original text / Hailan
First of all, I am not chasing stars.
"Men in love are blind. They can only see the person they love, but they can't see the person who loves them." , has been stuck in my throat, fermented in my heart, so that I don't vomit unpleasantly.
So, who is 15-year-old Li Yan mocking? Is it her father Li Yapeng ?
Then, after seeing her mother Faye Wong , can she feel at ease? What do you think?
also explained that Li Yan is already a cardamom girl, maybe she is complaining about her little boyfriend, or another man, all kinds of possibilities.
Yes, maybe Li Yan is a bystander. But it is obvious that Li Yan's father, Li Yapeng, is a man.
Just because she is a bystander, and because she is still a child who has not grown up, her words made me think for a long time, and I am deeply concerned.
Even more coincidentally, Li Yan posted this small article on social platforms on March 19: "Men in love are blind. They can only see the person they love, but not the person who loves them. "
And 5 days ago, on March 14, Li Yan's father, Li Yapeng, 50, posted a video on Weibo , and the official announced that he and his 19-year-old girlfriend Hai Ha Jin Xi , got married and had children!
So, from Li Yan's resentful tone, don't you think this seems to have something to do with it? Didn't you smell the faint sadness and deep jealousy in Li Yan's heart?
Yes, this child is well-dressed and has a good life, which makes many peers envious!
Don't forget, Li Yan is also a child with a trauma that cannot be erased!
html When she was 07 years old, her mother left her home; only 7 years later, her father married her a "new mother" and gave birth to a little brother.There is happiness in, but there must also be loss from the heart.
From the point of view of human selfishness, Li Yan can no longer monopolize the love of her father. She grew up in an unsatisfactory family, so how could she happily share her little cake with people? How can there not be a little turbulence in the heart? Don't get a little emotional?
"Men in love are blind. They can only see the person they love, but not the person who loves them."
Such a line makes people want to laugh and cry when they laugh arts!
I wonder if her father, Li Yapeng, cried when he saw that he was the same as me, laughing and laughing?
And her own mother, Faye Wong, not only laughed and cried, would she hurry up and have some affectionate interaction with her little daughter, soothe the girl's sensitive heart, which will stir up waves in her heart if the child has a little trouble? After that, the night became deeper, and our queen Faye Wong was still tossing and turning.
who knows?
Li Yapeng and Faye Wong married in 2005.
Faye Wong's prenatal examination found that the child may have congenital cleft lip and palate . Faith and love, the husband and wife resolutely gave birth to this child.
On May 27, 2006, this child was born, Li Yan.
In November 2006, the Yanran Angel Fund initiated by Li Yapeng and Faye Wong was officially launched.
" Yanran " is the best wishes of Li Yapeng and his wife to those children with congenital cleft lip and palate like their daughter Li Yan. They want more children to be treated as soon as possible, have a healthy and innocent smile, and live a healthy and happy life. Life.
Li Yan grew up in a happy family and high-quality education.
In 2013, on Li Yan's birthday, Li Yapeng and his wife specially held a charity dinner for Yan Ran Design. At the age of 7, Li Yan painted a love and childlike "Panda and Bird", which was auctioned by charitable people at a sky-high price of one million. Walk.
was born in love, and Li Yan, who grew up in love, confidently showed a bright smile to everyone present.
2013 is destined to be an unforgettable year for Li Yan, and a year full of joy and sadness.
At the end of this year, Li Yapeng and Faye Wong divorced, her mother left home, and her happy family was gone!
7-year-old Li Yan, like a happy bird, is also a fragile period when she needs her parents to hold an umbrella and pull one when she is running wildly in the wind and rain.
However, even Li Yapeng, who was known as the "good husband of the nation" at that time, couldn't keep the arrogant and glamorous Faye Wong, what about her little daughter?
Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse century compound, national blessings and regrets fly together.
And when Li Yapeng was interviewed by Luyu , he said with tears in his eyes that this was a very failure of his own.
In 2020, after several surgeries, 14-year-old Li Yan took off the "rabbit girl" label perfectly, updating her self-confidence and beauty from time to time on social platforms. After
, Li Yan was sent to an aristocratic school in Switzerland to study. After
went abroad, Li Yapeng didn't expect Li Yan's first circle of friends to be - "Sadness flows against the current"!
This made him feel remorse and remorse.
Actually, Li Yapeng is a good father. Divorced with Faye Wong for many years, they have never made their relationship public. It can be said that they have given all their love to Li Yan.
Although Faye Wong could not give Li Yan a home with both parents and mother, she has always been involved in the growth of her youngest daughter.
Li Yan is definitely a happy child.
After studying in Switzerland alone, we all thought that Li Yan had grown up and no longer needed the subtle love of her parents.
Who would have thought that a post on a social platform that intersects time and space will make us feel a natural compassion for this underage 15-year-old child - Yes, a child, always a child who needs parental care, always longs for a warm s home!
There is no doubt that Li Yapeng also has the right to pursue his own happiness.
And his girlfriend Hae Ha Jin Hee, who is 19 years younger than him, is also a loving woman. Li Yapeng said that because the Yanran Angel Medical Team rescued the children, he looked at his girlfriend standing in the crowd with concern and pity, and he saw their future. Hai Ha Jinxi accompanied Li Yapeng through the trough of life.
When Li Yapeng chose to remarry and have children, it was the man who shouldered the responsibility of love.
We should definitely bless Li Yapeng and Hae Ha Jin Hee.
©The author's testimonial
Li Yan is only one of the children whose parents divorced and reorganized the family. She is lucky and happy enough, but she is still not satisfied. Facing more people to share the family's love, she was unwilling and complained. This is a normal human need, and it is also a child's cherishing of the warmth of parents and family.
Think about it, those children from ordinary families, facing the divorce and reorganization of their parents, do they repress and endure more resentment and sadness in their hearts, do they deserve more sympathy and care? That's what I've been thinking about these days.
Thinking about these children like Li Yan who live in divorced or restructured families, we not only regret, but also pray that the men and women who enter the marriage should respect marriage, fulfill the contract, cherish the lover, cherish the family, and cherish the children.
Don't use numbness and inability to love as an excuse to escape, recklessly tear up marriages, rashly abandon families, and hurt innocent children - that is also the crystallization of love!
(picture from the Internet)