I want to tell my own story first. I was born in a rural village in 1961, called Tai Po, a very, very long time in Hong Kong. When I was really young, I realized that I was very rich. There were peacocks in my family, and there were more than two hundred pigs in my family, and there were countless pigeons, and then we still had a lot of land.
Then one day, when my father was six years old, he took me from the countryside to the city. He hoped that we could get in touch with the outside world. As a result, my grandfather was not happy. He felt that my father was not a very good child. As a result, when the family was divided, my father did not. Since then, I have lived in one place, and there is a place called Diamond Hill in the city. There are many poor people living in Diamond Hill. That place is full of wooden houses. The reason why it is called Diamond Hill is because everyone lives there and wants to live in a more upscale place, so the name Diamond Hill was changed. My dad is a fireman.
But do you know? Because of the wooden house, we face fires every day (possibly). We have to remember where our ID cards are stored every day. If there is a fire, we must go in and get the ID cards as soon as possible and flee. It turned out that one day, when I was about eleven years old, my house was really going to leave because of a fire. We left the place where we lived and waited for a long time. After waiting for about a year, my father lived with us in a temporary house, which was given to us by the government. Then after waiting for about a year, we can exchange for a stone house where we live. We do a lot of different things for our lives every day. Until 1980, I participated in the training class. One year later, I performed very well. As a result, I signed (Hong Kong) TVB.
Today, I would like to have a question for everyone, do you think Andy Lau is successful today?
Andy Lau is an entertainer who is deified by all the media. They say that he is hardworking, hardworking, he will not do bad things, he can not eat, sleep, and drink. He can live to fifty-two years old just by breathing. But in fact, I am an ordinary person, and I am also nervous. Today I want to share with you the real me.
In 1981, I just entered a training class in the showbiz. I already had a girlfriend at that time and had been together for more than three years. I think I have to be responsible as a man, so I worked hard in my training class and did a lot of things. Not only did I start at 9 o'clock in the morning, I also practiced dancing and somersaults at night, many, many things.
Suddenly one day I received a call. This call was my girlfriend who I hadn't seen for four months. She told me, "Can you come out?" I said, "I must come out for you." Then As a result, I only reached her eight hours later. She asked me to be in a very romantic place in Hong Kong. That place is the top of the mountain. Looking down from that place, you will see a very beautiful Hong Kong. But I haven't had a chance. When I went to enjoy the scene, she said to me: "Let's separate." I thought why at that time, I did nothing wrong, and she left before I could explain it. I stood alone on the top of a very romantic mountain, and I walked slowly down the mountain, step by step to a bus stop. Then I kept waiting from the bus station. One car passed, two cars passed, and three cars passed. I found a car with fewer people, and I went up. I was sitting in the last row, and I kept thinking, why is the result like this? The car ran forward, my tears kept going back, you know? Tears kept hitting the glass. There were just a few people in front. Before they turned their heads, I wiped my tears away, and when I saw (they) look at me, what would I say? !
just like that, my first love failed. Because of this failure, I instead concentrated on my work. As a result, I greeted my first success. I got my first chance to be a leading actor. I succeeded.
But there are really many kinds of success. I remember that in 1985, I had finished filming "The Legend of Condor Heroes" at that time. At that time, I saw Jackie Chan and Chow Yun-fat have developed very well in movies. I really hope to have the opportunity to make movies. Then I said to the company: "Can I make a TV series every year, and film me (movies) at other times?" They said, "No." Z3z
I insisted on choosing and did not stay in the TV station. Then thatSometimes a group of people said to me: "Andy Lau, your choice is too unsuccessful." But everyone's choice, he made it from the heart, I followed my direction, and kept going. , As a result, I encountered "Extralegal Affairs" and "Mong Kok Carmen".
I came across "Heaven If Love". Then the same group of people said: "Oh, Andy Lau, your choice back then was too successful." In fact, who really decides success, no one knows, but you must remember that success is not only one way. I left the TV station. When I was fighting non-stop outside, one person stayed at the TV station, and that person was Tony Leung. His achievements today are obvious to all. So remember to find the one that suits you best, don't copy other successful examples indiscriminately, and think clearly.
Jingke, do you know? He assassinated Qin, succeeded or failed?
Qin Wang, he unified, succeeded or failed? Yes, who are you going to do? Do you raise your hand for King Qin? Do Jing Ke raise his hand? Really, success is not one's own, but history. Similarly, people who like me will think that I am very successful. Why? Because my career is very good and my family is very happy, he said that I am a success in success, right?
People who don't like me say that this person's career, one work is good, one work is not good, one box office is like this, one bad movie, he depends on luck. He put his family there for vanity. All his family members lived in a haze. They said that I failed in failure. I don't care, I think anyone who understands me must know. What am I afraid of, what am I afraid of losing? Don't fight, it's a kind of compassion, not listening, it's a kind of wisdom.
I will stop here and tell you a story. I have a very good friend, and he kept telling me: "I like Fan Bingbing very much, please introduce me to him." I said, "I'm sorry, Andy Lau does not do this kind of thing." I don't know why he One day, he told me that he met Fan Bingbing, and he also asked her to travel abroad, but I said: "How?"
"I'm half done."
I said: "So amazing, how about it?"
"I went, she didn't."
I think this mentality is too good, we should use a very happy, very positive energy to face everything.
But successful people are usually very annoying, especially annoying, I see too many. If they are self-righteous, they will tell you: "I want to be the truest self." They think that their shortcomings are also part of the truth. But let me tell you, if you have spirituality, we can correct our shortcomings through acquired efforts. At that time, you will be a successful and lovely successful person. Many people will tell you that we are going to be naked in front of the mirror. Every morning when we face him, I ask him: "Who are you?"
"I am Andy Lau."
"Have you failed yourself? "Z3z
"Have you violated yourself?"
"Have you ever deceived yourself?"
Ask once a day, then wake up, be clear, wash your face, clean your face, and go Go out and give your family a smile, give your neighbor a smile, give a smile to a stranger in the street, give a smile to those who fail, and then you will find that the world is full of love. If this world is full of love, will all of us be far from success? will not.
With love, even if you fail and you run into the street, someone will give you a smile and they will encourage you. There must be fewer people who succeed in this world than those who fail. Remember, as long as our group of failed people can unite, we can definitely compare with those who succeeded.
Today I am really lucky. I have the opportunity to share my feelings with many young people here. If you have any problems in the future, I will be here. If you want to be comforted or smile, I can give you. But remember, take good care of yourself, and you will have a good future.
Thank you.
