The biggest tragedy of love is that you love him and he doesn’t love you. The biggest tragedy of love is that you know that he doesn't love you, but you pretend to love him without knowing anything.
There is no right or wrong in love, no loss or win, but there is the most hurtful pain and the most powerless loss. What we hear most is that if you work hard, the result may be different. Try to walk forward and one day he will understand all your good things. However, no one told us that every effort is accompanied by the most painful waiting and the sadness after being about to lose. Every time you want to get close to him, what you get is a stronger sense of distance.
We all thought that working without reservation will definitely bring rewards as much as we deserve. But the law of love is not as simple as one plus one equals two. Often, the more you give, the less you may get. Some people say that marriage is a big gamble, but love is not a bet. You bet on someone all your luck, confidence, and countless days and nights, and what you get in the end may be cruel rejection.
Once upon a time there was a rabbit, and she fell in love with a lion. In the concept of rabbits, they should be a perfect couple, because flowers will fall in love with butterflies, big trees will fall in love with magpies , and rivers will stay for a fish, and they have the same limbs, soft fur, and ambition to walk the world. They are so same. She loves his tall and mighty appearance, his majestic appearance, his refreshing pleasure when eating meat, and he loves everything about him.
But in the eyes of the tiger, the rabbit is just a small animal that is too ordinary. It has no white hair or long tail. It is always chasing the tiger's pace, and she uses her short limbs to chase it hard. The tiger said: Stop chasing me, what can you do if you catch up? Look at you so short. The rabbit raised its long ears and stood up at the same time. She said proudly: Look, I can do it, as long as you allow me to follow you.
The tiger glanced at her and said: If you don’t feel tired, then follow me. After saying that, the tiger disappeared at the end of the wilderness, and the rabbit jumped hard and ran, chasing the barely obtained happiness with the best of her strength.
Maybe there was a moment when the rabbit thought about giving up. But she was unwilling to give up. She looked behind her and she was far away from where she set out. How could she go back to the past? She thought that the tiger might be moved to see that he insisted so seriously, and he would stop and wait for her and allow her to sit on his back. The more she thought about her, the happier she felt that that moment would come sooner or later, but at this moment, she was ready to set off for him again. Even though the road ahead is slim, her heart is full of hope.
She finally caught up with the dying tiger in the desert. She fed all the water on her body to the tiger. The tiger slowly opened its eyes. The first thing he said was: I'm so hungry, can I eat you? The rabbit said with tears in his eyes: I chased you here for this moment. If you love me, eat me. The tiger swallowed the rabbit into its stomach without hesitation.
When the tiger finally walked out of this desert, he might remember, maybe he wouldn't remember, when he was the most helpless, a rabbit filled his stomach, he forgot how the rabbit walked a longer road to chase him, he forgot, the rabbit said that she fell in love with him, he forgot, the rabbit said that as long as she could be followed behind him, she would be very happy.
When many years have passed, the old tiger recalls this past, the tiger said this: When I was young, I met a stupid rabbit. She actually chased me overestimated her ability until one day it became my meal on the plate. The tiger was talking, as if he was savoring the taste of a rabbit many years ago, and then said meaningfully: Thanks to me who helped her, otherwise she would be someone else's meal on the plate.
I think that if you like someone who doesn’t like you, you may not have a good result, whether it is this relationship or yourself.We dedicate everything we have to each other, thinking that the other person will be grateful, but not. They will only think that you are cheap because no one forces you to give for them. All your efforts and their gains are taken for granted.
No love, we still have life and ourselves. Don't trap yourself in a cage without love, otherwise you will lose everything, including yourself. Therefore, good love must be a win-win relationship, while bad love will definitely be accompanied by different degrees of loss.
Finally, I want to say: Loving yourself is more important than loving others.