There are always some people in the world who are mavericks, and
has also suffered a lot of ridicule and scorn.
Harry was born to Yi Nengjing and her ex-husbandYu Chengqing
Parents are famous figures in the music circle
Everything that comes into contact with is cutting-edge trend culture
Harry will naturally be nurtured.
Harry is very individual when he grows up.
As a man, he especially likes women's clothing.
is even obsessed. It has been on the hot search for many times, attracting heated discussions.
In addition to Harry's constantly updated photos of women's clothing,
Harry's tattoos are also attracting more and more attention.
It can be seen that Harry's tattoos are gradually increasing.
He first got a bunny girl tattoo
and a heart-to-heart tattoo on his right arm. After
, there is an extra mouth with a flower on his right hand. The snake,
, has a string of text tattooed on the left and right chest positions.
In fact,
Yi Nengjing posted a vlog on Weibo to prepare for
"'s sister riding the wind and waves". In
, there is a clip of Harry teaching Yi Nengjing to dance a girl group dance.
▲Mother and Son Dancing
vlog Harry painted his nails black. When
taught his mother to dance a girl group dance,
's soft and graceful movements were even much better than Yi Nengjing's standard.
For this reason, netizens had a heated discussion.
can't understand this kind of behavior of , and will sigh with emotion:
"lives in single-parent family , lacks fatherly love,
makes himself feminine",
even directly mocks:
"hot eyes, this is perverted Right?”
There are also many netizens who can’t help expressing their goodwill comments,
thinks: “I am actually very happy to be able to do what I like
This has nothing to do with single parents”
and remind some keyboard warriors
“Don’t use sexual orientation And is interested in to evaluate whether a person is perverted":
Regarding Harry's liking to wear women's clothes,
has also been asked by the media for Yi Nengjing's opinion.
Yi Nengjing did not shy away from this topic,
talked freely in front of the camera.
She said that
Harry had called himself after the photo controversy,
asked her: Will this affect your work?
Do I want to close this social network so that
will not post anything in the future?
Yi Nengjing gave him the answer: of course not.
You don't have to take on anything that your parenting career brought you
It's no big deal if I don't do this,
You are the most important.
With the support of his mother,
Harry has always insisted on what he wants to do,
He was admitted to the most difficult design school in UK ,
Songwriting, painting, DancingProficient in everything,
Also never below an A.
even Yu Yi Nengjing participated in the competition. Almost all the people around
were against it. Only her son Harry has always supported her.
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Many people from Harry's example,
and then think of Dou Jingtong ,
They also come from single-parent families,
also made a dress that does not match their gender
.
smoky makeup , hair dye , tattoos, dropping out of school,
Every move of her,
deviates from people's expectations of her.
But this is not ignorant girl ,
used to revenge for her parents' divorce and media attention,
she is just walking her own way.
Her humanity has not collapsed, and
is not taking revenge on society.
In terms of music, she has become a musician with
having many original works,
in the creative music show -
A stage play in "The City of Magical Music"
is impressive
Faye Wong For her The performance was even more exciting and appreciated.
In terms of conduct, many people who have come into contact with her
said that she is very educated and friendly.
Dou Jingtong's friend posted on Weibo that
once revealed one of her "little things",
Dou Jingtong, who had made money and planned to buy a car, finally gave up,
because she wanted to save money to help her aunt
share the burden Tuition fees for younger siblings.
She will pay attention to whether the reporter's seat is comfortable during the interview,
She will move the chair back to its original position after the interview;
When traveling, she will give priority to low-carbon cycling; Ban declined to take a photo with the guests on the grounds of
, but made up for the group photo as soon as possible after get off work...
Dou Jingtong, who was named "freedom" when he grew up, did not become a bad boy because of dyeing his hair, smoking, and tattooing.
Instead, she became a
with a harmonious relationship with her parents, a kind-hearted and maverick girl.
For the aesthetics and hobbies
that are different from the mainstream consciousness, our better response is:
does not need to go against your own heart to approve,
does not need to be angry to oppose,
as long as the other party's inner values are not distorted ,
might as well try to respect individual aesthetic differences.
As for Harry's dressing up in women's clothes
I think people who say to him online
"You are awesome! Support you",
is not saying to support and encourage similar behavior,
but definitely he has something to say Freedom to act in relation to one's own interests.
regards Harry as her pride,
enjoys Yi Nengjing who let Harry teach herself to dance,
Her original intention is just to respect the child's nature and preferences,
at least knows that he is going in the wrong direction of the world
do not become his stumbling stone.
