Introduction Every single elderly person is afraid of living alone. In his later years, everyone wants to have the company of his wife, children, and children. But there are too many things in the world that we cannot predict or predict. Ideals are beautiful, but reality is reall

Introduction

Every single elderly person is afraid of living alone. Everyone wants to have the company of their spouse, their children, and their children. But there are too many things in the world that we cannot predict or predict. Ideals are beautiful, but reality is really cruel.

When people get old, many people have no way to have their spouse, children, and their children and grandchildren, and they often live alone in their old age. So now there are many elderly people who choose to remarry or live together.

There are some children who are very open-minded and they will agree with their parents' remarriage. But some children are not very good, and they have put forward various requirements and conditions for the elderly to remarry.

56-year-old Aunt Hong has been divorced for 18 years. She wanted to find another wife to marry, but her daughter made three requests. So what exactly did her daughter make? What did Aunt Hong think in her heart? Let’s take a look at Aunt Hong’s emotional experience. To facilitate everyone’s understanding, I will write it in the first person.

Narrator: 56-year-old Aunt Hong

My name is Hong Shumei, and I am 56 years old this year. I have been divorced for 18 years, and my ex-husband and I have only one daughter, and my daughter is raised by me alone. My ex-husband doesn't give a penny to my daughter. It's really annoying.

I met my ex-husband on a blind date, and at that time we were both at the age of marriage. If you are a little older, your parents will be in a hurry.

And the information was not well developed at that time, so many people got married by blind dates. Not as developed as the Internet and information are now, many people are in free love and marriage.

It took me half a year to go from blind date to getting married. It is impossible to understand a person clearly in half a year. At that time, I thought my ex-husband was OK in his work and looked good, so I thought that he would live a comfortable life when he married him. I just married my ex-husband in a daze.

But I found that life after marriage was not as beautiful as I thought. After my ex-husband got married, he was like he was not married. He would go out and play when he wanted to go out and he never thought about my feelings.

Sometimes he doesn’t go home at night. When he came back, I asked him where he went? He won't tell me. And sometimes he would lose his temper, and he felt that I had taken care of him too much.

Actually, I think as a wife, I don’t even know where my husband goes, and I think this is a sad thing.

Especially after my daughter was born, I felt that my husband was doing it even more. When my ex-husband was very young, his mother was gone, leaving only his father, an older brother, and he. It was indeed quite hard for his father to raise the two brothers.

When I gave birth to my daughter, my mother broke her leg, so my mother couldn't come to take care of me. And I don’t have a mother-in-law, so I count on my ex-husband to take care of me.

But he is a rude man, so I asked him to boil some water to take a shower. He thought it was troublesome and asked me to wash cold water directly. The child cried, and I asked him to hold the child. He said he couldn't hold him, so he let the child cry there. During the confinement period, he didn't cook a meal for me, and I cooked it myself. When my best friend gave birth to a child, the two mothers took care of her. One was busy taking care of the children, the other was busy taking care of her diet and daily life. And my best friend’s husband loves her very much.

Let’s look at me taking care of the children alone and cooking and eating by myself. Tired and sleepy, no one cares. Sometimes when I think about it, I want to cry. But what can I do? This is the path I chose myself, and I have to finish it even if I kneel down.

I have endured all these things. What I can't stand the most is my ex-husband's cheating. I was so busy at home alone that he actually had time to mess with her outside. My ex-husband didn't give me a penny of the money he earned from his own work. Others say that my daughter is her parents’ little cotton-padded jacket, but I think my daughter is not a cotton-padded jacket to my ex-husband.

When my ex-husband went to a high school class reunion, he cheated on his former first love. Later I heard that the two of them had fallen in love when they were in high school. At that time, because the girl's family disagreed, she was forced to pressure from her parents, so the girl broke up with him. But my ex-husband liked that girl very much.

Later I heard that the girl married in another province. Because her marriage was unhappy, she returned to her parents' home to live after divorce. They reconnected at the high school class reunion. The two of them got better like this. Facing my first love girlfriend, my ex-husband couldn't help but cheated on him.

To be honest, my heart was broken when I learned that my ex-husband had cheated. I feel that I am alone and have given all my life to this family, my youth, my whole life. But what I got was treated like like the ex-husband.

so I don’t mention how sad I am. Later I really couldn't stand it anymore, and I took the initiative to file for divorce. During the divorce, my ex-husband left the house with nothing, and my daughter's custody belonged to me. My ex-husband didn't give a penny to my daughter.

After the divorce, I sold my house because I didn’t want to live in such a depressing environment anymore. I deposited part of the money I got from selling in the bank, and then bought another small two-bedroom apartment myself. Anyway, we were just mother and daughter. At that time, I didn’t think about getting married again, so I thought it would be enough to train my daughter to become a talent.

