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Gillian has been on several hot searches recently, the first time was because she suddenly gained weight, and the other time because her ex-husband suddenly lost weight.
Gillian and Lai Hongguo 's marriage only lasted 14 months. After 14 months, the two broke up peacefully.
When Gillian reappeared in front of the audience, she became fat. Just when netizens were suspicious, her good sister Ah SA said that it was because of Gillian's endocrine problems.
Looking at Gillian who was divorced and became fatter, I suddenly saw a kind of confidence and certainty in her, she was no longer the restless little girl she used to be, and felt that her heart was stronger than before marriage .
Apart from getting fat, Gillian is actually fine. Judging from her mental state, it should be considered good.
Looking back at Lai Hongguo after his divorce from Gillian, it seems that life is not so good.
Lai Hongguo said in an interview that he has suffered from depression since 2019. Recently, he lost 9 kg due to poor appetite. He, who is 176 cm tall, has dropped from 73 kg to 64 kg.
When someone asked him if his health was related to divorce? He didn't choose to deny it, and said solemnly: Look at my marriage, and will be ruined, but this is nothing to say, it's okay, I can survive it, so I'm still working hard.
Well, as Lai Hongguo, who has been divorced twice, blamed a failed marriage for the entire responsibility of and his life. Too shameless.
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Of course, this is not Lai Hongguo after the divorce, the first time to rub Gillian's hot search, I believe it will not be the last.
After divorced Gillian, Lai Hongguo privately recruited the media, consumed and Gillian's marriage, which made Gillian's brokerage company very angry, and finally Lai Hongguo said sincerely: I will no longer respond to the separation with Gillian , I am very sorry and sad about the divorce, I hope you can give me space, respects the woman, and will not respond in the future.
Lai Hongguo once broke the news on the show that he and Gillian spent nearly 50 million to marry, and he was the man who was about to go bankrupt for marriage.
After the divorce, Gillian kept her mouth shut about her ex-husband. Lai Hongguo rubbed off on Gillian's hot searches at every turn, and even pretended to be pitiful at every turn. It can be imagined that when he married Gillian, he really used some scheming.
A man who likes to show weakness everywhere after divorce, and a man who consumes 's predecessor at any time, is indeed missing some and decent .
Because Gillian is more famous than Lai Hongguo, apart from his identity as Gillian's ex-husband, he is not from the entertainment industry at all. If he hadn't married Gillian, no one would know him.
As an ex-husband, I always talk about Gillian once or twice, and at every turn, I blame the failure of my life on that marriage. Isn't this just rubbing off Gillian's popularity?
And Gillian earns more than Lai Hongguo before and after marriage. Is it because he was born as a man, in this marriage, because he is weaker than Gillian, so he handles everything?
Consuming your ex, always clinging to your ex, actually affects your own life.
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As for how two people should get along after a divorce, I think the best answer is not to owe each other, let alone to always spend the exes shamelessly.
The two people after the divorce, already have two lives, two states, everyone should be responsible for the choice of their own life, no one can be responsible for the other, for a lifetime.
suddenly remembered Xue Jianing and Hu Ge.
When Hu Ge was in the most difficult time, Jianing Xue was always by his side. When Hu Ge became popular again, the two chose to break up.
Later, Xue Jianing never mentioned Hu Ge in public. Of course, everyone always likes to ask some topics about her ex, and she usually chooses to avoid it and not answer.
I always feel that this is the attitude of truly loving someone. When they are in love, two people cherish each other. When they are separated, they will no longer consume their ex, no longer entangle their ex, and no longer talk about topics related to their ex, which is the best respect for the present.
Whether it is a man or a woman, whether it is a marriage or a relationship, it is just an experience in your long life.
If you have already lost that person, that relationship, and the marriage, the entanglement and consumption you have been obsessed with will only make things worse for you now.
Letting you become better and grow better after leaving that person is your life's task.
I really like these two lyrics of "Decent" : I have loved you for many years, but why ruin the classics, I will keep the last dignity of farewell, I love you without regret, and respect the final ending of the story.
For those who are divorced but still consume their ex after the breakup: Live your life well is the most important thing.
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