In 2018, a woman in Henan Province, whose father had been dead for many years, was bizarrely "resurrected". Not only did she not "death", she also became an "actor". Wang Qingmei's memory of her father was gone after she was 2 years old. She only remembered that her father hurrie

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In 2018, a woman in Henan Province who had passed away for many years was strangely "resurrected". Not only did she not "death", she also became an "actor".

The woman's mother died of illness because she missed her husband. Her only wish was to be buried with her husband.

In order to satisfy the mother's wishes, the woman chose to embark on the road to seeking her father again.

Wang Qingmei

What she didn't expect was that her father, who had been dead for many years, turned out to be the company instructor of the 9th Squadron of the Second Field Army, and was a soldier who defended his country.

Can she find her father?

Sleeping together in life, burying together in death

Wang Qingmei The memory of her father was gone after she was 2 years old. She only remembered that her father hurriedly packed his luggage, stroked his mother's face, and said, "When I come back, I turned around and left."

The reason why my father left his mother was because the country was in danger.

Not long after his father left, his mother changed his name to him, from a child's father to a martyr.

From her mother's mouth, she knew that her father had already died bravely in Huaihai Battle .

Huaihai Battle

At that time, Wang Qingmei was just a child of a few years old. She didn't know the meaning of the martyr, nor did she understand the reason why her father didn't go home for a long time.

She often pesters her mother and asks about her father’s news. When facing her questions, her mother does not respond, but instead finds various reasons to make excuses.

For a long time, Wang Qingmei gradually lost her expectations for her father. She thought that her mother and she were abandoned, and she was afraid that her mother would be sad, so she never mentioned her father again.

Under the general environment at that time, the economic conditions were relatively backward and the social environment was unstable. Wars often occurred. In order to ensure the normal life of the family, the mother had to take over the father's burden and carry the family.

For life, the mother sets off before dawn every day and always comes back late at night. She is like a man, doing the hardest and most tiring heavy work on the construction site, just to give her children a good living environment.

Chinese working women

Faced with the burden of life, she never called hardship, said she was tired, nor complained about the unfairness of life, but worked hard and worked tirelessly.

As the days pass by day, Wang Qingmei has gradually grown up and can reduce the burden on her mother.

As the child grows up, the mother gradually grows older, and the torture of life begins to reveal her true face.

Because she was too old and overworked when she was young, her body became weaker and she entered the intensive care unit of the hospital .

When she was sick, Wang Qingmei was extremely scared. She and her mother had been dependent on each other for many years and had already integrated into one. Now her mother is facing a life-and-death choice, but she is powerless. Her heart is full of struggle and collapse.

In order to keep her mother, she handed over all her assets to the hospital, hoping that they could save her mother.

But all this is in vain. My mother's condition is irreversible, and death is a matter of time.

After losing hope, Wang Qingmei had to take her mother home and leave a beautiful memory for her mother at the last moment of her life.

When her mother died, she kept muttering a sentence: " I didn't live together when I was alive. Can I bury it for us when I die? Find your father, I miss him very much. "

Wang Qingmei felt very uncomfortable after hearing what her mother said.

It turns out that the mother has not mentioned her father for many years, not because she doesn’t think of him, but because she is afraid that she will lose her fighting spirit and let her child lose her mother.

Wang Qingmei thought that she should do her best to make her mother's last wish come true and she can leave safely.

However, because my father passed away too early, there was nothing in the family that could directly prove his father's appearance. Because of financial difficulties, there were no photos at home, and my memory of his father was also very vague.

PLA soldiers during the Huaihai Battle

Based on this reality, Wang Qingmei had to strand her plan to find her father.

But she didn't expect that many years later, he would see the "father" who had been dead for many years on the big screen!

In 2018, Wang Qingmei actually found clues about her father when she was watching the old film "Defending Yan'an".

At that time, Wang Qingmei was already an old man in her seventies, and her granddaughter was almost ten years old.

