Thanks for the invitation to answer the question. Wang Baichuan and Fan Shengmei are characters in the TV series "Ode to Joy ".
In my opinion, whether it is rational or emotional, it is enough to explain one problem, that is, Wang Baichuan does not love Fan Shengmei enough, which is an ironclad fact.
Fan Shengmei in the TV series has a vain side. If that is the only thing, Wang Baichuan's approach is rational. In theory, or from a rational perspective, Fan Shengmei did not pay a penny, let alone not getting married yet. If her name is written on it, if a breakup or divorce occurs, it will involve disputes about the house, unless Fan Shengmei is not greedy and has self-knowledge, unless Wang Baichuan is willing and does not care about material things. But most people cannot not weigh the pros and cons, but ultimately it is a question of whether feelings can stand scrutiny or test in the face of interests.
As we all know, Wang Baichuan bought a house to get married, and for Fan Shengmei, it is to get benefits and a sense of belonging from the marriage. If we only start from feelings and have no other distractions, Fan Shengmei has undoubtedly found the best home, has a house, a home, and a partner who can stay together for life. If everything is viewed from the perspective of interests, Fan Shengmei will be regarded as a "crow turning into a phoenix". In fact, Fan Shengmei, who is a civilian, can make profits from marriage, because whether it is Fan Shengmei or Li Shengmei, there are risks in the same or the same asymmetry of marriage. If everyone is careful, no matter how smart she is, there is no real winner. Just imagine, no matter whether it is a man or a woman, the other party always starts from the perspective of interests. How many people in this world can accept it? And can we live in peace and be very loving?
The past matchmaking was the best way to deal with marriage risks. It not only eliminates the consequences of each other's climax, but also minimizes the risk of economic benefits. In addition, in addition to equal financial resources, there are also equally matched academic time, experience, education, etc., so such a marriage is a strong alliance.
Cinderella marrying the prince is really a fairy tale. Not all mismatched marriages will bring bad consequences, the key is what people often say about the three views. Disagreement of the three views is really the source of evil consequences. No matter how poor or rich, if the three views between them are consistent and in line with each other, they will get the best results. They can be sympathetic, tolerant, know each other's warmth, grow together, and share honor and disgrace in marriage. In short, whether it is a crow or a sparrow, a clean and open-minded view of love that does not require mutual speculation is the ideal love that people yearn for. Ideal love does not necessarily have to be a myth or fairy tale. It is not that love without materiality is noble, that is nonsense. But the greatest love of every ordinary person is the heart-to-heart and helping each other.
Back to the scene, it was wise for Fan Shengmei to break up decisively because Wang Baichuan did not write her name. And has Wang Baichuan been unhappy from now on? No! Wang Baichuan will definitely meet what he is willing to give or the other party doesn’t care about, or they are suitable. After all, everyone’s happiness view is different. If Fan Shengmei asks: Am I wrong about it? I can return with certainty: That's right!
TV series expresses the topic of women like Fan Shengmei's final awakening to achieve women's independence, self-esteem and self-love, while men like Wang Baichuan's ability to be unable to have the qualities and abilities of responsibility.
It is reported that many women are now very independent, so independent that they are so deterred by "ordinary people". In fact, from one aspect, the more independent women are, the more men will feel more and more crisis. The laws of nature will not change the nature of men's "Tian Jiali", and women should increasingly be "women to add children".
Haha, do you think so?
Do you still remember Lonely Moon’s confession to Ma Lanxing in "Lonely Moon"? The meaning of life is to work overtime and get home. Someone can light a lamp for you. When you are tired, someone can drink with you. When you are in a low point, someone can give you a warm hug.
Do you still remember an old song? Because I love your love, because I dream of your dreams, I am sad about your sorrow and happiness...
wishes, lovers will finally get married, I wish people good hearts and beautiful love!
