In love, it seems that it should be sweet.
When you are with someone, you often feel very sweet and happy.
Before falling in love, many people had the same idea about love. However, when one day they really fell in love, many people will find that everything seems to be the case, and it is different from what they imagined.
is not that sweet, but many people even often have a feeling that they are just having a fake relationship.
It seems that I am in love, there is such a person around me, but this love doesn't seem to be that true.
This is a popular word recently, and many people call it fake love.
talked about a fake love, and this fake love is divided into different categories.
I feel like I've talked about it, but I'm not admitted.
A girl, I met a man by chance. The other party always chatted with her, said some ambiguous words to her, and occasionally asked her to meet her alone, making some very intimate actions towards her.
She felt that the other party liked her, and she also had a good impression of that man, so she did not refuse.
I thought it was my own love, but after a while, when everything that should have happened, the man began to become very cold to her, and later he directly posted an update to announce his relationship with others.
At that moment, she realized that she thought they were in love, and the other party was just playing.
There are quite a lot of feelings, it seems that they are like this. You think you are the other person’s lover, but the other person doesn’t think so.
just treats you as a pastime, just treats you as a lover, and doesn't want others to know you, and doesn't even think about having sex with you for a long time. Everything is just you are just being self-indulgent.
After a brief addiction, one day, you will wake up from your dreams and see the truth of the matter clearly.
It really came that day, you were sad, you were wronged, and you wanted to settle the score with the other party, but you seemed to be unable to find a reason at all and had no identity, because the other party had never admitted your relationship at all, and everything seemed to be a willingness without leaving any trace.
is very superficial and does not penetrate into each other's lives.
We always like to watch a couple walking shoulder to shoulder, holding hands, walking on the street.
It seems that they are so enviable that some people are by their side, but it is also possible that they are indeed boyfriend and girlfriend, and they have made the relationship clear, but their love may have been limited to eating and drinking.
Basically, they only know how to eat together, watch movies, go out to play, chat is just to say hello, ask the other person what they are doing, say a few words of concern, and there is nothing else.
Playing happily together seems to be in love, but such a love is too superficial after all.
Destiny in love, eating, drinking and having fun is just part of it. More, you should face some things with the other party, talk about your views on many things, and penetrate into the soul from the surface and penetrate into all aspects of the other party.
Otherwise, if it is too superficial, there will be short-term happiness, but that love will only stay there, and it is difficult to go further. We will not really have much spiritual satisfaction from this love.
often feels very lonely and empty, and doesn’t think such a love has any meaning.
After all, one can enjoy food, enjoy movies, go out for a walk, and buy something you like for yourself.
seems to be a waste of talk, and I find that I don’t understand the other party at all.
More people are really happy during their relationship and there are not many conflicts.
So, we came to the day of our marriage smoothly, but after we really got married, we found that everything had changed.
The other party does not seem to be what he knows, and shows a lot of sides he has never seen before. It seems that he has never known each other, just like the time when he was in love with the other party, the other party was fake.
After getting married, there will be some gaps in many aspects, which is normal, but if you feel that the other person is unrecognizable, then of course it is not right. It may be that the other person is too good at disguising, and more, it may be that you have never seen the other person clearly.
When in love, I just focused on talking about love and forgot to understand the other person's character. I have never delved into some things that I feel are not right and discovered the other person's essence.
It is inevitable that when you are in love, you will add a filter to the other person without realizing it. You can show your eyes in your lover, but you shouldn't be too blinded by love and not explore the other person's shortcomings, character, and true temperament.
You can like the better side of a person, but you shouldn’t ignore the bad side.
Only when you really see the other person thoroughly and know what kind of person the other person is, will you not talk about love in vain, and when you enter marriage, you will not always feel that there are differences between the other person. Like a stranger, there will always be many problems between each other.
False love is everywhere, and such love has never been a temporary joy.
If you think it doesn't matter, you can just go to experience it briefly and enjoy it.
If you don’t want your love, but just like this, then you have to pay attention.
In love with someone, you must have a clear identity and be able to be public. In addition to eating and playing together frequently, you must also permeate each other's lives, feel each other's glory together, and accompany each other through the trough.
In addition, you should often collide with your thoughts, see the other person's behavior and deal with others.
understands all aspects, sees the other party through, and lets you really know what kind of person the other party is, where the bottom line is, and where the lowest point is.
Only in this way can love be more meaningful and will be more secure in the future.
text/Tan Meng
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