Granddaughter often stays with her grandmother. She found that her grandmother is watching the TV series "Defending Yan'an" over and over again, paying close attention to the company instructor named "Wang Chengde" in the TV series.

granddaughter thought something was wrong with her grandmother, so she told her parents, and Wang Qingmei's sons found that their mother often stared at the company instructor actor named "Wang Chengde" and shed tears.

"Defend Yan'an" TV series

Out of concern, the children carefully asked their mother. From Wang Qingmei's mouth, everyone knew the identity of the actor. It turned out to be Wang Chengde, the father of Wang Qingmei, who had been dead for many years. The two people not only had the same names, but also looked very similar.

At first, Wang Qingmei also suspected that she had read it wrong and could not believe it, so she did not pay too much attention to the actor's situation.

However, after a period of thinking, she felt that something was getting worse and wrong, in order to thoroughly verify her guess.

She pulled out the TV series to watch it many times, repeatedly observing the actor's appearance, and finding relevant information about the actor's role.

What I wonder is that the characters in the play are exactly the same as their father. Not only are they born the same day, they look extremely similar, but their personal situations are also very similar, their personalities, and their ways of speaking are also similar.

In this case, she was more convinced of her judgment and firmly believed that this actor played the role of her father who had been dead for many years!

But is this really the case? Is this actor really her father who has been dead for many years?

Army Personnel

In the TV series, Wang Chengde is the company instructor of the 27th Brigade of the 9th Column of the Second Field Army and a famous instructor of the army.

In real life, Wang Qingmei also checked the old and slightly yellowed martyr certificate at home. On the paper with the word Yulie on the martyr certificate, Wang Chengde's "Unit during his lifetime" column clearly stated "27th Brigade, the 9th Column of the Second Field Army". The information of

was so bizarre that Wang Qingmei had to believe that the actor played his father.

Some soldiers of the Second Field Army took a photo

After learning the comparison results, Wang Qingmei embarked on a journey to find out her father. She planned to go to the troops where her father served before her death to ask about the relevant situation and find out whether her father died.

After all, my father was only two years old when he left, and he was still a child who didn’t know anything. He had no memory and avoided mistakes. It’s better to make sure the situation before recognizing his relatives.

Wang Qingmei's father was born in 1921. Because of the poor economy, he could only live on farming.

When Japan invaded China, he resolutely devoted himself to Anti-Japanese War . In 1945, China won, and he was elected as the village chief and was divided into a lot of real estate.

Just when he thought life was on the right track and life was getting more and more hopeful, Chiang Kai-shek began to restless, and he launched the civil war .

In order to protect the interests of himself and the people, Wang Chengde chose to join the battle and work hard for the stability of the country.

PLA soldiers

In order to liberate as soon as possible, Wang Chengde had to carry his bags and leave his hometown. He reluctantly said goodbye to his wife and children, and rushed to the center of the war with the large army. After entering the army, Wang Chengde actively responded to the army's call and was brave in fighting. With his outstanding combat capabilities, he was recognized by the leaders.

In March 1948, the ninth column where Wang Chengde was located participated in the battle of Luoyang as ordered. They took only 6 days to liberate a big city in Henan that was suffering.

The people were very grateful and everyone came out to celebrate. At the same time, Wang Qingmei's mother, who was still staying in her hometown of Jiaozuo , also received a letter from Wang Chengde, hoping that she could take her daughter to Luoyang to reunite, and meet her daughter and wife who had not been together for a long time.

However, the social environment at that time was not stable. Although the two places were only more than 100 kilometers apart, the transportation was not well developed.

Luoyang Battle

Moreover, Wang Qingmei was only four years old at that time, and Wang Qingmei's mother was only in her twenties. No one was relieved when they went out.

For safety reasons, the mother and son still did not follow their husband's advice and chose to stay at home.

But they didn't expect that this time the failure of the agreement would become a farewell. The mother and son never saw Wang Chengde again, nor received a letter from him again.

After the founding of New China, the state sent people to send condolences to the families of martyrs who died in the war, including Wang Chengde.

State staff came to Wang Qingmei's home with a martyr's certificate, found her working mother, solemnly handed Wang Chengde's martyr's certificate to her, and told her husband about his death.

