If you like this article, please click "Follow" in the upper right. Thank you for your support and encouragement, and hope it will bring you a comfortable reading experience.
In the 1960s, a large number of intellectuals were called by the state to volunteer to go to remote areas to build the borders of the motherland. Wang Jianguo , who was only eighteen years old at the time, was also one of them.
From Beijing to northern Shaanxi, a distance of one thousand kilometers and ten years have brought about a huge change in Wang Jianguo's life. Wang Jianguo went to the countryside in rural northern Shaanxi and also met someone here who wanted to work with him for the rest of his life.
But unfortunately, God's will is unpredictable, and Wang Jianguo was unable to achieve success with that girl in the end. It was not until many years later that Wang Jianguo accidentally learned that he had a daughter, but the sea of people was vast and there was nowhere to be found.
In order to find his daughter, Wang Jianguo searched for more than 40 years. It was not until 2021 that he finally got the clue. It turned out that his daughter lived next door to him.
What's going on? Why did Wang Jianguo not get married after his lover? How did he find his daughter?
. Educated youth went to the countryside
In the 1960s, many departments of the country entered a state of suspension, and related work could not be carried out smoothly, resulting in the country entering a state of stagnation, and even the college entrance examination was cancelled.
In 1968, many middle school graduates were unable to continue to go to school or be assigned to work, and this large number of young people became unemployed vagrants.
has nothing to do and has not learned. In addition, the social environment was relatively tense at that time, these young people had nothing to do and could only go out to the streets in groups, which also caused many public security conflicts.
is becoming more and more serious. Central leaders have also noticed that in order to solve the whereabouts of millions of young people and avoid the situation from losing control, the central government published an article titled "We also have two hands, don't eat idle meals in the city" through People's Daily , which mentioned a sentence that Chairman Mao once said: "It is very necessary for intellectual youth to go to the countryside to receive re-education from poor and lower-middle peasants. "
Under the strong call of the country, starting from 1968, middle school graduates across the country organized to go to the countryside, and a large number of young people embarked on the road to various parts of the motherland.
Wang Jianguo is one of them. Wang Jianguo was born in Beijing in 1950. His parents are both university teachers and his conditions are very good.
Wang Jianguo's grandfather was in business and accumulated a lot of wealth over the years. Therefore, Wang Jianguo was also a rich child since childhood. But a calm life soon caused a stir. In 1966, his parents were sent to the northeast rural area to undergo labor reform.
The living environment there is not good. Wang Jianguo's parents originally taught, but they deal with chickens, ducks, pigs and sheep every day, and they have to go to the fields to farm. They live a very hard life.
The parents are not around, Wang Jianguo can only live with his aunt's family, and the wealthy life in the past has become a passing cloud.
Beijing Hutong
In 1968, Wang Jianguo graduated from high school and originally wanted to join the army. Although the life of the army was hard, he had no worries about food and clothing. He could still be assigned to work after he was discharged from the army.
But things didn't go as expected. Due to the influence of his parents, Wang Jianguo failed to pass the political review and was unable to join the army.
happened to catch up with the country's call on intellectual youth to go to the countryside to build the motherland in remote rural areas. Wang Jianguo signed up and went to northern Shaanxi to go to the countryside to work in the countryside.
This time the review was quickly passed, and Wang Jianguo was assigned to the Lijiagou Brigade of Ganquan County. Before that, Wang Jianguo had never even heard of this place name.
In mid-May 1969, Wang Jianguo followed the large army from Beijing, took the train to the west, and embarked on this unknown journey.
As the scenery outside the window slowly turns from prosperity to desolate, the loess everywhere I see, Wang Jianguo was filled with uneasiness.
Since childhood, the young man has experienced great changes in just a few years. Now he has left his hometown and came to this place more than a thousand kilometers away from his home. Wang Jianguo felt a little uncomfortable.
At that time, he didn't know that he would have been involved in this place for decades.
After getting off the train, you have to take a bus to get to the county. There are no cars in the county, so you can only rely on your way. Wang Jianguo and his group of twenty people walked for an afternoon under the leadership of their fellow villagers before they arrived at Lijiagou.
Local fellow villagers heard that there were students from the city who came to the lineup and were very enthusiastic about them. They took them to their place to pack their luggage and specially made a welcome meal to entertain them.
The enthusiastic fellow villagers and simple folk customs made Wang Jianguo feel a little calmer. Although the environment here is not very good, at least the villagers are easy to get along with.
