text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
Meeting a soul that fits in love may be the greatest blessing in this life.
This world is as vast as a sea of smoke, and human beings are as small as a drop in the ocean. Among these thousands and thousands, the existence of human beings is really insignificant.
Therefore, most of the thoughts about human minds are just based on fate, by encountering them naturally, and by taking things as they go. The so-called efforts and proactive struggles actually only account for a small part.
Take this emotional matter as an example. Everyone in this world prays that they can find a happy partner and a soul that fits.
However, the fact is that only a very small part of it gets what it wants, and a large part of it has never been able to meet the right person in the right time in the whole life.
A animal like a human is an animal full of endless desires after all, and the pursuit of beauty is naturally endless.
From this perspective, a yearning for a beautiful partner is also an instinct in human nature.
Everyone in the world is ordinary people. This instinct is largely understandable, but it should be noted that this instinct cannot be indulged, especially for a person who has already chosen marriage. The combination of
The combination of pairs does not only mean legality, but also a responsibility, a loyalty and a emotional constraint.
So, after choosing a marriage, don’t look forward to the so-called soul mate . For those who are already married, sticking to morality, managing marriage, and taking responsibility... is the top priority.
And those who meet by chance, unexpectedly, and the same frequency that you are moved by after marriage, try to stay away as much as possible. You should know that meets a soul mate after marriage, it is a disaster, not a fate.
You can imagine that you can meet a person with the same frequency through the sea of people. He understands the unknown elegance deep in your heart, the fragility hidden in your heart, and what you mean.
Understand your thousands of miles, appreciate your poems and distance, respect your uniqueness, and be obsessed with your uniqueness, the surging and surprise that is flooded in your heart.
can understand how touched it is to become a lucky person chosen by God among these tens of millions of people; it can also be felt that the cheers aroused in the heart after finally meeting the soul that fits.
However, in front of a married person, all of this is nothing more than floating dust, an existence that cannot be grasped, and a beauty that cannot be expected.
Because at this time, you already have a very important identity, that is, a married person. You have played someone else's wife or husband, you have chosen a new family, you have shouldered a new responsibility, and you can do whatever you want when you are young.
is in different stages and positions, so what they face is different. For you who are married, you can certainly retain your yearning for your soul mate, but if you choose marriage, you will lose your identity as a soul mate with others. The responsibilities you shoulder on
and the morality you need to be sober and maintain will not allow you to ignore the bottom line, ignore others, and choose to be selfish.
Meeting a soul mate after marriage can only be said to be a regret and a missed, but it is by no means a fate given to you by God.
If you are in it and cannot face temptation, then what you have to sacrifice is not only the new family you have built, but also the people who love you will also be hurt by you.
Especially when you have become the father or mother of your child, the behavior of choosing a soul mate after marriage will make you pay a heavy price.
Therefore, since you have chosen marriage, you must be absolutely loyal to the marriage. At least during the period of the marriage, be responsible for a husband or wife, and don’t think about re-engaging in a passionate love with your so-called soul mate after marriage.
In the face of this dull time, love is as Zhang Ailing said: "Write a red rose, over time, it becomes a touch of mosquito blood on the wall..."
said, no matter how you do love, it will not be perfect. Instead of choosing the so-called soul mate after marriage and hurting your current family, it is better to let it become a white moonlight existence. The most important thing is to live a good life and work hard to be yourself.
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