If you are a person with a weak personality, often bullied and called around, then today's video teaches you to be a person who is not easy to mess with.
"Dad", the founder of a snack brand, once said that every time I go to a new place, I will fight first and tell them that I am not easy to mess with.
Have you noticed that the more familiar you are with the people around you, the more you are bullied, the more you will be ruthless you will be, and the more you will play around with you. On the contrary, those who have just met will be more polite to you, so if you don’t want to be a person who is bullied and has a weak personality, you must learn psychological game. This is an eternal weakness of human nature.
A villain fears power but does not do morality. Some time ago, there was a movie called "Introducing Dust and Smoke", which is the best verification of this sentence. The hero has a good temper, but everyone still bullies him because only virtue is not majesty.
This power can also be a money right. Even if he quarrels with you, even if you are not so easy to talk to, such behavior will make him feel that you are not easy to bully. At least next time he wants to bully you, he will also consider it in his heart.
At the same time, you must also learn expression management skills. You need to have two expressions, one is to have a stern face, and the other is to smile, but at the same time, you must know that you are scheming and set principles. Never be the kind of person who smiles all day long but has no principles or bottom line, which is the easiest to be beaten by others.
For example, our unit used to have a big brother who was stern most of the time every day, but he was never affected by the intrigue and calculations of the unit. He didn't dare to provoke him for those particularly gossipy things and colleagues. During that time, a colleague complained that he had a lot of work and no one shared the burden.
Then another colleague said, "Go to find that big brother, he's idle." But that colleague said I didn't dare to look for him, and he was stern all day long, and I was scared. Another colleague said, if that doesn’t work, just find the new Xiao Fang, you see, he is still idle.
Look, people who often have a stern face have a sense of majesty. But this big brother is not stern to everyone, he also divides people and time, so he not only does his job well, but his leaders also like him.
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