Due to the special geographical location and environment in northern Shaanxi, local people simply use local materials, and every household lives in caves. Wang Jianguo and his companions all came from the city. They had never seen a local house that could still live in. They were all very novel.
The first few days are still hot, and the cave is warm in winter and cool in summer. Five people live in the same room. Everyone thinks it is fresh, but they can't stand it in a few days because everyone finds that there are always mice in this cave at night.
This scared Wang Jianguo and his companions. Who would have thought that this was just the beginning, and the life of educated youth was far more difficult than they thought.
2. Life in line to jump
Wang Jianguo was very uncomfortable in the first few days after he came to northern Shaanxi. There is strong wind and sand here, and when the wind blows, the loess is flying all over the sky. Moreover, due to the harsh conditions, there is no extra water to bathe them.
Food is also limited, and everyone's food is distributed uniformly. There is a quantity limit, and it will be gone after eating. Everyone can only eat half full per meal.
There is still a lot of farm work waiting for them to do every day. They can’t eat well and can’t sleep well. Even though Wang Jianguo is mentally prepared, he can’t bear it.
Wang Jianguo’s first job is to pick up cow dung. He would go to the cow dung to shovel out the cow dung every day, and then carry it into the field one by one.
The fields and cow pens are not in the same place. Wang Jianguo has to walk a long way every day, and his shoulders that carry the shoulder pole are blisters.
Wang Jianguo is the case, and the other companions are the same. The group has several girls, and they can't stand it in a few days. They hide in the quilt to cry secretly when they sleep at night.
These young people have never been exposed to farm work when they were at home. After they arrived in northern Shaanxi, they had endless farm work every day. Only then did they realize that life in line to go to the countryside is not that easy.
But since you come here, you should be content with it. Since you have come here, you must do your own work and take responsibility.
Time flies very quickly, and it is the end of the New Year in the blink of an eye. This is the first Spring Festival when Wang Jianguo and his companions come to Lijiagou. In order to let everyone have a good New Year here, the village director specially arranged for them to be arranged at the villagers' homes, and there are many people together and lively.
Wang Jianguo was arranged to celebrate the New Year at the home of his fellow villager Liu Mantang . Liu Mantang is a native of northern Shaanxi . His wife has passed away for many years. He and his daughter Liu Xiaoyan depend on each other for life.
Liu Mantang was very happy when he heard that educated youth came to his home for the New Year. At that time, most people had never attended school and didn't even know each other. Therefore, everyone admired educated people very much.
When I knew that there were students from the city who came to my house to celebrate the New Year, Liu Mantang and his daughter excitedly prepared a lot of good dishes to entertain guests.
On New Year's Eve, Wang Jianguo took two bottles of wine he bought from the town as a New Year's greetings and went to Liu Mantang's house to celebrate the New Year. The three of them sat together and chatted about family matters, drinking warm wine, and leaning against the stove. This made Wang Jianguo feel relaxed rarely in the difficult life of educated youth.
Wang Jianguo and Liu Mantang's daughter Liu Xiaoyan also had a great time talking. Liu Xiaoyan was very curious about this young man from the city. Her mother passed away when she was three years old. It was her father who raised her alone. The family was not in good condition and she didn't study.
Therefore, when Wang Jianguo talked about his experiences in Beijing, Liu Xiaoyan was also full of longing and yearning for Beijing.
At this time, Wang Jianguo also developed a good impression of Liu Xiaoyan. Liu Xiaoyan was born in northern Shaanxi. It is logical that the climate is cold and the wind and sand are strong. The skin of the locals is dark and rough, but Liu Xiaoyan has white skin and fat, and her black and shiny hair is braided in two braids behind her, which makes people unable to take their eyes off.
After the New Year, Wang Jianguo will return to his job, but he still takes time to run to Liu Mantang's house from time to time, using the excuse of asking Liu Mantang for farm work. In fact, every time he meets Liu Xiaoyan, he will say a few words, and specially bring her some beautiful pieces, headbands and other things.
After a long time, even Wang Jianguo's companions could see what he was thinking and teased him: "Okay, Wang Jianguo, I went to ask for knowledge on the spot, but I actually fell in love with other people's beautiful girls!"
Whenever Wang Jianguo heard this, he blushed with shame, but he did not refute it.
Not long after, Wang Jianguo expressed his feelings to Liu Xiaoyan, but what surprised Wang Jianguo was that Liu Xiaoyan rejected him, the reason was that Wang Jianguo was from the city and must have returned to Beijing. The two of them were not the same person, which was not suitable.
