When you choose to do something, either don’t do it or don’t think about it after doing it. Otherwise, the good things you have done will be polished out in the thoughts of seeking rewards.
Life is a voluntary choice, not a binding one.
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2017 was the year when Yu Ping had peeled off her skin.
Her man Zhang Ye was detained for suspected economic fraud. While looking for a lawyer to help sort out the case, I learned that he was cheated and the woman who cheated him had an improper relationship with him.
The husband has a lover, which gave Yu Ping a blow to the top of the five thunder. Later, I started an inner struggle around whether to save or not. My parents-in-law was old and cried to her to save her; her family was willing to support her decision; her friends each had their own opinions, and the groups of people who were responsible for their support, and the groups of people who were arrogant were called to leave.
Finally, Yu Ping decided to help her because of her young children. Looking for lawyers, finding evidence, borrowing money to maintain the operation of the company... When doing all this, Yu Ping was sad and angry, shameful, and excited, and contained infinite energy - looking at my righteousness, let you know a brand new me when you come out.
Zhang Ye’s affairs are both complicated and bloody: his lover works under his other lover (an old man who works in real estate). The two conspired to sign several contracts for the same project. Zhang Ye was one of the victims and the one who sued him was his construction team. There are also other victims, and I heard that they have a unclear relationship with that woman. So this incident threw Zhang Ye into a particularly ridiculous situation. He cheated and was cheated. He was still a woman who could do the same thing. This woman is equivalent to a prostitute raised by a big boss. Anyway, the world is very messy. Anyway, when he was played with, he still had to wipe his butt.
When saving him, Yu Ping kept trying to let Zhang Ye see the world clearly. If it weren't for this force, she wouldn't be able to hold on. After the leaves came out, they were covered in dust. Yu Ping didn't pay much attention to him, her indifference was a little contempt. The atmosphere at home is always tense, and Zhang Ye is always careful.
is always like a family, one benefactor and one sinner, and there is no normal communication. It is inevitable that something is wrong over time.
More than half a month later, when she went home one night, Zhang Ye took out a necklace to send it to Yu Ping and asked her if she still remembered that today was an anniversary. Yu Ping was dismantling the express delivery. She was going to the drawer to find scissors. Zhang Ye happened to block Dao'er. She roared in a low voice: "Get up!"
The two of them were also angry before. When he pleased her, she liked to say "get out." Now she doesn't say "get out", the word "is" is used on particularly familiar people, and it sounds a bit coquettish between husband and wife. "Start" is full of boredom and contempt, which is more polite, more strange, and more distance than the word "get out". The Chinese language and writing are very exquisite, and Zhang Ye did not squat. Why did she instinctively say "start up" instead of "walk away". Because his posture was kneeling, she first called him up and then asked him to open. She didn't care about his flattery, and her pride was all contained in these two words.
Zhang Ye did not give up. He followed behind and said that today was the anniversary of their meeting. Yu Ping thought to herself, I don’t remember the exact day I met. But she didn't say this. It was like saying to a beggar, "My profession is higher than you." It was an unworthy thing to say. If she said it, it would reduce her momentum. Moreover, she felt that Zhang Ye might not have just made the memorial diary of his acquaintance so clear, and this is probably just a reason for him. Also, she didn't ask questions, and she would be intimate when she asked, which was simply intimate. She has been holding the energy for a while and is not ready to let it go.
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Family and relatives were also more concerned about Yu Ping's emotional situation. When asked her, she said, "I ignore him." "What about him?" "There is an extra dog at home that can wag its tail." The other party just smiled.
. Friends with a very good relationship are given advice. In fact, this is not possible. You took such a lot of effort to get him out, not for the sake of multiple dogs at home, right? Yu Ping said what else can happen? My friend said you two have to talk about this thoroughly. Yu Ping thought to herself, could she still ask me to take the initiative to talk? Self-esteem must be allowed? My friend said that one day he performs very well, just go down the road.
Yu Ping took this matter in her heart. She felt that her friend made sense. When she had enough effort, she had to give him a step, otherwise this day would not be like a day. It’s not that she wants to be a great man, but that she also includes herself in this day, right?
