedy.

02

After getting married, Xu Yajun became more and more chauvinistic at home. Zhang Xi had no choice but to give up his job and work as a full-time wife at home.

Xu Yajun continued to have drama appointments and was filming outside all the year round. The two of them got together less and separated more, which was not a solid relationship in the first place. The emotional foundation is even weaker.

In 1995, Xu Yajun and "Jiangnan Beauty" He Qing co-starred in the TV series "Fenghe Grudge" and fell in love with each other.

In the drama, the male protagonist played by Xu Yajun abandoned his childhood sweetheart because he fell in love with the female protagonist.

Off-screen, Xu Yajun also directly took He Qing back to his home and showed his cards to Zhang Xi.

He said: "There was no love between us in the first place. Now that I have fallen in love with He Qing, I must be with her." , let's get a divorce."

But even in such a humiliating scene, Zhang Xi still didn't want to give up Xu Yajun. She begged him bitterly and said: "Yajun, you can't do this. We have been together for so many years without love and family affection. How can you Can you abandon me for a woman?"

Xu Yajun knew he was wrong and kept silent. He Qing couldn't help but take the initiative and said to Zhang Xi: "Even if I, He Qing, are not there, there will still be Li Qing and Wang Qing. If there is no love between you, sooner or later you will get divorced." ,

Her words directly caused Zhang Xi to have a heart attack and he was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment.

Because of the timely rescue, there was no serious problem. After experiencing life and death, Zhang Xi also saw that such a man was not worth her life to protect, so she divorced sadly to make things happen for them.

After Xu Yajun's divorce, He Qing also broke up with her boyfriend Liu Wei who had lived together for 5 years at the time. The two got married quickly.

In 2001, they gave birth to a son named "Xu He", which witnessed the growth of the two people. love.

But slowly the contradiction between the two people came to the fore. Xu Yajun has been pampered since he was a child. He never thinks about others and is very chauvinistic.

He first did not allow He Qing to film intimate scenes. Sometimes he would often go to the scene when He Qing was filming. The stalking made the whole crew very embarrassed,

but He Qing often acted in emotional scenes, and physical contact was indispensable, so the two of them often quarreled.

Later, Xu Yajun said directly: "It's not that I can't support you. Stop filming and take care of your son at home. Otherwise, we will get divorced."

He Qing did not expect that Xu Yajun would be so arbitrary and selfish. She realized Her choice back then turned out to be so stupid. When choosing a man, she only looked at his appearance. Now he can only suffer the consequences.

But He Qing has also been surrounded by pampers since she was a child. She will not give up her career just because Xu Yajun scares her.

So she said: "Just leave. Since love is gone, let us both be free."

03

After the divorce, her son lived with Xu Yajun,

while He Qing has been single and gradually faded out of the public eye. In 2015, it was revealed by singer Huang Qishan that she had a brain tumor.

At this time, Zhang Shu had just made her debut. She was born in Heilongjiang and graduated from the Central Academy of Drama. She is tall and has a cool temperament.

Although she has a good figure, her appearance is average and she cannot perform well in the entertainment industry where there are so many beauties. Without fighting, he can only play some unknown supporting roles in some TV series,

such as He Jiahui in "Anyone Will Say I Love You", and the stand-in for Hua Mama, the eldest sister of Flying Sword Clan in "House of Flying Daggers", etc.

Her appearance is very similar to the singer Anita Mui , so she is also called "Little Anita Mui".

But Zhang Shu has a very good personality. Although she is in the entertainment industry, she does not have much scheming. She is simple and straightforward, and does not understand the "unspoken rules".

Xu Yajun is also a non-descript person. The two met through golf I know Zhang Shu, and I have a good impression of Zhang Shu,

and after experiencing three marriages, Xu Yajun understands better that you need to find someone with a good personality when getting married, and beautiful appearance cannot be used as food.

Since then, he has often asked her to play golf together and compete with her on her skills.

After Xu Yajun experienced three marriages, his masculine temperament also fascinated Zhang Shu. After several years of love, the two finally fell in love. Got married in 2008.

Their personalities complement each other perfectly. Xu Yajun has type A blood and is particularly competitive, while Zhang Shu has type AB blood and is particularly easy-going.

Xu Yajun is a perfectionist and often picks on her, but Zhang Shu is not angry, but says: "I It’s already pretty good.” After hearing this, Xu Yajun smiled and said nothing.

When Xu Yajun was pregnant, she was filming in other places. She always went to prenatal check-ups by herself. She never complained.

She told Xu Yajun: "It's very hard for you to make money while filming outside. It's no problem for me. I can arrange everything." It's very good. If you can come back when I give birth, it doesn't matter if you don't come back."

It was very thrilling when she gave birth to her son. Tuantuan weighed 7 pounds and 6 taels. Zhang Shu was very thin and it was difficult to give birth naturally. However, for the sake of the child, she insisted on giving birth by herself.

She exhausted all her strength during the birth and her face turned red. After giving birth, Xu Yajun discovered that her face was densely covered with bleeding spots ,

the capillaries had ruptured due to excessive force, and the whole face was rotten. Xu Yajun admired his wife very much, and because she did this Touched by the wholehearted devotion of the family.

Xu Yajun has always believed: "Only when a man's family is stable can he start his career outside with confidence."

After three marriages, he finally found the person he was looking for.

After his son was born, Xu Yajun collaborated with Song Dandan again after 24 years, starring in " Li Chuntian's Spring " and became popular again.

Xu Yajun said that these are all the good things that a happy family has brought to him. luck.

Zhang Shu not only took good care of his life, but also treated his stepson as his own son.

His eldest son always called him "Shu Mom", and he also had a very good relationship with his younger brother.

Every time he came back from school, he would first He wants to be with his brother for a while, because his brother is more important in his heart than his life.

Xu Yajun’s father passed away when he was 30 years old. After getting married, Zhang Shu took it upon himself to take his mother-in-law to live with him.

His mother-in-law was grateful, and Zhang Shu was informal. They were just like mother and daughter.

These were Xu Yajun’s four marriages For the first time, someone offered to take care of his mother-in-law. He was very moved and worked harder.

Zhang Shu, her mother-in-law, and their two sons

In 2017, Xu Yajun starred in Qi Tongwei in "In the Name of the People" and gained attention again.

stirred up the audience's ups and downs on the screen for the second time in his life, becoming another character beyond "The Count".

And Zhang Shu also actively returned to filming after her children grew up. In 2021, she starred as Maria in " Ideal City ",

President Ji in "I Really Love You", Wu Xiujuan in "Ebola Frontline",

her noble, elegant and charming temperament is deeply loved by the audience.

On the 10th wedding anniversary, Xu Yajun, who has never understood romance, arranged a surprise for Zhang Shu with his eldest son.

Xu Yajun choked and said: "I feel that I am not a qualified husband. After so many years, thank you for being so kind to me." Your tolerance, the fact that I can know you in this life is God’s gift and grace to me, thank you.”

From young and frivolous to mature and stable, it was his family and children who changed Xu Yajun. It was Zhang Shu who influenced him with understanding and tolerance.

gave him the strength to resist the cruelty of the doomsday.

gave him hope in this uneasy world. Returning to home,

felt happiness from the ordinary days and saw the clear distance.

Zhang Shu did not have any extraordinary skills. She just gave Xu Yajun the most ordinary and rare stability.