records some ordinary women. One of the
series: Yao Shanshan
Yao Shanshan retired and could have had a lot of good times spent. The pension is not high or low, and it is enough to spend in this small town. My daughter is a civil servant, she is married, and she is the kind of married well. But Yao Shanshan is not happy.
The reason why Yao Shanshan is unhappy is her semi-paralyzed husband. She works in a state-owned enterprise and is one of the top 500 people in the world. I used to be full of glory, but behind the glory was the indulgence of alcohol, and no one could persuade me. Yao Shanshan has tried all kinds of methods, but it is useless. She will either beat or scold her if she says too much. At that time, the child was still young and could not bear to let the child lose his family. She endured it. I think that when my child grows up and works, I will definitely get a divorce. Then we will have another peaceful life.
But Yao Shanshan did not wait for a peaceful day. During the month when she discussed the divorce with her husband, her husband had a stroke of . He had already seen the lesion, and his fingers would tremble irregularly. He was obviously very struggling when holding the object. He was excited when drinking, and he became low and weak without drinking, and he was poisoned by alcohol. It would be strange if you are not poisoned. You have been drunk for more than 20 years. All the blood flows in the brain is alcohol. The piles of retribution came after another drunkenness. Originally, my daughter supported her divorce. She had seen the torment and tolerance she suffered in her marriage, and wanted her to live a relaxed life for the rest of her life. But now that person is so paralyzed, what should I do? My daughter is pregnant and married far away, and a happy life has just begun. Whenever the person felt uncomfortable, he tilted his mouth and called his daughter's name vaguely. Then he made a phone call tremblingly. Whenever this happens, Yao Shanshan always wonders in her heart why she doesn’t die? Wouldn’t it be better to die when she first became ill?
Yao Shanshan is about to collapse, and she once secretly rejoiced when she thought about divorce. But now it seems impossible. Apart from her daughter, she is the guardian of this man. Even if she divorces, she will give her this pick to her daughter, and there is no other way.
The man’s unit has complete medical insurance, and hospitalization does not cost much money, but only Yao Shanshan. All kinds of running errands, close-fitting care, various changes and cleaning, daily repetition, extreme lack of sleep, large amount of hair loss, deep dark circles. Yao Shanshan quickly lost ten kilograms and quickly aged ten years old, as if she was the one who was sick.
Finally returned home from the hospital. The man could no longer take care of himself. He had to feed him and helped him urinate. He could not walk by himself. He had to stay away from others every day. Whenever Yao Shanshan cleaned him up, she felt so tired that she couldn't breathe evenly. She looked at him with hatred, and he looked at her with eyes straight and without saying a word. He was an old man in his fifties but was like an eighty-year-old. Dull, dull, skinny. Is it a debt? I don’t know, maybe it was because I did something bad in my previous life and I was punished like this in this life. It's a debt! How can I repay it?
Yao Shanshan no longer wants to have a happy life in the future. The idea of divorce is impossible. Life is always hard, and you can only accept it if you can't escape. She moved the man to the woodshed on the first floor, which had a bathroom and a kitchen, and bought a cart to help him exercise and recover every day. Occasionally, I can see that man walking in the aisle in the yard on a sunny day, holding the cart and moving for a few minutes. If there is a car to pass, it will only be a turnaround, because if you help him aside, he will shake his head stubbornly, and shouting in his mouth, no matter how anxious people are, they will not dare to touch him. When she was sick again, she was sent to the hospital. She no longer had to waste her life and asked someone to take care of her. Yao Shanshan was relaxed, quiet and leisurely when a man was hospitalized. She would occasionally go outings with her senior college friends or visit her daughter's family in the distance. The little nephew is kind and cute, and the daughter and son-in-law are harmonious.
This is how life is. After you swallow all the saltiness, you will give you a little sweetness. It won't make people despair. When the man was discharged from the hospital, she went home immediately and still took care of him without hesitation. Without love, there will be no more hatred. Like all kind women, they will make selfless dedication and endure silently.
The Buddha said that all causes and effects, everything is fate, and all fortune!