This made Wang Jianguo a little depressed, but it was not unreasonable for Liu Xiaoyan to have such concerns.
At that time, many students from the city went to the countryside to go to the countryside to work in the lineup, but not many of them fell in love with girls in the countryside. Even if they were in love, they were with girls who were also educated youth.
These educated youth know that they will not always be here, and they will go back after all. Even if they like it in their hearts, they will not show it on their faces. They are afraid that after they have concerns, they will not be able to go back.
But Wang Jianguo actually didn't have so many concerns. He was rich when he was young, and suffered huge changes when he was a teenager. He failed to join the army. Later, he suffered a lot of hardships when he went to the countryside. These bumpy experiences made him mature early. He understood that he must seize the opportunity when he wanted to do things, and it would be too late to regret it.
Therefore, even though he was rejected by Liu Xiaoyan, Wang Jianguo was not discouraged and still visited Liu Mantang and Liu Xiaoyan during the slack season.
Until 1973, Liu Mantang was hospitalized after a sudden illness. Liu Xiaoyan was so anxious that she was at a loss and did not have enough money to pay medical expenses. When Liu Xiaoyan was in a state of confusion, Wang Jianguo came to help.
Wang Jianguo not only helped Liu Xiaoyan pay the medical expenses, but also took care of him every day. Because Liu Mantang was suffering from severe illness, he could not walk on the ground and could not even take care of himself.
Wang Jianguo went to take care of Liu Mantang every day, urinating and scrubbing his body, but he didn't complain.
Liu Xiaoyan saw all these things in her eyes and remembered them in her heart. As the saying goes, "It is easy to add icing on the cake, but it is difficult to provide charcoal in time." It is this timely help that made Liu Xiaoyan open his heart to Wang Jianguo and accept him.
After Liu Mantang recovered from the hospital, Liu Xiaoyan agreed to Wang Jianguo's pursuit. Wang Jianguo finally got the beauty back and the two were officially together.
. Destiny makes people
After they were together, the relationship between the two was very sweet. Liu Mantang also admired the young man very much and urged them to settle the marriage as soon as possible.
In 1974, Wang Jianguo wrote a letter to his parents far away in the Northeast, telling them that they had found someone they wanted to work with for the rest of their lives and were preparing to get married.
But it was also at this moment when Wang Jianguo and Liu Xiaoyan were preparing to hold the wedding, Wang Jianguo suddenly learned about a news: He submitted an application for admission to a higher education institution that he had previously approved .
Because he is active in work and friendly, everyone in the village has a high evaluation of him, so he successfully passed the review and the organization recommended him to a school in Beijing, and he will be admitted next month.
The news hit Wang Jianguo. He didn't want to give up this hard-won opportunity, but he couldn't leave Liu Xiaoyan to Beijing.
Although Liu Xiaoyan, who learned this news, couldn't bear to part with Wang Jianguo, she felt that going to school was the most important thing, and the marriage between the two could be put aside first.
After discussing, the two decided that Wang Jianguo would go to college first, wait until graduation before getting married, and then go to Beijing to live together.
It was soon the day of departure. Liu Xiaoyan reluctantly sent Wang Jianguo to the station. Before leaving, Wang Jianguo gave the jade pendant he had worn since childhood as a token of love to Liu Xiaoyan. The two agreed to meet each year and hold a wedding after Wang Jianguo graduated.
Wang Jianguo during his university period, the two kept in contact with each other by letter. During the holidays every year, Wang Jianguo would return to northern Shaanxi to accompany Liu Xiaoyan.
On the eve of Wang Jianguo's graduation, he was in a state of turmoil over the work transfer, but at this moment, Liu Xiaoyan realized that she was actually pregnant.
But in order not to affect Wang Jianguo's academic and work, Liu Xiaoyan did not tell him immediately, but planned to wait until Wang Jianguo handled the matter at hand before telling him the surprise.
No one expected that the two of them at that time would have given them a heavy blow at this time.
At that time, Wang Jianguo's parents returned to Beijing from the Northeast to continue their previous work, but when they learned that their son was going to marry a rural girl, they expressed their opposition very strongly.
Not only that, Wang Jianguo's parents also began to introduce him to a partner, and forced Wang Jianguo to break up with Liu Xiaoyan.
Wang Jianguo refused to obey and had a big fight with his parents.
Seeing that his son did not give up, his parents simply used a big move and wrote a breakup letter to Liu Xiaoyan in the name of Wang Jianguo, and told Liu Xiaoyan in the letter:
"You and me have a huge gap in identities. My parents strongly oppose it. I absolutely cannot marry you against my parents' wishes. I have found a beautiful woman in Beijing, and you and I will break up."