The country said that it will provide certain compensation to the families of martyrs so that they can live a stable life.

Marty Memorial Hall

After receiving the news of her husband's death, Wang Qingmei's mother did not come back to her senses for a long time. She stood beside the farmland in a daze, without saying a word.

After a while, she burst into tears and shed tears at Wang Qingmei one by one, regretting that she did not take her daughter to Luoyang to visit her husband.

After the incident, Wang Qingmei's mother also asked her husband's comrades to find her husband's body. After all, except for a martyr's certificate, the country did not bring back her husband's body and relics.

Wang Qingmei's mother couldn't bear to see her husband wandering alone on the battlefield, and repeatedly begged the comrades in the army to find her husband's body.

However, the battlefield is ruthless and cold after all. Although his comrades went to the battlefield many times to find Wang Chengde's body, they all returned in vain.

has no choice but to give up searching, after all, the battlefield is not safe.

Now, she finally found the news about her father. She must not miss it. Will she succeed this time?

Successfully searching for his father

After knowing the troops he belonged to during his lifetime, Wang Qingmei rushed to Zhaibuchang Village, Boai County, Jiaozuo City, which is the establishment location of the 9th Column of the Shanxi-Hebei-Shandong-Henan Field Army in 1947.

It’s a pity that she did not find the exact news about her father here.

There is no specific information about Wang Chengde in the Ninth Column Memorial Hall, nor does it have his photos or introductions.

After careful investigation, Wang Qingmei still did not find news about her father in the memorial hall.

Just when she was disappointed, good news came.

staff said that after the victory of the war, many veterans sent relevant photos.

staff suggested that Wang Qingmei search in the album, and maybe she could find news about Wang Chengde.

王成德烈士

听了这个消息以后,74岁的王庆梅坐在照片墙前,一张一张地观看照片,试图找到父亲的痕迹。

在长达两个多小时的寻找中,她看到了一个模糊的身影,在照片的角落微微带笑。

Wang Qingmei found that this person's temperament was slightly similar to her father. She stared at the photo and was a little dazed. After a while, she told the staff: "I look so kind to see this person!"

When she told the staff, Wang Qingmei knew the identity of this person, that is her father! After the staff of

learned about Wang Qingmei’s wish, they helped her find an old soldier named Du Ping. He was once a guard in a unit of the Ninth Column and had a good understanding of the battles of the Ninth Column that year.

虽然杜平年岁很高了,但他思维还是比较清晰的,能够明确地说出首长的名字和曾经参加过的战斗。

王成德证件

可惜的是,他对王成德并不是很了解,两个人并不属于同一个部队。

后来,他们又找到当初晋冀鲁豫野战军第九纵队的一些战友,但大家的年岁都已经八十好几了,年长的已经过百了。

Moreover, in order to protect the safety of the soldiers, the troops signed the confidentiality agreement . They did not know their identities or even their real names.

在这样的情况下,王庆梅迟迟找不到父亲的消息!

Of course, the process of asking the veterans was not gaining nothing. One veteran still remembered the situation back then and told Wang Qingmei that after the Huaihai Battle, there was a martyrs' cemetery in Shuangduiji, Anhui, where many soldiers who died in the Huaihai Battle were buried.

知道这个消息以后,王庆梅带着女儿和其他几名亲戚立刻赶往了安徽。

Here, she saw a line of martyrs monuments and tens of thousands of names.

martyrs tombstone

Many martyrs have no ashes or graves, only one name is carved alone on the stone tablet.

Wang Qingmei did not rest after arriving at the cemetery, so she started looking for her father's name one by one.

她从第一排找到了最后一排,一直没有休息。

可是,她翻遍了整个陵园,依然没有找到父亲的名字,直到他来到了一座高大的墓碑旁时,她发现这里刻着几百位烈士的名字。

她拿着老花镜,一个一个地念叨着,经过半个小时的查找,她终于在一众名字中找到了“王成德”三个字。

She stroked the three words on the tombstone and leaned against the monument, unable to stop crying.

finally found his father and finally fulfilled his mother's last wish.

