Best friend is divorced. Ms. Zhao found it incredible. Among the good sisters, her best friend's husband had no bad habits. She did not cheat, did not gamble, and did not have domestic violence. She was a rare good man.
My best friend’s husband is an elementary school physical education teacher with a salary of more than 4,000 yuan. Although it is not high, his work is stable, he has two days off, and he has plenty of time to accompany his best friend.
He doesn't smoke or drink, and goes home on time after get off work. But my best friend doesn't think he is a good man. Although he doesn't smoke or drink, on weekends, he doesn't lose his phone and knows that he can play games. The money spent on games a year can buy her some good clothes.
But my best friend is used to being lazy. When my daughter was a child, she was taken care of by her mother-in-law. Later, when the child grew up, she and her mother-in-law lived separately. Now, she doesn’t cook or wash the bowls. Even if she sees the oil bottle falling, she won’t help it up. I spend every day in the mahjong hall. When my husband is resting, my husband will do the housework. She came back from playing mahjong and waited for food, sitting and drinking, but she felt uncomfortable.
When her best friend said that, she also felt very wronged. She is now 40 years old. Seeing other people's husbands get promoted and rich, life is romantic and prosperous, and traveling as much as she wants, she is very envious. She has lived such ordinary and boring life. So, she chose to divorce her husband.
Although the best friend and Ms. Liu have a very good relationship, Ms. Liu feels that her best friend is in a blessing and does not know how to be blessed. It is normal for a man to play games occasionally. She still dislikes others when she plays mahjong every day.
In fact, her life is not difficult. Her husband has a stable salary. More importantly, her husband can still stay by his side every day, with someone to accompany and take care of him. Unlike Ms. Liu, her husband works outside, gets up early and goes to bed late every day, and doesn’t make much money. The couple lives in the same place. For the sake of children and life, the pain of longing can only be suppressed in their hearts.
I don’t know what my best friend was wrong. I am already very happy and always thinking about pursuing better things. This is nothing wrong, but I also have to take practical actions instead of building this beautiful yearning on others. No one has money, but I don’t spend the money I earn from my hard work.
No matter how rich you are, your life will be just a waste of time. Nothing is more considerate than the protection and care of your own partner. In fact, happiness is hidden in our ordinary days. As long as you are willing to discover it, life will give us endless surprises.
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