. Liu Xiaoyan, who had no idea why, was heartbroken after receiving the breakup letter, but out of self-esteem, she also replied a letter, telling Wang Jianguo that she was ready to marry someone else. Since then, the two of them have no relationship. Liu Xiaoyan did not tell Wang Jianguo that she was pregnant.
is such a misunderstanding, which made Wang Jianguo and Liu Xiaoyan separate from each other from then on, and with unexplained misunderstandings, they parted ways from then on.
But life always has to go on. The disheartened Wang Jianguo finally followed his parents' opinions and married the girl he met on a blind date.
It was not until 7 years later that Wang Jianguo accidentally learned from his companions who were working in the countryside together that when the two broke up, Liu Xiaoyan was already pregnant, and saying that she was lying to marry someone else.
Only then did Wang Jianguo learn the whole truth of the matter. It turned out that the breakup letter was written by his parents to Liu Xiaoyan in his own name. Liu Xiaoyan, who didn't know what to do, thought Wang Jianguo had changed his mind.
By chance, under , the lover who was originally happy was separated and could not finally get married.
guilty Wang Jianguo immediately set off for northern Shaanxi to find Liu Xiaoyan to explain what happened back then, but it was too late, and Liu Xiaoyan had long stopped living here.
Wang Jianguo asked the villagers and learned that Liu Xiaoyan got married a few years ago and took her father to another place and never came back.
Looking at the old cave of the Liu family, Wang Jianguo was sad. If time could be reversed, he thought he would come back to find Liu Xiaoyan in person and explain everything clearly, but the road was done, and time could not be reversed. No matter how much regret there was, he was helpless.
htmlFor more than 0 years, Wang Jianguo has been inquiring about news everywhere, hoping to find Liu Xiaoyan's whereabouts. He also wants to see his daughter he has never met before.But there are so many people in China, looking for a needle in a haystack. He traveled all over northern Shaanxi after work, but never heard of Liu Xiaoyan.
He understood that he might never see Liu Xiaoyan again, but the regret in his heart was always with him, making him unable to forget it.
Until 2021, Wang Jianguo was 72 years old at this time, but things turned around this year.
A new neighbor moved next door to Wang Jianguo. Originally, Wang Jianguo didn't care, but once when his neighbor's youngest daughter was playing outside, Wang Jianguo happened to see a jade pendant on the child's neck, which made him look very familiar.
He called the little girl and looked at the jade pendant carefully. After a closer look, he realized that this jade pendant was actually the one he gave to Liu Xiaoyan back then.
Wang Jianguo hurriedly found his neighbor's house and asked the origin of the jade pendant. Only then did he realize that the little girl's mother was Liu Xiaoyan's daughter and a child she had never met for decades.
Wang Jianguo looked at his daughter who had not met for many years and burst into tears. In his daughter's story, Wang Jianguo learned that this jade pendant was left to his daughter by Liu Xiaoyan, but Liu Xiaoyan died of illness in 2000.
went around and searched, and it turned out that my daughter I had been looking for for many years was close at hand. It’s a pity that this person has left, leaving only the remaining hatred.
Liu Xiaoyan never knew until her death that the breakup letter that made the two break up was not written by Wang Jianguo.
Fortunately, Wang Jianguo finally found his daughter in his twilight years, which can be regarded as making up for some of the regrets of that year.
Sometimes fate is so helpless. It is difficult for lovers to get married, and they will survive again in desperate situations.
No matter what, you must cherish the present so that you can leave no regrets.
After getting off the train, you have to take a bus to get to the county. There are no cars in the county, so you can only rely on your way. Wang Jianguo and his group of twenty people walked for an afternoon under the leadership of their fellow villagers before they arrived at Lijiagou.
Local fellow villagers heard that there were students from the city who came to the lineup and were very enthusiastic about them. They took them to their place to pack their luggage and specially made a welcome meal to entertain them.
The enthusiastic fellow villagers and simple folk customs made Wang Jianguo feel a little calmer. Although the environment here is not very good, at least the villagers are easy to get along with.
Due to the special geographical location and environment in northern Shaanxi, local people simply use local materials, and every household lives in caves. Wang Jianguo and his companions all came from the city. They had never seen a local house that could still live in. They were all very novel.
