In love, many people will encounter this situation: is very sweet at the beginning.
After a period of time, either you want to escape or she wants to break up.
There is a particularly interesting phenomenon at this time, if your relationship is not a joke.
Then whoever grasps the "inverse rule law" in this relationship will have the initiative.
01-Inverse rule law
"Inverse rule law" explains this in the field of mathematics: inverse rule refers to the proportional relationship when the product of two variables is a constant.
two related quantities, one quantity changes, and the other quantity also changes, and the product remains unchanged.
so they are inverse proportional quantities, and their relationship is inverse proportional relationship (that is, one becomes bigger and the other becomes smaller, and the other becomes bigger).
This law in love can be simply summarized as: Your love value is fixed, the greater your love, the smaller her love will be.
As people say, Only when the even love lasts for a long time, which means that if their love is 100, then their respective values are about 50.
02-Quantitative law
Specifically for the specific behaviors in the relationship between two people, you will find that the reason why many people’s feelings dissipate is that the “ inverse law” is imbalanced. The consequence of
imbalance is: the larger the value of , the easier it is to be a "limbing dog", and the larger the value of a woman, the more likely it is to meet a "scumbag".
So in love, as long as your emotions are stable, the more you will be worried about gains and losses.
The slower you are in this relationship, the faster the other party will be in.
The more you love yourself, the more you will love you.
You don’t need the other party, the more the other party needs you.
The more mysterious you are, the more you are, the more you are, the more you are, the deeper you are, and you cannot extricate yourself.
The less you are afraid of losing the other person, the more afraid of losing you are.
When you don’t love each other, the other person loves you the most.
03-The law of inverse proportion in life
In fact, there are many similar "laws of inverse proportion" in life, as long as you discover it carefully, you will understand.
Just like when I was a child, my mother took you to the market, and you fell in love with a beautiful piece of clothing.
Your mother will tell you not to act like it first, , but look around first, and look around.
Then point at this dress at will and ask the boss: "Boss, how much does this dress cost?"
"You really have vision, this is the latest model, all exported, 200 Take it away! "
Your mother bargained "very casually": "80, just take it if you can!"
"How is it possible? This price is more than purchase price, if you are sincere, you will be 150!"
Your mother will pull you around and leave.
A few seconds later, the boss came from behind him: "Come on, take it away, take it away, sell it for you at a loss, just open it."
This is the usage of "Inverse Rule" in life . Only if you don't care about this piece of clothing, can you lower the price of the boss's heart.
If you act like this dress very much, the boss will have a judgment in his mind that he will only bite the price of 150.
Even if you walk out of the store, he will determine that you will come and get it later.
It’s not just about buying clothes, you usually buy a car or a house.
As long as you act like it especially, , the other party will easily eat you, and the chips in your hand will increase, which means you are at a disadvantage in the negotiation.
is like the "inverse rule law" (that is, one becomes bigger and the other becomes smaller, and one becomes smaller and the other becomes larger).
The more you care, the less you care, the less you care, the less you care, the more you care.
ending
This is a kind of "instinct" in human nature.
As we often say, only knows how to cherish it if you lose it, and the best thing you can't get is.
This is also a type of " equal-specific effect ".
So, after breaking up, there are many people who meet someone better than their ex.
They will also think of the goodness of their ex and recall the sweetness of their two people.
So in love, You must use the "inverse rule law" reasonably and do not let the balance of love be imbalanced.
Don’t lose yourself because of someone. As long as you lose yourself, it means you lose everything.
Swing wall outside the wall. Pedestrians outside the wall, beautiful women laughing in the wall.
Smile gradually disappears and gradually becomes quiet, but passionate but annoyed by ruthlessness.
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