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The older generation of parents always advise their children to be cautious when getting married and choose a good match, rather than to settle for it at will. Because you settle for it at will, your future will be in a mess.
In fact, a good match refers to a marriage of equality. Only when two families are in the same family background, economic conditions are the same, and their values are the same, can the two families unite to unite, rather than drag each other down.
He Yao felt that God was making a joke for her. Her husband, who had chosen many times, turned out to be a foolish filial man. My parents contributed money and effort to buy a wedding house for them and handle the marriage. As a result, after marriage, her parents spent their pension on traveling for half a month, but her husband broke out, "It's all parents, why do you have to travel to my parents and work hard?"
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Before getting married, relatives and friends said that He Yao reduced her value. She was obviously the only daughter in the city, with a beautiful, rich and family background, but she chose a Phoenix man from the countryside. Although the other person looks good, a man is competing for talent and strength, not appearance.
Although He Yao felt a little uncomfortable, she still insisted on marrying her husband. For their marriage, my parents were worried about buying a wedding house and organizing a wedding, which seemed to be busier than getting married to a wife in the family.
After marriage, He Yao and her husband lived a happy life. In the second year of marriage, the two have a smart and lovely son. All of this made the once sarcastic person shut up.
Just as He Yao was living her own little life happily, her husband began to expose her nature as a foolish filial man. He refused to submit his salary card and was only willing to give 2,000 yuan of living expenses a month. The rest of the salary was subsidized to his parents, saying that his parents owed 200,000 yuan in foreign debts to buy a wedding house for his brother, so he could not stand by.
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The filial piety of He Yao makes He Yao even more uncomfortable. Since having a son, He Yao has been forced to resign and go home to take care of her children because her mother-in-law refused to leave her hometown and rural areas. And her parents have not retired yet, so they can't help.
After He Yao resigned, his economy suddenly became very tense. He Yao was worried about the mortgage and living expenses every month. At the beginning, my husband helped pay off his mortgage for 2 months. But after a long time, he was unhappy and said that his name was not written in the property certificate, and he had no obligation.
He Yao returned to her parents' home crying. After her parents learned the reason, they took the initiative to take over the mortgage loan and repay the subsidies for He Yao's family from time to time, which made He Yao live a little dignified life. After 2 years of enduring, He Yao's mother finally retired. Originally, my mother wanted to help her take care of the children, but He Yao thought that her parents worked hard all their lives and it was the 25th anniversary of their parents' marriage, so she advised her parents to go out for a trip, relax everywhere, and reward herself.
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The parents were reluctant to spend the money at first, but after hearing He Yao ask for money himself, their parents still nodded. However, He Yao did not expect that her parents spent their pension on a trip but were criticized and criticized by her husband.
After learning that my parents-in-law would rather go on a trip with their pension for half a month than lend him 200,000 yuan to pay off his debt, my husband broke out. He asked He Yao, "It's all parents. Why are your parents traveling and my parents working to pay off their debts? Isn't that fair?" He Yao didn't know how to answer her husband's question for a while. Her parents traveled, and it wasn’t their money. What qualifications does her husband have to question? As a daughter and son-in-law, it would be fine if they had no money to respect their parents. Isn’t it natural for parents to pay for traveling? What's more, his parents' debts were not caused by her. Shouldn't it be that my brother-in-law and his wife find ways to earn money to pay off the debt?
The husband was still roaring there, forcing He Yao to go back to her parents' home to lend money to pay off his parents' debts, otherwise she would not give her parents a pension. He Yao looked at her somewhat hysterical husband and her heart kept sinking. My husband is really used to eating soft rice, but now he still wants to eat soft rice.
He Yao didn't say anything, but threw all her husband's luggage out of the door and told him that after you leave the house with nothing, you can better help the poor and pay off your parents' debts. My parents spend their own money, what qualifications do you have to interfere? Even if I am the only daughter, it is not your turn to covet and plot my parents' property.
Today’s topic:
Do you support He Yao’s divorce?
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