After more than a month of persistence, one day Yu Ping was about to take her son back to her parents' home, and Zhang Ye was silly and wanted to be a driver for them. It was a coincidence that the air conditioner in the old couple's room broke down and asked the air conditioner to repair it, which cost 800 yuan. Yu Ping's mother thinks that if the machine is so old, it is not worth it. Zhang Ye is about to buy a new air conditioner. It was already evening when I went to the mall, and they didn't deliver the goods that day, let alone install them. Zhang Ye said he could pretend. However, the air conditioner outdoor unit weighs at least 100 kilograms, and there is no elevator in the old community, so it is a problem to carry it on the sixth floor. It was hot summer at that time, and I couldn’t sleep without air conditioning at night. If it was put before, I would probably ask the old couple to sleep in the house in front of Yuping, and then the family of three would also make do with the floor in that room. But now is the time when Zhang Ye needs to perform. He needs to perform if he has the conditions, and he needs to perform if he has no conditions to create conditions. So he, who was 140 kilograms, carried an air conditioner with an air conditioner weighing similar to his, then went down to carry the inner unit, and went out to buy tools. After a night of hard work, he finally installed the air conditioner.
The old man said, "It's better to have a new air conditioner, it's silent!" Zhang Ye was so tired that his face turned pale, his hands and feet were trembling, and he was smiling in his eyes.
The son also said, "Dad is so awesome! When our family is poor, Dad can go out to install air conditioners for others to make money!"
Yu Ping couldn't help laughing, and this laugh broke the deadlock. Zhang Ye looked at her excitedly and carefully, and she handed her back a look of annoyance, and the smell of a couple was back.
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After playing at Yu Ping's mother's house for two days, Zhang Ye came back to life on the first night. When sleeping, Zhang Ye's hands were not honest, Yu Ping said, get out. Zhang Ye said, hehe. Yu Ping said, it’s annoying. Zhang Ye said, "Wife, I'm wrong, I love you." Yu Ping still wanted to resist, but she lost her strength.
One shot to eliminate grudges.
In the following nights, neither of them was idle. It's a bit like a small separation and a newlywed. Yu Ping herself did not expect that after crossing this threshold, the two were still in harmony.
Once the mood is relaxed, people can spread their minds. Yu Ping asked, "Can you still mess around outside in the future?"
"I dare not do it anymore."
"You don't know how to die if you are played to death by others."
"Yes, I know I deserve to die. If I hadn't thought that you and my son still needed me, I would have thought about it that day I released it. Jumping into the river and commit suicide. "
" Who said my son and I need you? You think too much about yourself, right? "
" Yes, I know I am an unnecessary person, I need you and my son."
The couple are angry and are afraid of not quarrel. Once they are willing to slander, it proves that the drama is still long. After untiing this knot, the two lived a peaceful life for some time, and Zhang Ye's company slowly got on the original track. The peaceful life was like the morning of the first day of the Lunar New Year. The vigorous New Year's Eve passed, and the firecrackers on the ground were swept away, and the year had just begun.
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The next year, Zhang Ye made some money. He wanted to change the car, but Yu Ping suggested not to change the car and use that money to buy another house. Zhang Ye said, who can drive a car worth more than one million before I earn money. Yu Ping said that whoever has more money than you can drive a car worth 200,000 yuan. Zhang Ye said it was easier to drive a good car and talk about things. Even when playing cards, people first looked at the car keys you placed on the table.Yu Ping thought to herself, hey, this is still exciting. She was very dissatisfied with his attitude of turning over as the master, and blurted out: "You are a bit too early to show off? If I hadn't tried hard to make you, would you be able to make money this year?" Zhang Ye was also very unhappy: "Do you think I'm for my vanity? I'm not for business." Yu Ping shouted: "You don't use business for anything! Is it for other people's kids at the beginning? I was also doing business?"
Zhang Ye took a breath and said after a while, "Whatever you say is, okay!"
This is not a compromise attitude at all, it is impatient. Yu Ping accused him, but he blocked him back as soon as he left: "I said you make the decision, what else do you want me?"
This is a farmer and a snake.
Yu Ping thought to herself, maybe some monster will appear later.
Anyway, she took the money and bought the house first. This is no longer a question of buying a house or a car, but a question of who will be more morale when fighting.
Fortunately, the two of them had a long time, and Zhang Ye first turned around and took the initiative to refer to the house with Yu Ping. This made Yu Ping feel that he still has some help. But on the other hand, she was very panicked. Zhang Ye had already shown signs of bad news. He seemed to be trying to suppress his anger. This was definitely political incorrect.
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As expected, not long after the two of them got into each other again. Zhang Ye went on a business trip to Beijing, and Yu Ping told him to see her cousin. Zhang Ye said he had no time, but Yu Ping heard him drinking and smoky every time he called. "As for it?" Yu Ping said, "It's busier than the Prime Minister." Zhang Ye said, "I'm so tired that I don't want to move when I go back to the hotel every day." Yu Ping worked overtime on the computer every day, and when she heard this, she got angry: "I'm still tired of playing? Then why do you say you're not tired of doing it? You're not tired of getting tired of getting broken shoes."
