text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
When people reach middle age, most of them have already started their own families and have their own happy families, and live a life that they think is more satisfactory, and the people around them have gradually become alienated.
The relationship between the opposite sex is often at a distance. Even good friends should know how to grasp the right position and not step into each other's private life.
There is a saying: "Distance produces beauty". Only by keeping a certain distance can you find the beauty that is worth keeping between you.
When people reach forty years old, they must understand the word "distance" and understand what can be done and what cannot be done. If you do everything according to your own wishes, it will inevitably cause misunderstandings among the people around you and cause family conflicts.
So, after the age of forty, there are three relationships between the opposite sex, two of which are not pure:
Colleague relationships at work
In middle age, everyone has their own stable jobs. In work, contact with colleagues is indispensable, and quarrels between colleagues are indispensable, solving each other's problems at work, complaining about each other's company, and expressing each other's dissatisfaction is all there.
Therefore, it is necessary to correctly handle the relationship between colleagues.
TV series " Bottom Line ", it sounded a wake-up call to many people in the workplace. The male protagonist's indecision in the company repeatedly harassed the female protagonist and did things that surpassed his colleagues' relationships.
Afterwards, the heroine sued him, and the hero also paid a heavy price for his actions. It can be seen that in the workplace, both men and women should keep a distance, not feel compassion, and avoid unnecessary trouble.
Of course, seeing this, some people will defend themselves, and it was the other party who took the initiative that made a mistake. In fact, no matter who takes the initiative, if you can manage yourself well and firm your bottom line, I believe that no matter what, it will not affect yourself.
On the contrary, if you can't control yourself, then no matter who you are, you will make mistakes and bring disastrous blows to yourself and your family.
The relationship between blue and confidant
Many people are thinking of a question: Is there really a pure friendship relationship between the opposite sex? I believe most people don’t believe it. Anyone who is accompanied by an excuse on the grounds of friends is impure intent.
When people reach middle age, it should be said that there are very few friends around them, and even if there are, they are just ordinary friends.
. After people reach forty years old, if some so-called confidantes suddenly appear around them, their relationship will be impure.
Life is almost halfway through, and a person suddenly appears beside you who makes you very moved, or who thinks that the other person understands you very much, you must be clear that this is not simply trying to be friends with yourself.
People are middle-aged, and no one has the energy to be close friends with an unfamiliar person. Everyone has their own family and family to take care of. If there is, their motivation will be impure, either the person you like or the money you like.
When to do what, what friends should be made, you should be clear about what kind of friends you should make. Don’t lose your family if your relationship is not handled well.
The relationship between blue and beautiful confidant who appears after the age of forty is all impure relationships.
Playmate relationships in life
People are middle-aged, some people like to go out for fun and will make friends so that they can play together in the future.
In life, if you have a playmate of the opposite sex often ask you to go out for fun, you need to be vigilant and not trust the other person completely because you don’t know what the other person is thinking.
Moreover, when people reach forty years old, they don’t have that much time to play, and most people spend more of their own family.
No one will spend their energy on someone who has little to do with them unless the relationship between them is impure.
It is okay to have a playmate in life, but you cannot be invited by your family alone. Even if there is nothing between you, it will make your family suspicious.
Look, there is no hatred for no reason, nor love for no reason. A person treats you with no reason, actually has a certain purpose.
As forty years old, you must be clear that you should not be harmed by the purpose of those who are interested and your family!
Love words:
In life, there are many kinds of relationships between the opposite sex, and any relationship is determined by oneself. After people reach the age of forty, they must understand that some relationships with the opposite sex cannot be established. They know how to keep a distance and pay attention to their qualities. They are the best protection for their own family and others.
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