Before I was afraid that the wife I would look for would be bad for my daughter, so I never dared to say that I would look for her. I worked hard to raise my daughter alone, and I became a father and a mother.

Especially every time I go to school for a parent-teacher meeting, I go, and my daughter is particularly disappointed. She once told me that she hoped that one day her father would be able to attend her parent-teacher meeting, and I was very sad when I heard it. Because I know that it is impossible for her father to attend his daughter's parent-teacher meeting.

Fortunately, my daughter is more well-behaved and sensible. The academic performance is also good. Later, my daughter went to college and after she graduated from work, she became farther and farther away from me.

Because I have divorced, my daughter is not by my side. To be honest, I really feel lonely when I live alone. Besides, if I have any accidents, others will not know me. Thinking about it, I feel very pitiful and terrible.

Then the sisters around me told me that I was still so young and I really should find someone to live with. It is easier to find when you are young, and you get older and have more and more underlying diseases, and you will be disliked.

And I saw that I had two sisters around me, and they were also remarried. But after they got married, their husbands loved them very much. They couldn't bear to let my sister do anything, and they gave her two or three thousand yuan a month pocket money. Their lives are really free and free.

I really want to find a wife to live with. I told my daughter this idea, and I thought my daughter would support me with all her strength. After all, I paid a lot for my daughter in the first half of my life. I thought that in the second half of my life, she would support me with all her strength no matter what decision I made, but the result was beyond my expectations.

My daughter disagrees with me to find a wife to live with. She asked me to live with her. But my daughter is in another province and I don’t want to go there. To be honest, I said I wanted to find a wife to live with. Later, her daughter had no choice but to let go. But she put forward three conditions: the remarried wife must meet these three conditions, otherwise my daughter would not support me in finding a remarried wife.

1 My monthly pension must be kept by my daughter

My monthly pension is 4,800 yuan. My daughter said that her monthly pension must be kept by her. Because my daughter said she was afraid that I would remarry, she would spend her retirement salary and subsidize her husband's house. Then I would have old age, sickness, or something, and I would have no money to pay.

And my daughter knows my personality. I am a very diligent person and likes to do housework. After my daughter knew that I had remarried, I took care of all the housework at home.My daughter said I can't be a free nanny. Since I have done housework, my wife will have to support me if I remarry, and I have to give me living expenses and pocket money.

So my daughter said she would save my retirement salary just in case. If I disagree, my daughter will firmly oppose my remarriage.

2 I am sick, the children of the remarried wife must take care of me

and my daughter also spoke because she is in another province. If I am sick, the children of the remarried wife cannot send me back to take care of my daughter. If you are really sick, then the children of your remarried wife will also take care of me.

Because I am only 56 years old now, I think I still have a lot of time. So my daughter thinks I can take care of my remarried wife for more than ten years. If I really have something to do with birth, old age, sickness and pain, she hopes that the children of the remarried wife will also take care of me and take care of me. If the children of remarried wife cannot do this, my daughter will also oppose me to remarry.

3 After remarrying, I have to move out of my own house

I now live in two bedrooms and one living room. Although the house is a little smaller, the geographical location is very good. It is in the city center and is a school district house. So my daughter said that if I remarry, then I will move out of the house where I currently live and move in to live with my remarried wife.

Then rent out my house because my house is very popular and many people rent it to accompany them to study. Although the house is small, the monthly rent is about 2,000 yuan. If you calculate this, you can also receive a lot of rent every year.

Then if these rents are paid, my daughter will not embezzle them. All are kept by my daughter. If I have birth, old age, illness and pain, I can take it out for me.

I think I can’t make decisions by myself all my life. I will find a remarried wife, and my daughter will also make requests. I think my daughter is a little selfish, she never thinks about me, just for herself.

Conclusion

In fact, Aunt Hong's life is indeed not easy, she married her first husband. Unexpectedly, the first husband was not good to her and cheated on her. Aunt Hong raised her daughter and thought her daughter was her mother's little cotton-padded jacket. However, after Aunt Hong's daughter grew up, her series of practices made Aunt Hong dare not

00 for as long as Aunt Hong had been with her daughter. In her later years, Aunt Hong wanted to find a wife to live with her, but she could not make decisions by herself, and she had to listen to her daughter. Her daughter made three requests. In fact, Aunt Hong is really not easy. Aunt Hong’s daughter is really selfish.

do you think the three requirements raised by Aunt Hong’s daughter are too much? According to these three requirements made by Aunt Hong’s daughter, can Aunt Hong find a remarried wife? Everyone is welcome to express their opinions in the comment section.

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