She cried and shouted, " Dad, my daughter is late, I'm here to see you. "

Unfortunately, because the name Wang Chengde was only in the cemetery, Wang Qingmei could not realize her mother's last wish to be buried together.

She could only buy a shroud for her father, then a red brick, wrap the two things together and put them in her mother's tomb. This can be regarded as a joint burial!

Nowadays, Wang Qingmei not only found her father's resting place, but also was able to worship her father every year. In her heart, her father is a great hero who stands tall and strong. Although she lacks her childhood companionship, she can understand that she has defended the motherland!

And that actor is an affirmation of his father's achievements and is the best interpretation of his father's heroic deeds. Without that actor, I believe that Wang Qingmei might not be able to find news about her father for a moment, nor could she fulfill her mother's last wish. This is also a fate that is destined!

From the War of Resistance Against Japan to the War of Liberation to the War of Resistance Against U.S. Aggression and Aid Korea, our country's brave men have never been inferior to others. They dare to give, act bravely, are not afraid of difficulties, are not afraid of death, and are willing to give everything for the stability of the country.

They may be the pillars of a family, maybe the husband, maybe the son, or the father, but they all devoted themselves to the defense of the country without hesitation. How can this not be moved?

Wars have always been harsh and ruthless. How many young men have lost their lives because of the war? How many martyrs like "Wang Chengde" in China are wandering outside.

Nowadays, we only hope that world peace, war will no longer invade the people, the country can be stable, the people live and work in peace and contentment, and the world will be peaceful and stable.

As long as there is no war, the world will still be beautiful!

We will worship the heroes who sacrificed their lives for the country and the people with the highest respect. We will live up to our expectations, get better and better, and move towards the top of the world! ​​

Wang Qingmei thought that she should do her best to make her mother's last wish come true and she can leave safely.

However, because my father passed away too early, there was nothing in the family that could directly prove his father's appearance. Because of financial difficulties, there were no photos at home, and my memory of his father was also very vague.

PLA soldiers during the Huaihai Battle

Based on this reality, Wang Qingmei had to strand her plan to find her father.

But she didn't expect that many years later, he would see the "father" who had been dead for many years on the big screen!

In 2018, Wang Qingmei actually found clues about her father when she was watching the old film "Defending Yan'an".

At that time, Wang Qingmei was already an old man in her seventies, and her granddaughter was almost ten years old.

Granddaughter often stays with her grandmother. She found that her grandmother is watching the TV series "Defending Yan'an" over and over again, paying close attention to the company instructor named "Wang Chengde" in the TV series.

granddaughter thought something was wrong with her grandmother, so she told her parents, and Wang Qingmei's sons found that their mother often stared at the company instructor actor named "Wang Chengde" and shed tears.

"Defend Yan'an" TV series

Out of concern, the children carefully asked their mother. From Wang Qingmei's mouth, everyone knew the identity of the actor. It turned out to be Wang Chengde, the father of Wang Qingmei, who had been dead for many years. The two people not only had the same names, but also looked very similar.

At first, Wang Qingmei also suspected that she had read it wrong and could not believe it, so she did not pay too much attention to the actor's situation.

However, after a period of thinking, she felt that something was getting worse and wrong, in order to thoroughly verify her guess.

She pulled out the TV series to watch it many times, repeatedly observing the actor's appearance, and finding relevant information about the actor's role.

What I wonder is that the characters in the play are exactly the same as their father. Not only are they born the same day, they look extremely similar, but their personal situations are also very similar, their personalities, and their ways of speaking are also similar.

In this case, she was more convinced of her judgment and firmly believed that this actor played the role of her father who had been dead for many years!

But is this really the case? Is this actor really her father who has been dead for many years?

Army Personnel

In the TV series, Wang Chengde is the company instructor of the 27th Brigade of the 9th Column of the Second Field Army and a famous instructor of the army.

In real life, Wang Qingmei also checked the old and slightly yellowed martyr certificate at home. On the paper with the word Yulie on the martyr certificate, Wang Chengde's "Unit during his lifetime" column clearly stated "27th Brigade, the 9th Column of the Second Field Army". The information of

was so bizarre that Wang Qingmei had to believe that the actor played his father.

