Some men are very harsh on their original wives, give very little, but ask for a lot.
Some men do not know how to understand the hardships of their original wife, and always hope to meet better people.
However, when they truly came out of their original marriage, they did not meet the beautiful life they were looking forward to, but instead met all kinds of people, making them regret what they had lost.
Uncle Zhang has been petty all his life and is dissatisfied with his original wife. Because of his dissatisfaction with his wife, Uncle Zhang is almost an outsider in the family, and finally forced his wife to divorce after the child grows up.
After the divorce, Uncle Zhang started a blind date with expectations for a better life.
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Uncle Zhang still has a high vision and wants to find a young and beautiful person. He limited the age of his blind date to between 38 and 45 years old, believing that women of this age are the most attractive.
Uncle Zhang is 50 years old. Because of his good looks and a certain material foundation, Uncle Zhang confidently believes that he can make better choices.
After the divorce, Uncle Zhang earned 8,000 yuan a month and lived alone in a three-bedroom house. His job was stable and he was waiting for retirement. Because of this condition, Uncle Zhang was full of his initial will in the blind date, and his blind date has been very smooth. Many people liked him and were willing to try it.
However, Uncle Zhang is very picky. Many people who come to go on blind dates are not favored by Uncle Zhang, among which there are 35-year-old unmarried people. Uncle Zhang even dislikes others being shorter and is unwilling to choose.
Uncle Zhang was not satisfied until a beautiful 45-year-old woman appeared.
Living expenses per month
Women are tall and thin, good at dressing up, and speak softly, which is the type that Uncle Zhang likes. Uncle Zhang has been asking for such a partner in his life. When he married his original wife, Uncle Zhang was always very sorry, thinking that his wife was not satisfied with him in all aspects, except for a good job.
After getting married, Uncle Zhang only cares about his own carefreeness and rarely focuses on his family. His monthly salary is only 3,000 yuan in food expenses to his wife, and he collects the rest himself and spends it. Time flies so fast. In the blink of an eye, the child grew up. His wife filed for divorce. Uncle Zhang agreed after considering it. He believed that he could still live a good life after the divorce.
Meeting a tall and thin woman, Uncle Zhang felt that the regrets in this life could be fulfilled. Before marrying his original wife, Uncle Zhang had always wanted to find a woman of this type, but unfortunately he had no fate to meet her, so he could only marry his original wife.
After walking for half a lifetime, I met after the divorce. Uncle Zhang felt that this was the favor of fate and was very happy. However, Uncle Zhang's happiness did not last long. After meeting a few times, when he started to negotiate terms, Uncle Zhang was no longer happy.
The other conditions are all good. Except for the monthly living expenses of 6,000 yuan, Uncle Zhang is really hard to accept.
Selfish lessons
Uncle Zhang is actually a very calculating person. In addition to raising children and purchasing fixed assets for half his life, he spends very little on his wife. He never lets his wife know how much the salary card is. He will tell Uncle Zhang what big items his wife wants to buy, and Uncle Zhang will take out the money. In terms of daily expenses, Uncle Zhang gave his wife 3,000 yuan a month, and the insufficient part was that his wife's salary was filled by himself.
Uncle Zhang’s wife also has a good job and her salary is not low. Although she mentioned it several times, she finally accepted it.
It may be because my wife is so "not caring". When the blind date requested a monthly living expense of 6,000 yuan, Uncle Zhang felt that the other party was too calculating and too deeply. He probably didn't really want to live a life. Uncle Zhang said in his heart: I don't have so many things for my ex-wife, what qualifications do you have to talk to me about this condition?
Although the other party is the type he likes, his rationality still made Uncle Zhang stop.
Uncle Zhang told his good brother about the situation, and the good brother said to him, "You deserve it, this is the lesson of selfishness."
I believe you will always encounter
and you will meet someone you like, but there is no result.Uncle Zhang felt very sorry, but he believed that as long as he was sincere, he would always meet the person he wanted.
Uncle Zhang wants very simple, that is, he looks satisfied with himself, and it is best to be elegant and gentle. As for living expenses, Uncle Zhang is willing to pay 4,000 yuan a month. Uncle Zhang believes that 4,000 yuan per month is no less.
Now, Uncle Zhang is still full of energy on the road to blind dates, looking forward to the love and marriage life he wants.