Zhang Ye said, "You're going to quarrel."
Yu Ping said, "You haven't done it before, right?"
Zhang Ye said, "I'm busy, I'm hanging up."
Yu Ping said, "As soon as you talk about serious things, you..." Before he finished speaking, the phone was hung up by Zhang Ye. Yu Ping was so angry that she hit her again, and he would rather die than answer. Yu Ping didn't want the dignity anymore, so she beat him hard, and finally she became sad. Thinking about the power to save him back then, she had too much hope.
After this time, the war between the two continued to escalate. At first, Yu Ping judged that Zhang Ye’s business was good and that the slave wanted to turn over and do people. But after checking his account, it didn't happen much. The business was sometimes good and sometimes bad, and there were still some people who were not allowed to accept it. She doesn't quite understand this. Why is he strong? If he really gets divorced, he can live better than he is now?
One day, they were watching their own videos on the bed. Yu Ping thought Zhang Ye was turning on too loudly and asked him to use his headphones. Zhang Ye said that his phone was about to be charged, and there was only one hole, so he couldn't use the headphones if it was charged. Yu Ping had to use her headphones. As a result, when they were about to go to bed, they started arguing again.
Zhang Ye said, "You are looking for trouble all day long!"
Yu Ping said, "If you take half of your enthusiasm to coax a wild woman outside..."
Zhang Ye said, "Are you going to talk about this all the time to the grave?!"
Yu Ping said, "You have any reason? You will get your back hard when you recover, right? You haven't seen how many people wanted to see it at the beginning. We are joked, right? "
Zhang Ye said, "I am a grandson at home and being a turtle. Isn't it enough for so long?"
Yu Ping said, "You are a turtle because you did something wrong yourself! If you didn't make a mistake, would you be a turtle!"
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After a century of quarrel, Zhang Ye thought Yu Ping was unreasonable. He rolled up his quilt and took his pillow and fell asleep in the study.
At this time, Yu Ping saw her son standing at the door, her eyes frightened.
Yu Ping's heart suddenly broke into pieces. This is impossible to live. She thought to herself.What does a child look like when he grows up in an environment where parents quarrel every day?
⑦
days of collapse and quarrel for one and a half years, a cold war, and then a divorce was discussed. Both of them were calm and unrestrained. They were like the game, he was cold, she was even colder, and she lifted her bars upwards. For both of you who are proud, it is easier to negotiate a divorce because whoever wants to leave will win. The son and most of the property belonged to Yu Ping, and the two of them received the certificate.
After divorce, Yu Ping notified a best friend, and the best friend asked in surprise: "Why?" In the eyes of her best friend, she could even do such a righteous act back then. She was the most unlikely person in the world to divorce.
Yu Ping said why she could do it, it wasn't because he was messing around that year.
"Isn't it been two or three years? Is the momentum so strong?"
momentum? Yu Ping felt that this was not a lasting momentum, but she couldn't say what it belonged to. She just felt that there seemed to be tens of millions of roads under her feet, but in the end, there were still thousands of rivers returning to the sea.
After one parting, there is no way to be happy with each other, at least there will be no enemies.
Yu Ping's life is not better or worse. It just takes a stage to adapt, and then feels that it is quite spacious.
Sometimes she would think about this at night, and she has always been unable to understand. The ex-husband said that the reason for the divorce was that she had never forgiven him. Why did not forgive someone become her fault? Can one person not allow another person to get angry if he does something wrong?
Later one day, she went out to play with a sister. The sister was an old girl and said she was going to get married because she could never find a better man than him. What a good way? It turned out that she had cheated on her and spent a lot of money on another man. When she dumped the man, the man asked her to pay back the money, which made a big fuss. The boyfriend secretly gave the man 50,000 yuan. He never mentioned this, as if it had never happened before. After she learned about it by accident, she was very moved. Her boyfriend was trying not to let her be a little humble in the relationship between the two sides, so she never threw this matter out even when quarreling.
Yu Ping exclaimed: "He is a cruel person."
It turns out that being a good person is so great. Not only do good things, but you also have to do good things to sew your mouth. Otherwise, the good things you have done will be worn out in the thoughts of seeking rewards. If a person does not do good deeds, it is natural and righteous. Thinking about it this way, it is better to just take the blame when he is disappointed.
Yu Ping suddenly let go: "I admire your boyfriend. But I can't do it."
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