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I don't know if you have heard of such a name-Ye Haiyang, when I first met her, I came across her videos by chance, with short hair, delicate appearance and neat facial features At first glance, she looks like a little boy, but after reading her previous videos, I realized that she was a single mother, and her daughter was conceived with sperm that she spent hundreds of thousands of dollars bought in the American sperm bank.
Many people were surprised by her bold approach. After all, it takes a lot of courage for an unmarried girl to have a child alone without getting married, and to become a single mother. It seems that in the traditional concept, children must have a complete family, and only parents can be happy.
Then I continued to get to know her, only to realize that she lived very real. The daily life she shares is also her real life. It was only later that I found out why she had so much courage to do it. Things no one else dares to do. It's nothing more than that she has a very strong heart, not only can play the role of mother in life, but also can take over the role of father alone.
Some time ago, I learned that she was planning to go abroad for pregnancy for a second child. It is enough for ordinary people to have the courage to have a second child, and she would not consider having a second child at all, but she. No matter what she wants to do, she will try boldly and take action.
Let's take a look at Ye Haiyang's profile.
She is from Changchun, Jilin Province, born in 1988. After graduating from university, I did a north drift for a period of time. It is precisely because of that time that she accumulated a certain amount of wealth, and later switched to Guangzhou to do cosmetics business.
She has a lot of energy in her work, and it is precisely because of her hard work that she has achieved her current achievements. Soon she became the CEO of the company.But her age has gradually reached the age of marriage. Like other parents, her parents also hope that she can enter the family earlier, get married and have children, and have a happy and happy home. No matter how successful your career is, life without a family is not perfect. But she is not like everyone else, emotionally smooth. After hitting the wall everywhere, she still couldn't find the person she liked, and then she suddenly thought that it would be better to have a child by herself. Don't rely on man to support yourself, and don't rely on man to give yourself a complete home, woman can still accomplish what others have done.
Whenever she comes home in the dead of night, the house is empty, she feels very empty, she feels that although she has a successful career, she has no children of her own, and the psychological gap is still very large.
My daughter had a test tube in the United States in 2017. In order to select a high-quality sperm, she spent about RMB 500,000 at that time. In fact, the preliminary work of the test tube is very complicated. Women have to suffer a lot of pain. The eggs are ripened, and when the follicles mature, the eggs are taken out and artificially cultivated. It is incomprehensible for a normal woman to suffer such pain.
finally succeeded, she gave birth to a daughter of mixed race from 5 countries.
It seems that after her daughter is born, her life is perfect, Ye Haiyang treats her daughter like most mothers . With careful care, in addition to daily life, she also has to take care of her own career. Of course, it also shoulders the responsibility of being the father , and gives the daughter enough fatherly love .
Anyone who has watched her videos must know that she is a loving mother who usually loves her daughter very much. She is a woman who is hard and soft. at work. She is serious and independent in life.
When her daughter went to kindergarten, she suddenly wanted to have a second child, . Feeling that a child is too lonely, she should find a companion for her daughter, so she went abroad to continue to do test tube baby . Preliminary work is currently under preparation.
A normal family would think about whether or not to have a second child, fearing wolves before and tigers later, but Zhang Haiyang was different. She would do it when she thought of it, no matter how painful the process was. The decision to have a second child was made by herself, entirely because she liked the child and wanted to give her daughter a company.
Many people saw her idea of having a second child, and felt that she was too courageous. But there are also many people who hold opposing views and feel that she is. It is undoubtedly cruel to let the child grow up in a family without fatherly love.
But she also has her own opinions and feels. It is her own business to have children. She did not disturb other people's lives, but closed the door to live a good life for herself. And she has the ability to give the child fatherly love, and you have the ability to give the child motherly love. Those who disapprove of her are nothing more than suppressing others with traditional ideas.
Instead, I admire her courage. I think her ideas are unique, and she is the confidence a woman should have. Some women live by men and feel that the world cannot live without men, but she is different, not only lives well, but also seems to be androgynous.
The opinions of netizens are mostly mixed. Some people can't eat grapes, say that grapes are sour, they dare not take that step, and they accuse others of doing something wrong. A woman should live out herself just like her and not be disturbed by external factors. How many women struggle in marriage and cannot extricate themselves, and how many people suffer in marriage, but dare not abandon their marriage.
In reality, there are many women who are struggling to support a so-called family for the sake of their children. But this family is full of indifference, full of coldness, and no words of love. This family has not brought any help to the woman, but the woman has to endure the infinite harm this family has brought her.
It may not be that after marriage, a family is complete. In fact, it may not be that many fathers use the name of fathers, but they ignore the family and have no time to take care of their children. After getting married, the whole family is left to his wife, and he enjoys all the fun outside.
In our opinion, most family education is also the mother who takes the main responsibility. After many fathers come home, they become the hands-off shopkeeper and ignore them, while the mother bears all the responsibilities of a family. How many women are widowed with babies? What's the difference between having a father and no father?
How can I admire Ye Haiyang? She took a step that women would not dare to take.
She has achieved the ultimate in her life and career, but she lacked a child, so she tried every means to give birth to herself, which is not wrong. Because she has the ability to give children a good life. She is a strong mother and a strong father. You don't even need a family to be on your own. Don't suffer from trivial matters at home, or even face what other people say. A worldwide problem - the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
All she needs to do is raise her children, do her job well, and leave the rest to happiness.
The reason why Ye Haiyang has become the idol in the minds of many mothers is because of her independent thinking and personality. I believe that Ye Haiyang can cultivate the two children well with her own efforts, and netizens will only bless her silently.
Do you think it is safe to do a test tube like Ye Haiyang alone to raise a child? Welcome to leave a message to share.
