Life is getting better and better. When people meet their basic living needs, they will pursue spiritual satisfaction. At the beginning of liberation, people could not solve the problem of food and clothing, so how could they talk about the quality of marriage? This is Maslow's level of demand.
Equal gender , freedom of marriage. Each has his own work and social status, and has his own ideals and pursuits. I don’t think about it before marriage. After marriage, I found that my ideological differences are getting bigger and bigger, and the contradictions are getting deeper and deeper. I naturally choose to divorce and go my separate ways.
1 is that most couples do not learn how to get along with each other before marriage, and do not know how to get along with each other after marriage. Faced with various problems encountered in life, due to different physical, physiological, thinking patterns and values, and different standards for dealing with people and things, couples cannot communicate effectively, and conflicts often occur. As the saying goes, there are no couples in the world who don’t quarrel. The root of the problem lies in the fact that after conflicts and conflicts occur between husband and wife, most couples are unable to resolve them in time, resulting in constant accumulation of conflicts and eruption after they continue to accumulate and intensify to a certain extent.
2 There are more and more opportunities for couples to choose their spouse again after divorce. With the popularization of new Internet technologies, couples have obtained more and more new information through various information platforms. In addition, the differences in cognitive and judgment abilities, the values of couples will be more or less affected to varying degrees in the face of various ideas and temptation trends. Coupled with large-scale population mobility, the social contact between couples is becoming more and more widespread, the opposite sex is getting along, and economically independent, and there are more and more opportunities to choose a spouse after divorce.
Third, all classes of society are becoming more and more tolerant of divorce, and couples are less and less concerned about divorce. In the past, when divorced, both husband and wife had a certain ideological burden, worried about being morally condemned, being coldly watched by people around them, or having too many negative effects on their children, as well as social discrimination, etc. The concept of divorce in modern society has been greatly changed, and there is also a great tolerance and acceptance of divorce behavior. The divorce method is simpler and more humane. Divorce only needs to negotiate between the two parties, and it is easy to get apart, without so much ideological burden and burden.
The social concept is too open now. It is not like before that people have been particular about their whole life. Now people don’t care about it. I want the life I want, I have to be responsible for myself and not waste my youth and time on people who don’t catch a cold. Some relatives and friends are not as good as before, and they are willing to demolish a temple rather than destroy a relative. They will make peace with each other until they are eager to persuade them. Now many relatives and friends have come up with ideas, and they still feel that they are so clever.
Finally, there are too many temptations in society nowadays, and poaching is everywhere. Beautiful women pursue every kind of pursuit after marriage. On the contrary, ordinary women are more at ease when they get married. There are also bad social phenomena such as workplace love, online love, one-night stand, and rich people supporting them. Some people cannot withstand temptation, lose themselves, and unknowingly lead to big mistakes.
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