Some soldiers of the Second Field Army took a photo

After learning the comparison results, Wang Qingmei embarked on a journey to find out her father. She planned to go to the troops where her father served before her death to ask about the relevant situation and find out whether her father died.

After all, my father was only two years old when he left, and he was still a child who didn’t know anything. He had no memory and avoided mistakes. It’s better to make sure the situation before recognizing his relatives.

Wang Qingmei's father was born in 1921. Because of the poor economy, he could only live on farming.

When Japan invaded China, he resolutely devoted himself to Anti-Japanese War . In 1945, China won, and he was elected as the village chief and was divided into a lot of real estate.

Just when he thought life was on the right track and life was getting more and more hopeful, Chiang Kai-shek began to restless, and he launched the civil war .

In order to protect the interests of himself and the people, Wang Chengde chose to join the battle and work hard for the stability of the country.

PLA soldiers

In order to liberate as soon as possible, Wang Chengde had to carry his bags and leave his hometown. He reluctantly said goodbye to his wife and children, and rushed to the center of the war with the large army. After entering the army, Wang Chengde actively responded to the army's call and was brave in fighting. With his outstanding combat capabilities, he was recognized by the leaders.

In March 1948, the ninth column where Wang Chengde was located participated in the battle of Luoyang as ordered. They took only 6 days to liberate a big city in Henan that was suffering.

The people were very grateful and everyone came out to celebrate. At the same time, Wang Qingmei's mother, who was still staying in her hometown of Jiaozuo , also received a letter from Wang Chengde, hoping that she could take her daughter to Luoyang to reunite, and meet her daughter and wife who had not been together for a long time.

However, the social environment at that time was not stable. Although the two places were only more than 100 kilometers apart, the transportation was not well developed.

Luoyang Battle

Moreover, Wang Qingmei was only four years old at that time, and Wang Qingmei's mother was only in her twenties. No one was relieved when they went out.

For safety reasons, the mother and son still did not follow their husband's advice and chose to stay at home.

But they didn't expect that this time the failure of the agreement would become a farewell. The mother and son never saw Wang Chengde again, nor received a letter from him again.

After the founding of New China, the state sent people to send condolences to the families of martyrs who died in the war, including Wang Chengde.

State staff came to Wang Qingmei's home with a martyr's certificate, found her working mother, solemnly handed Wang Chengde's martyr's certificate to her, and told her husband about his death.

The country said that it will provide certain compensation to the families of martyrs so that they can live a stable life.

Marty Memorial Hall

After receiving the news of her husband's death, Wang Qingmei's mother did not come back to her senses for a long time. She stood beside the farmland in a daze, without saying a word.

After a while, she burst into tears and shed tears at Wang Qingmei one by one, regretting that she did not take her daughter to Luoyang to visit her husband.

After the incident, Wang Qingmei's mother also asked her husband's comrades to find her husband's body. After all, except for a martyr's certificate, the country did not bring back her husband's body and relics.

Wang Qingmei's mother couldn't bear to see her husband wandering alone on the battlefield, and repeatedly begged the comrades in the army to find her husband's body.

However, the battlefield is ruthless and cold after all. Although his comrades went to the battlefield many times to find Wang Chengde's body, they all returned in vain.

has no choice but to give up searching, after all, the battlefield is not safe.

Now, she finally found the news about her father. She must not miss it. Will she succeed this time?

Successfully searching for his father

After knowing the troops he belonged to during his lifetime, Wang Qingmei rushed to Zhaibuchang Village, Boai County, Jiaozuo City, which is the establishment location of the 9th Column of the Shanxi-Hebei-Shandong-Henan Field Army in 1947.

It’s a pity that she did not find the exact news about her father here.

There is no specific information about Wang Chengde in the Ninth Column Memorial Hall, nor does it have his photos or introductions.

After careful investigation, Wang Qingmei still did not find news about her father in the memorial hall.

