Wang Lijuan called us for help. She said that her daughter Chen Fang is 41 years old this year, but since her daughter gave birth to her second child eight years ago, the son-in-law has sent her daughter back to her natal family and has since been ignored. Nowadays, Wang Lijuan has consulted with her son-in-law many times, but her son-in-law Zhou Dalong has avoided seeing her, and even filed a divorce lawsuit against her daughter in the local court. After ten years of marriage and gave birth to a son and a daughter, why does Chen Fang live in her natal family all the time?
The 40-year-old daughter has lived in her natal house for eight years, which makes Wang Lijuan very annoyed. In the past eight years, except for the three rice deliveries from the Wang family, the son-in-law has not bothered about it, and she will take care of all the food for her daughter. On the side, Chen Fang clasped her hands and did not speak, and let her mother speak. What happened to her?
Wang Lijuan said that her daughter wanted to go back to her husband's house, but was rejected by her husband's family, so he also had extreme thoughts. Chen Fang has been married to her husband for ten years and has one son and one daughter. Why does she not return home? Nowadays, her mother says that she misses illness and suffers from hyperthyroidism. Coupled with the indifferent attitude of her husband, she is shocked inwardly. She misses her children but cannot meet each other, so Chen Fang becomes depressed.
Chen Fang’s husband runs a factory in Guangzhou and is the owner of a garment factory. It stands to reason that he should not ignore his wife Chen Fang. In the past eight years, the elderly Wang Lijuan sent Chen Fang back to her son-in-law's house many times, but they were all blocked. Son-in-law Zhou Dalong even sued Chen Fang for divorce in the court, so why did Chen Fang be disgusted by her husband after giving birth to her second child?
Then we came to Zhou Dalong’s home with Wang Lijuan and Chen Fang. But Zhou Dalong was not at home, and the pair of children were already eight or nine-year-old alive children. When they saw their mother, they looked like strangers. Chen Fang's mother-in-law turned and left angrily. Seeing his daughter-in-law came home, Zhou's father looked angry and pointed the finger at her relative Wang Lijuan, claiming that Wang Lijuan had deceived the Zhou family and asked them to refuse daughter-in-law Chen Fang into the house.
Zhou’s father revealed that his son and daughter-in-law had a flash marriage. After the marriage certificate was obtained, his son Zhou Dalong was planning to move his daughter-in-law’s household registration into the home, but discovered that Chen Fang had a marriage. This made Zhou's family very upset, but because Chen Fang was pregnant, none of the Zhou's family members made a statement. What they didn't expect was that Chen Fang's temperament changed drastically after giving birth to his second child.
In 2010, Chen Fang gave birth to a daughter, and a son was born the following year. Since then, not only has she often talked to herself, she has also been unable to take care of herself in life, and has been accompanied by violence. Zhou's family suspected that Chen Fang had been insane.
Wang Lijuan’s daughter does not believe that her daughter has a mental disorder, she has always firmly believed that the son-in-law abandoned her daughter, which caused her depression. Regardless of whether Chen Fang is sick or not, Zhou Dalong should not allow his wife to stay in her natal family for a long time.
While the two families were arguing, Zhou Dalong came back. Wang Lijuan believes that her daughter is a great contributor to the Zhou family for giving birth to the Zhou family, but since her daughter gave birth to her second child, all this has changed. Zhou's family not only disliked their daughter and can't do housework, but they also always pick and choose from her and force her daughter-in-law to divorce.
Faced with the accusation, Zhou Dalong did not refute it. He said that since the second son was born, he set up a factory in Guangdong, and his wife lived in her natal family. The two were only married in name and they were already like Jasmine. During the conversation, Zhou Dalong ignored Chen Fang, and the two did not communicate.
Two years after marriage, Chen Fang gave birth to a son and a daughter, but in the past eight years, she only met with her children only a few times, a pair of children and mother kept At this distance, I didn't say a word for mother, and seemed to be used to the absence of mother in life. Chen Fang's eyes looked straight at the children, she wanted to get close but didn't dare to move forward.
Knowing this step, we can only sigh to Chen Fang's ladies. As a wife, she did not enjoy the care of her husband, and as a mother, she did not feel dependent on her children. For a woman, such a life is undoubtedly a torment.But in the face of setbacks, she still has to fight non-stop, hoping to be recognized by her husband's family.
Maybe husband and in-laws also have their own difficulties, but abandoning is not the best choice. If you have any questions, you can’t sit down and communicate, and talk peacefully? I think the best choice for a family in the face of disagreements is to communicate instead of turning a blind eye.
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