There is a song that sings: "Ambiguousness makes people suffer all the grievances, and there is no evidence of love. When should we move forward, when should we retreat..."
In a relationship, ambiguity is the most undesirable. If a man is only willing to play ambiguous relationship with you and is not willing to be responsible to you, then he must not be sincere to you.
Some women always can't tell whether the other party is ambiguous or sincere, or in other words, she also understands in her heart, but she still wants to give the other party a chance.
But after waiting, the two of them are still in ambiguous state. He will not give you a clear answer, nor will he tell the world your love. If you want to be with him, you can only bear it like this.
If you find that a man can’t give you these things, then he just wants to be “ambiguous” with you. Be more sober and don’t take it seriously.
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He can't give you time
If a person really loves you, he will leave time for you, even if he doesn't have much free time every day, as long as he has time, the first thing he thinks of is you.
In a relationship, companionship is very important. If he can't even do this, he will only use "very busy" and "no time" as an excuse, then don't believe him anymore.
A man can’t give you time, which means he doesn’t have you in his heart. If he cares about you, he will not even have time to accompany you, and he will not let you be alone.
To put it bluntly, he just wants to be ambiguous with you, enjoy your kindness to him, but he is unwilling to give his feelings, and he is even more unwilling to repay you with your sincerity. It doesn’t make any sense to continue with such a man, so let it go.
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3 He can't give you money
Although it is said that money cannot be used completely to measure a person's feelings, his love can still be seen from it.
As there is a saying: "People who are willing to give you money may not really love you, but those who are unwilling to pay money for you must not love you."
When he is willing to pay money for you, it means that he regards you as his own person and will not be petty about money. As long as you need it, he will give it to you.
From this point, we can also see that he really wants to be with you, not just wanting to have an ambiguous relationship with you, otherwise he would definitely not be willing to pay money, but he is afraid that he will be wasted.
So, cherish the man who can give you money. Although this is very tacky, it can also prove his sincerity from another level. After all, it is not easy for anyone to make money, and not many people are willing to spend money on you.
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He can't give you sincerity
A man who just wants to have an ambiguous relationship with you is unwilling to be responsible or sincere. He just wants to play and stop contacting you after the freshness is over.
If you want to ask the other party for sincerity, it may be more difficult than climbing to heaven. Even if you express such an idea, he will be afraid and instinctively want to escape.
At this time, you will understand what he is thinking. He has never thought of being serious with you. He just enjoys the convenience brought to him by this relationship and has never thought of being with you forever.
A man who can't give you true feelings, it's better not to continue. He can never give you the future you want, and will only bring you harm.
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Conclusion
A man just wants to have an ambiguous relationship with you, or really want to be with you, it can be seen from his performance.
If he just wants to have an ambiguous relationship with you, he will not give you time, he will only feel a waste, he will not give you money, he will not give you sincerity, he will only want to play around with it.
And a man who really wants to be with you will definitely give you time and money. He will give love sincerely and devote himself to his feelings seriously, rather than irresponsible performance.
If you find out that he is just ambiguous with you, then get out early and don’t wait until you are injured before you react. He is not sincere, it was too late at that time.
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