Just when she was disappointed, good news came.

staff said that after the victory of the war, many veterans sent relevant photos.

staff suggested that Wang Qingmei search in the album, and maybe she could find news about Wang Chengde.

martyr Wang Chengde

After hearing this news, 74-year-old Wang Qingmei sat in front of the photo wall, watching the photos one by one, trying to find traces of her father.

During the search for more than two hours, she saw a blurry figure, smiling slightly in the corner of the photo.

Wang Qingmei found that this person's temperament was slightly similar to her father. She stared at the photo and was a little dazed. After a while, she told the staff: "I look so kind to see this person!"

When she told the staff, Wang Qingmei knew the identity of this person, that is her father! After the staff of

learned about Wang Qingmei’s wish, they helped her find an old soldier named Du Ping. He was once a guard in a unit of the Ninth Column and had a good understanding of the battles of the Ninth Column that year.

Although Du Ping is very old, his thinking is still relatively clear and he can clearly say the leader's name and the battles he has participated in.

Wang Chengde ID

Unfortunately, he did not know Wang Chengde very well, and the two did not belong to the same army.

Later, they found some comrades from the 9th Column of the Jin-Hebei-Shandong-Henan Field Army, but everyone is already over 80 years old, and the older one is over 100 years old.

Moreover, in order to protect the safety of the soldiers, the troops signed the confidentiality agreement . They did not know their identities or even their real names.

Under such circumstances, Wang Qingmei couldn't find news about her father!

Of course, the process of asking the veterans was not gaining nothing. One veteran still remembered the situation back then and told Wang Qingmei that after the Huaihai Battle, there was a martyrs' cemetery in Shuangduiji, Anhui, where many soldiers who died in the Huaihai Battle were buried.

After learning of the news, Wang Qingmei immediately rushed to Anhui with her daughter and several other relatives.

Here, she saw a line of martyrs monuments and tens of thousands of names.

martyrs tombstone

Many martyrs have no ashes or graves, only one name is carved alone on the stone tablet.

Wang Qingmei did not rest after arriving at the cemetery, so she started looking for her father's name one by one.

She found the last row from the first row and had no rest.

However, she searched through the entire cemetery and still couldn't find her father's name. Until he came to a tall tombstone, she found that there were hundreds of martyrs engraved here.

She held reading glasses and muttered one by one. After half an hour of searching, she finally found the three words "Wang Chengde" among the names.

She stroked the three words on the tombstone and leaned against the monument, unable to stop crying.

finally found his father and finally fulfilled his mother's last wish.

She cried and shouted, " Dad, my daughter is late, I'm here to see you. "

Unfortunately, because the name Wang Chengde was only in the cemetery, Wang Qingmei could not realize her mother's last wish to be buried together.

She could only buy a shroud for her father, then a red brick, wrap the two things together and put them in her mother's tomb. This can be regarded as a joint burial!

Nowadays, Wang Qingmei not only found her father's resting place, but also was able to worship her father every year. In her heart, her father is a great hero who stands tall and strong. Although she lacks her childhood companionship, she can understand that she has defended the motherland!

And that actor is an affirmation of his father's achievements and is the best interpretation of his father's heroic deeds. Without that actor, I believe that Wang Qingmei might not be able to find news about her father for a moment, nor could she fulfill her mother's last wish. This is also a fate that is destined!

From the War of Resistance Against Japan to the War of Liberation to the War of Resistance Against U.S. Aggression and Aid Korea, our country's brave men have never been inferior to others. They dare to give, act bravely, are not afraid of difficulties, are not afraid of death, and are willing to give everything for the stability of the country.

They may be the pillars of a family, maybe the husband, maybe the son, or the father, but they all devoted themselves to the defense of the country without hesitation. How can this not be moved?

Wars have always been harsh and ruthless. How many young men have lost their lives because of the war? How many martyrs like "Wang Chengde" in China are wandering outside.

Nowadays, we only hope that world peace, war will no longer invade the people, the country can be stable, the people live and work in peace and contentment, and the world will be peaceful and stable.

As long as there is no war, the world will still be beautiful!

We will worship the heroes who sacrificed their lives for the country and the people with the highest respect. We will live up to our expectations, get better and better, and move towards the top of the world! ​​