Author丨Tongyan
calm down. It seems that 3 simple words are quite difficult to do. The three words
contain personal self-regulatory power about emotions, and also test a person's way and angle of viewing things. At the same time, it even includes the ability to think from the perspective of others to a certain extent.
Therefore, what can be done is often people who live more clearly.
A woman who can calm down at 3 moments basically means that she can eat her lover.
01. When it is ambiguous,
The next step in ambiguous is to formally determine the relationship. Girls can secretly promote the matter of determining the relationship, but don’t take the lead in asking it.
What is called secret push? For example, you can express your likes in a tactful way, without saying so directly. As long as both of you are interested in it, any words you praise or agree with will be kept in mind by them.
But remember: the final confession of must be done by boys.
Some people may think that it’s okay for girls to confess their love, as long as the final result is the same. In fact, there are still some subtle differences - the differences between boys and girls when facing intimate relationships are some of the differences written in their genes, such as boys tend to be proactive in hunting, while girls are much more passive.
The most important thing is that the boy’s confession can arouse his initiative in this relationship and the rest of his relationship. It will not make the , Libra , which will be paid, become unbalanced soon.
A girl I once knew made such a mistake. She liked a boy, and at first the boy clearly acted liked her. They started to meet each other and chatted until late at night every day. She is a person with rich psychological activities. After almost a week of chatting between the two, she directly broke the ambiguous feelings between the two and put forward the idea of being together.
Obviously, the boy was a little confused, but he still agreed.
Strangely, since she took the initiative to propose to be together, the enthusiasm of boys has greatly weakened, the responses to her has slowed down, and the number of times she has actively looked for her has gradually become more boys, and then it became her own show.
: One mistake in one move may lead to a loss in the future.
Don’t forget, everything has a development process. If the time for making a decision is wrong, then the direction of the result may eventually go in the opposite direction. The game in intimate relationships has always existed.
02. When conflict occurs;
When two people have conflicts, girls who can’t hold back are most likely to make two mistakes: one is to block or delete each other at any time; the other is always using the word breakup to solve the problems that arise.
. What are the situations that these two errors can easily lead to?
Generally speaking, a girl who blocks and deletes the other party when she is angry, or says the word breakup. is essentially because she cares about him very much. If she doesn't care, she will not have any abnormal behavior.
So, if you care, using this method will not only not improve your presence in an intimate relationship, but it will easily make yourself in a passive position and even become very cheap if you are not careful.
Because there are many girls who always regret after deleting or blocking them. They cannot find the corresponding steps. Finally, they silently bring the other party back and keep doing something back.
If you speak without trust more often, it will not help you build prestige in your intimate relationship. From another perspective, it will seem cheaper.
You are already telling the other person with your actions: You are a moody and emotionally unstable person, and you are very immature in your words and actions.
When you want to make him love you more in this way, you are actually constantly decreasing points.
The girls who are calm and calm will be in a stable state when conflicts occur. They will not make a decision easily, nor will they lose control of their emotions at any time, and do things that harm others and are not good for themselves. No matter how much they love each other, they will remain rational in their hearts, try to find ways to solve the problem, and be able to communicate with each other well. The most critical thing about
is that their communication is not just about blaming the other party or asking him to do what, but about being able to view this contradiction from a more comprehensive and objective perspective, while analyzing and realizing their own shortcomings.
In short, even if they show weakness, they are probably the ones who control the overall situation.
03. When facing a breakup;
Two people are together, no matter how much they love each other, they must have had moments of wanting to break up, and more than once. This is a stage that the two people must go through after entering the running-in period.
. When you are at this stage, it is crucial to use the method to pass through it, because this can directly affect the subsequent development and the final outcome.
After passing this stage, the relationship between the two people will often become more stable.
The calm girl will not always put her personal emotions in the front line at this time, nor will she just wait for the other party to coax herself, because they understand one truth: in an intimate relationship, the person who takes the initiative appears to be the weak on the surface, but in fact they are the real leading role.
People who are not afraid of giving and are brave enough to take back will be at the upper hand no matter in any relationship, will never be controlled, nor will they be led by the other party's emotions.
So, they may become the ones who provide emotional value at this time and be able to repair this relationship. Of course, in this process, it is the most perfect thing that both of them are rushing in both directions.
To put it bluntly, the true meaning of eating a lover must be based on a stable and powerful self-core - when you have the ability to love others seriously and are not afraid of any loss, it is when you are stolen by the other party.
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