Deng Lun's comeback is basically hopeless. Why did he make such a low-level mistake from a military family?

" 10-year tree, 100-year tree", it can be seen that from the ancients to the present, all parents know how important education is. It is possible to cultivate a sapling into a towering tree in 10 years, but If you want to cultivate an honest and outstanding talent, you cannot do it in a short period of time.

School education and home education account for a large part, of which home education is particularly important. It is a lifelong course that accompanies students. If home education is lacking, no matter how well you study in school, Problems can also arise in the future.

There is a saying that the child is a mirror of the parents. As the "lifelong teacher" of the child, every word and deed of the parent will have a greater impact on the students. Maybe you can't see anything when you are young. After entering the society, it will be gradually revealed.

Deng Lun's comeback is basically hopeless. He was born in a military family, why did he make such a low-level mistake

His name is Deng Lun, the idol in the eyes of many girls, also known as "" National male god", has appeared in many well-known works, and the popularity has not diminished.

The impression he left on everyone is that he is well-behaved, sensible, ignorant and cute. never thought that he was not pure under this appearance , now his career is on the rise, but his years of hard work have been destroyed.

has been urged by the official media for many times due to the issue of "tax", but there is still no improvement. was finally named by the official media and fined 106 million yuan.It's basically hopeless to come back.

A lot of people can't believe it. He turned out to be a "virtuous entertainer" , and his family of origin gave him more luster, which is even more unexpected. After all, 's father and mother are both soldiers, and they can be said to be rooted and red. Why are they still Make such a low-level mistake?

This starts from his childhood, he was obedient and sensible, often doing some housework, The old man loves him very much, he was admitted to in junior high school, Hebei Normal University High School , transferred to Shijiazhuang 20 Three middle school reading.

Junior high school is in adolescence, will inevitably be a little rebellious, and he likes basketball, so he went to the provincial sports school, at this time, he was attracted by an art training class teacher, saying that he is very talented in acting, and later he was admitted to Shanghai Theater Academy, a well-known famous university.

Through his schooling experience since childhood, can easily see that his family's economic conditions are very good , very good, after all, basketball and art majors are very expensive, high school transfer is better School also needs a sum of money to make it possible. Without the financial support of his family, it would be difficult for him to get to where he is now.

If not for this, I believe he will go further, however. The bright future is still destroyed in his own hands. The key reason is the lack of family education. During the critical stage of childhood growth, parents are often absent, and the pampering of other generations allows children to learn to pretend to be sensible.

It is difficult for the elderly to detect their own mistakes,Even if I find it, I feel more distressed, Over time, bad habits are hidden and exposed when they grow up.

"Intergenerational education" is not as good as "biological parental education"

Most of the students in our country are brought by the elderly, Parents are busy working and earning money, but intergenerational education is prone to many problems In this case, is relatively less well-educated than biological parents.

Students generally lack a sense of security, are easily psychologically dependent on the elderly, and are not very close to their biological parents, The education of parents is often difficult to work.

Most of the elderly dote on their children, and are more prone to problems. Students will be self-willed, do whatever they want without considering the consequences, and develop a sense of self-centeredness. Time After a long time, you will think of yourself as the center of the world and become a "refined egoist".

Intergenerational education, lack of error education , try every possible way to prevent students from making mistakes, and students don't know that they need to pay the corresponding price for making mistakes.

I don't know what is right or wrong, I don't know what I should do, what I shouldn't do, the elderly will double the compensation education, and satisfy students with everything, Deng Lun likes to play basketball Just go to sports school, and if you want to change to art, go to study.

When parents are educating, the elderly will often come out to intervene. If he has been educated by his biological parents, Father and mother are both soldiers, strict education,Might have prevented him from making such a big mistake.

Failed family education not only harms children, but also wastes the efforts of generations

His example may only ruin his own future, but there are more serious consequences , In addition to pitting children, failed family education can easily make the efforts of generations go to waste.

More than 10 years ago, the phrase "My father is Li Gang" became popular all over the Internet. Li Qiming grew up in a doting environment did not realize his own mistakes, and used his father as a shield to let generations of Human efforts are in vain.

However, the price of what I did wrong is far more than the loss of "name" and "profit", and it will be difficult for me to survive in the future. Lun Lun's acting career has been put on hold, and it is difficult to predict where he will go in the future. This matter has a great impact. If he directly finds a job, he will find it difficult to accept the gap. Should he just eat "old money" at home?

In family education, it is very important to teach students to be independent and independent, but also to educate students to have the correct three views. More importantly, intergenerational education should also be stricter. After all, not all parents can do it themselves.

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