text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you in ten miles. Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
"I will show you my true and dirty self without any concealment and bloody display it to you.
If you only look at me, what I want you to see must be the real me.
If you give me love, then what I want you to fall in love can only be the real me."
The relationship between two people should be so real and beautiful. It is so happiness that you can see each other's most real appearance!
However, in this world, there are very few people who dare to be themselves, and some people don’t even have the courage to confess.
The feelings of many people are not pure, and there are many things that are not related to feelings, which makes true feelings more and more rare.
Although the true love is getting less and less, it does not mean that you cannot meet it. When a person truly falls in love with you, he will be unreserved in front of you.
He will not hide anything from you, and even those secrets buried deep in his heart will be dug out by him and told you in detail.
This is a way he loves you. It is not only unique, but also very heartwarming. Especially when he tells you some unknown things, it can prove his sincerity to you.
Therefore, you must know that some things that people who love you will take the initiative to confess.
Actively confess personal defects
Almost everyone has some personal defects, which may be personality or physical. Although it is not a rare thing to have flaws in
, because many people are afraid of being ridiculed, they never admit that they have flaws.
A person who does not admit that he has flaws but suddenly confesses his personal flaws to you. It is obvious that he falls in love with you.
Although he knows that this is risky, he really doesn’t want to hide anything from you, and he doesn’t want to pretend to be in front of you all the time.
The purpose of his initiative to confess his personal flaws is actually to hope that you can have a deeper understanding of him and fall in love with the most real him.
He doesn't want you to fall in love with just his disguise, and he doesn't want to see you leave him after discovering his personal flaws.
With a frank and lenient attitude, he will take the initiative to tell you about his personal flaws and wait for your acceptance and tolerance.
If you already understand his intention, then give him more tolerance and don’t let him feel worried.
voluntarily confess personal income
For personal income, no matter the income is high or low, many people are deliberately concealing it.
The reasons why people conceal their income can be roughly divided into two types. One is that they are afraid that their income will be targeted by those who are interested if they are too high, and the other is that they are worried that their income will be ridiculed by others.
In daily interpersonal communication, you can find that many people are like this. No matter how you ask, they hide it and refuse to say it directly.
If this is a common phenomenon, it would be a bit strange if a person dares to confess his personal income directly.
The reason why he took the initiative to confess his personal income was not to show off or feel that it was indifferent, but because he didn't want to hide it from his beloved.
No matter whether the income is high or low, he will tell you actively and spend it generously on you.
He doesn't care how much he has paid, he just hopes you can be satisfied. Even if he spends all his savings for you, he will have no complaints.
How can you ignore such deep love? You have finally gotten such deep affection, you have to cherish it.
voluntarily confess the secret hidden deep in your heart
Everyone actually has secrets, because many secrets are related to their safety and happiness, so almost no one will take the initiative to confess their secrets.
Many people choose to bury their secrets deep in their hearts. Only after falling in love with someone deeply can they actively open the door to the secret.
There is no secret between two people who truly love each other, and even some old sesame and bad things will be poured out in detail.
This is the power given by love, even if it will cause him to bear certain risks, he will do whatever he wants.
A person can take the initiative to confess to you the secrets hidden in his heart, which means that he really cares about you. The more honest he is, the deeper his love for you.
may have some secrets that don’t sound that good, but it is indeed a proof that a person truly loves you, don’t misunderstand it.
After understanding the other party’s wishes, you must help him protect these secrets and never let him down on his trust in you.
Xiaojing's emotional message:
Love will make a person desperate, even if he knows there is a risk, he will still be unable to help doing it.
This is the magic of love, no one can resist it. As long as you fall in love deeply, you can only be controlled by love and confess actively.
Although some people are always fighting against love, most people are conquered by love. Under the conquest of love, it is inevitable to take the initiative to confess.
So you have to know that a person who takes the initiative to confess these things to you means that he loves you deeply. Such affection is rare. If you don’t want to miss it, then cherish it and protect it.