There are some people in the world who reveal hypocrisy and deception, whether for the sake of interests or other self-interested desires, just like a wolf in sheep's clothing. Many people will be deceived by the surface, but the hypocrisy below will not change the essential viciousness.
is the same in love. Almost everyone is talking about love. Whether love or not, they are all excuses, blurring people's definition of love. Even if many people feel deceived, they can only continue to act on the show. This was their own choice once.
However, as long as you pay attention, you will find that it is actually very simple to really judge whether a person is lying or not. He may cover it up with words and heartbeats, but some objective emotional expressions are uncontrollable and will be exposed in the details of your relationship.
is like a person's eyes, there is no way to disguise love. No matter how his words and deeds express love, if his eyes are not sincere, it means that the starting point of his feelings for you may be for desire, not pure love.
Therefore, in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, if you want to judge whether you love or not, your eyes are very honest, and they are usually divided into the following three types.
1: Deep affection and perfunctory
Eyes are the window of a person's soul. When everyone's emotions are not processed, the current emotions will be transmitted through the eyes. Many people can't even control the emotions that the eyes want to express. Therefore, if you want to know whether a person loves you, you can observe his eyes.
If the other person's eyes are very affectionate, although it does not mean that he will choose you firmly throughout his life, in the current state, his feelings for you are very full. Even if he says some exaggerated love words, they are from his original heart.
Even if he didn't say it out, he did not explain his attitude through actual actions, but his eyes when he looked at you have betrayed him. Many times the concept of falling in love and falling in love is different, and no one can stop the moment of falling in love.
So, his feelings for you are trustworthy at this moment, you can trust his dialogue. On the contrary, if the other party does not love you, then his eyes will also reveal a perfunctory attitude. You cannot see love in the other party's eyes.
No matter how enthusiastically he expresses his love and creates great surprises, don’t be deceived by his surface.
A start without love is destined to have a happy ending. Although you are very satisfied in the present time, you will suffer all the hardships in the days to come.
It is better to have short pain than long pain. When you realize the perfunctory in his eyes, no matter how much you love the other person, it is time to let go.
You are making excuses for him and are cheating on you. Obviously, such realistic problems are difficult to accept, but your life should have infinite possibilities and you should not pay for other people's hypocrisy.
true love should be sincere even if it is not passionate, either when the love is just beginning or in the long-lasting process.
Once the relationship enters the hypocritical cycle, there is no way to escape the tragic fate. So, while you can still look back, pursue your infinite beauty!
2: Focus and random
Meet the only one in life, everyone will leave the exclusive status in their hearts to the other party. From then on, no matter how good or bad others say, there is only the other party in their eyes. It is not because the lover’s eyes show Xi Shi, but a person’s love can add an infinite halo to the beloved.
Similarly, when a person loves you, his attention will only focus on you, and many times he can't help himself.
So, if a person really loves you, his eyes will be very focused when he looks at you, as if there are only you in this world.
Although you may be just a very ordinary person among the countless people, in his eyes, you are a unique existence.
On the contrary, if the other party does not have you in his heart, then his eyes look at you are casual, and you can't distinguish the eyes of him looking at you and the eyes of others.
Therefore, love and not love are actually very obvious. A person's eyes will not lie. You should be brave enough to distinguish between true people and hypocritical people, at least don't miss your life.
3: Shining and dull
Many people say "Love someone's eyes will shine." Although this statement is a bit exaggerated, in real life, looking at the person you like will shine, just like looking at the hope of a lifetime, on the contrary, looking at a person you don't love will make the eyes numb and dull.
If you want to judge whether a person loves you, you can see through these two points that you are shining in the eyes of those who love you, and you are also very lucky.
But if a person doesn’t love you, no matter what kind of love he says, his eyes will always be dim. From this indifference, you should see the ending of the story.
So, you must learn to face the reality directly. Although it is cruel sometimes, it will not cause you repeated harm, but will give you space to choose before you get stuck.
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