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How difficult is it for a "rich" wife?
In the entertainment industry, many female stars fade out of the entertainment industry because of their marriage.
Among them, the most regrettable one, Ariel Lin is definitely one.
Since she was married to a wealthy family, she has basically faded out of public view, and it is difficult for us to see her come out for business once.
Not long ago, Ariel Lin suddenly went on a hot search because of pregnancy.
Lin Yichen has been married to her husband for seven years, but they have never had children. In an interview with an endorsement event, when asked about marital issues, Lin Yichen said frankly, “I tried everything I should try to prepare for pregnancy. I tried everything you can think of. Being a mother is a very important journey. I will treat it with caution. "
The media asked Ariel Lin again, would he feel the pressure? She also confided in her heart, showing that the psychological pressure she has put on herself has been great.
But there is no mention of the pressure on her from the family.
Marrying into a wealthy family sounds like a very beautiful thing, but in fact, it is very common for a mother to be expensive with her son.
Some people even broke the news that she was forced to eat frogs raw by her mother-in-law. It has been reported since 2014 because Ariel Lin has not been able to give birth, which led her in-laws to divorce her son and marry another.
In order to prepare for pregnancy, she stopped working for three years, which was a desperate move. The agent revealed that the lost salary could be used to build several buildings.
However, netizens found that Yichen Lin seems to be the only one who makes efforts to prepare for pregnancy. So what is her husband doing?
Lin Yichen claimed that the distance between the couple has become very large due to the epidemic, and they will see each other once every three to four months.
two people in the United States,One is in Taiwan, which has separated the two places for a long time. She said, “Since I got married in 2014, I have been in this state for 9 years and I am used to it.”
While she was talking, she touched her nose 4 times within 30 seconds, and she was hesitant in her tone. Netizens guessed her. Actually lying. There may have been a "marriage change."
Also because of this interview, some netizens found Lin Yichen's semi-retired life after marriage.
She wakes up at 4 o'clock every day to do housework, and greets her parents-in-law at 6 o'clock. Wherever the mother-in-law is going, she has to be by her side to wait on her, looking like a good daughter-in-law anytime, anywhere. The most touching thing in the marriage was when her husband said to her during a business trip: "I'm not here, you can go back to live in your natal house at any time."
silly for a word, a little thing moved.
Although she is not as sweet as usual, she still delivers a "I am fine" message.
No matter what, she has always been the most powerful presence in Taiwan's entertainment industry, and the road to comeback will at least not be as painful as when she made her debut.
Debut to pay off her debts, she used her life to act
Ariel Lin's debut was definitely forced by circumstances.
In 1982, Ariel Lin was born in , Yilan County, Taiwan Province. When she was 5 years old, her parents divorced. Since then, her mother has been alone to support her and her younger brother for more than ten years.
In the sophomore year of high school, my mother suffered a cerebellar stroke and entered the hospital. Lin Yichen learned that in order to maintain the expenses of a family of three, her mother could only use the card to support her.
The consequences can be imagined. More and more credit card overdrafts plus interest, owed a total of more than 3 million Taiwan dollars. For Lin Yichen, who is still a high school student,It's astronomical numbers.
As a teenager, Ariel Lin not only has to take care of her sick mother and her younger brother's growth, but also think about how to earn money to support her family. With a heavy burden on her body, she grew up overnight.
At a critical time, Ariel Lin ushered in a turning point in his fate.
In 2000, because my younger brother wanted a computer, he just learned of the beautiful girl contest organized by the Taipei MRT News. The prize money was enough to buy one, and he could also help the family repay the loan. Ariel Lin thought, or sign up for a trial. test.
Later she recalled: "I was holding that thick envelope and now in front of the mailbox, I think it will change my life?"
Unexpectedly, Ariel Lin won the championship smoothly and she signed a contract An entertainment company. This competition really changed her life.
Then, in the 2001 "Meteor Garden" fire, the number of idol dramas increased dramatically, and the demand for corresponding actors increased. Lin Yichen ushered in her own opportunity.
A director found Ariel Lin and asked her to act as the heroine of "Span11span 18-year-old Promise ". It was also this year that she entered the university and began to take over the burden of supporting the family from her mother, and her life began to be a hell mode of filming for debt repayment and attending school.
After this drama, Lin Yichen started the era of her idol drama heroine dominating the screen.
In 2004, Ariel Lin made her film debut "Span11span Leaping in Love ", which was shortlisted for the Best Actress in the Golden Horse Awards, and she was recognized by more and more people, and her resources have increased.
In the second year, and Hu Ge co-produced the costume myth drama "Flying Out of the Sky" as the eccentric fairy "Little Seven";
and Zheng Yuanchang co-produced the idol drama "Mischievous Kiss" as the dumb dumb "Yuan Xiangqin" who worked very hard,Let countless young girls take their first love into their own.
Ariel Lin has become the Taiwanese TV champion.
In 2008, the sequel " prank kiss 2 " was launched, breaking the ratings record for idol dramas at that time.
Ariel Lin won the 43rd Golden Bell Award with this drama, becoming the first person in Taiwan to win the Golden Bell Award with the idol drama.
In 2011, 28-year-old Ariel Lin and Chen Bolin played the proud and confident heroine "Cheng Youqing" in "I May Not Love You",
This drama is hailed as the most artistic idol drama in Taiwan history , Has also become the number one in the ratings of Taiwanese idol dramas.
Ariel Lin also successfully transformed from a simple cute little girl to an intellectual mature woman, and won the Golden Bell Award again.
At the awards ceremony, she said such moving words:
"Someone once said to me that the mission of an actor is to lead the audience to see a deeper level of humanity. I strongly hope that I can do it. At this point, I believe everyone in the audience is the same. They are performing with their lives, so we can definitely do more than today."
Ariel Lin is indeed acting with life.
The director of the prank Zhai Yongning commented on Lin Yichen: "He is a person with strict self-discipline. Strictly enough, it will also be a kind of pressure on people around us at certain moments. That kind of pressure is that we are not perfect, but she does not. Not perfect."
Ariel Lin is a very insecure person.
She was afraid that everything she got would be lost, so she could only choose to hold on. In order to hold on, she chose to chase the perfection in the eyes of others.
The actor of the same crew Zheng Yuanchang also mentioned in the interview that if he didn't make preparations in advance, he would definitely not dare to play against Lin Yichen.
Once, she would take notes on the script and practice it alone in advance.
The extreme squeeze time has allowed her to shoot 13 dramas in six years since her debut. Once, Ariel Lin stayed up late for six consecutive days for filming, and she often only slept for 2 hours a day.
However, it was precisely under this kind of high-intensity work that Ariel Lin paid off all the debts and took care of his family's life.
Many years later, the host of a certain program asked her if she had ever thought of complaining to her mother or complaining about the pressure. Lin Yichen couldn't help but shed tears: "How can I bear to tell her."
Such a hardworking and sensible girl is so distressed that she can't talk.
Ariel Lin, please work hard for your career
In 2009, Ariel Lin, who was at the peak of his career, was diagnosed with a pituitary tumor.
The doctor told her that this is a high incidence of young business women, usually caused by too much mental stress.
This sudden and serious illness reminded her of death and what to do if her family had left. She even wrote a suicide note.
Fortunately, after undergoing a resection operation, his condition gradually improved, but since then, Lin Yichen's mentality began to change and life became more casual.
She directly announced the suspension of her acting career and went to study in the UK for a year to study acting.
She said, "A TV series often takes half a year, but my life is not many half a year. I can't act other people's lives well and then mess up my own."
After the pace of life slows down , Ariel Lin met love.
In 2014, Ariel Lin served as a bridesmaid at a friend's wedding, and his high school classmate Lin Yuchao served as the best man.
The two met again after ten years. The interaction process of the dinner had a good impression. Two months were confirmed for life, and they became husband and wife in 2014.
seems to be the feeling of "Cheng Youqing" and " Li Daren ". Everything will come naturally.
Unexpectedly, after marriage, the two married for 7 years and often separated in different places.
Lin Yuchao does business in the United States, and Ariel Lin serves in-laws in Taiwan. And Lin Yichen is always careful in front of her husband.
once small S asked Ariel Lin if he ever fart in front of her husband.
Ariel Lin was very embarrassed to say no, and also hinted that he could go outside to solve it.
After marriage, the husband and wife maintain such a state of respect and respect, which always feels like a lot of pressure.
Lin Yuchao's family is in the diving accessories business, which is called "rich" by Taiwan media.
But considering that the daughter-in-law needs to get up early to cook and serve her in-laws, the outside world guesses how rich this wealthy family can be?
Lin Yichen's father-in-law once "praised": Even if the filming is in the early morning, she will not forget the task of making breakfast.
Actually, after years of hard work, Ariel Lin himself is considered a "rich man".
In this marriage, why does Ariel Lin have to be so careful and please everyone?
After marriage, is she really happy?
In 19 years, there were media reports suddenly that Ariel Lin’s husband had cheated on him and was caught on the spot by her. Rumors of marriage intensified. News has been coming out,She is also under the pressure of infertility and divorce.
I have survived debts and a serious illness...I thought this girl with a sweet smile could find a man who truly loves herself, and then be spoiled as a little princess and reap a happy life Later in life.
Unexpectedly, Lin Yichen still has not escaped the worst scene of marriage.
Ariel Lin's cautiousness and flattery show that she still has not gotten rid of the inferiority complex that came from before her debut, and she has not gained a sense of security from a successful career.
In fact, the sense of security is never given by others.
When you pin your sense of security on a man, be prepared to be disappointed.
Especially some men are rebellious throughout their lives. The more they are controlled, the more rebellious, and the more they are used to, the more willful. His heart is always like a child who is not growing up.
In marriage, the more a woman gives, the less she will be cherished. The more sensible you are, the easier it is to be ignored.
To put it bluntly, your existence is like an "old mother" or "nanny".
Just like this pregnancy, the two have been separated for a long time, and it looks like a one-man show by Ariel Lin.
Even if you successfully become pregnant, Ariel Lin will be a "widowed" childcare in the future.
As a bystander, what I want to say is the following:
As a woman, no matter how strong you are and how beautiful your love is, don’t give up your career after you get married.
Because love is a luxury, and it is fragile.
When the focus of your life is to realize your own value and no longer blindly pay for others, you can truly live as unattainable.
Only by being such a "selfish" woman will you be cherished more and more.
Lin Yichen also said in the interview that if there is really no good news for pregnancy, just let it happen and work hard.
It is said that she is already preparing for filming, and finally she is no longer obsessed with having children.
Sisters, if you are struggling to be alone in your marriage, please wake yourself up.
Because you are better than love and marriage.
About the author: Lina, 90 little fairies bravely pursuing a better life in the real world, likes to study psychology and write words.
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