The first few days are still hot, and the cave is warm in winter and cool in summer. Five people live in the same room. Everyone thinks it is fresh, but they can't stand it in a few days because everyone finds that there are always mice in this cave at night.
This scared Wang Jianguo and his companions. Who would have thought that this was just the beginning, and the life of educated youth was far more difficult than they thought.
2. Life in line to jump
Wang Jianguo was very uncomfortable in the first few days after he came to northern Shaanxi. There is strong wind and sand here, and when the wind blows, the loess is flying all over the sky. Moreover, due to the harsh conditions, there is no extra water to bathe them.
Food is also limited, and everyone's food is distributed uniformly. There is a quantity limit, and it will be gone after eating. Everyone can only eat half full per meal.
There is still a lot of farm work waiting for them to do every day. They can’t eat well and can’t sleep well. Even though Wang Jianguo is mentally prepared, he can’t bear it.
Wang Jianguo’s first job is to pick up cow dung. He would go to the cow dung to shovel out the cow dung every day, and then carry it into the field one by one.
The fields and cow pens are not in the same place. Wang Jianguo has to walk a long way every day, and his shoulders that carry the shoulder pole are blisters.
Wang Jianguo is the case, and the other companions are the same. The group has several girls, and they can't stand it in a few days. They hide in the quilt to cry secretly when they sleep at night.
These young people have never been exposed to farm work when they were at home. After they arrived in northern Shaanxi, they had endless farm work every day. Only then did they realize that life in line to go to the countryside is not that easy.
But since you come here, you should be content with it. Since you have come here, you must do your own work and take responsibility.
Time flies very quickly, and it is the end of the New Year in the blink of an eye. This is the first Spring Festival when Wang Jianguo and his companions come to Lijiagou. In order to let everyone have a good New Year here, the village director specially arranged for them to be arranged at the villagers' homes, and there are many people together and lively.
Wang Jianguo was arranged to celebrate the New Year at the home of his fellow villager Liu Mantang . Liu Mantang is a native of northern Shaanxi . His wife has passed away for many years. He and his daughter Liu Xiaoyan depend on each other for life.
Liu Mantang was very happy when he heard that educated youth came to his home for the New Year. At that time, most people had never attended school and didn't even know each other. Therefore, everyone admired educated people very much.
When I knew that there were students from the city who came to my house to celebrate the New Year, Liu Mantang and his daughter excitedly prepared a lot of good dishes to entertain guests.
On New Year's Eve, Wang Jianguo took two bottles of wine he bought from the town as a New Year's greetings and went to Liu Mantang's house to celebrate the New Year. The three of them sat together and chatted about family matters, drinking warm wine, and leaning against the stove. This made Wang Jianguo feel relaxed rarely in the difficult life of educated youth.
Wang Jianguo and Liu Mantang's daughter Liu Xiaoyan also had a great time talking. Liu Xiaoyan was very curious about this young man from the city. Her mother passed away when she was three years old. It was her father who raised her alone. The family was not in good condition and she didn't study.
Therefore, when Wang Jianguo talked about his experiences in Beijing, Liu Xiaoyan was also full of longing and yearning for Beijing.
At this time, Wang Jianguo also developed a good impression of Liu Xiaoyan. Liu Xiaoyan was born in northern Shaanxi. It is logical that the climate is cold and the wind and sand are strong. The skin of the locals is dark and rough, but Liu Xiaoyan has white skin and fat, and her black and shiny hair is braided in two braids behind her, which makes people unable to take their eyes off.
After the New Year, Wang Jianguo will return to his job, but he still takes time to run to Liu Mantang's house from time to time, using the excuse of asking Liu Mantang for farm work. In fact, every time he meets Liu Xiaoyan, he will say a few words, and specially bring her some beautiful pieces, headbands and other things.
After a long time, even Wang Jianguo's companions could see what he was thinking and teased him: "Okay, Wang Jianguo, I went to ask for knowledge on the spot, but I actually fell in love with other people's beautiful girls!"
Whenever Wang Jianguo heard this, he blushed with shame, but he did not refute it.
Not long after, Wang Jianguo expressed his feelings to Liu Xiaoyan, but what surprised Wang Jianguo was that Liu Xiaoyan rejected him, the reason was that Wang Jianguo was from the city and must have returned to Beijing. The two of them were not the same person, which was not suitable.
This made Wang Jianguo a little depressed, but it was not unreasonable for Liu Xiaoyan to have such concerns.
At that time, many students from the city went to the countryside to go to the countryside to work in the lineup, but not many of them fell in love with girls in the countryside. Even if they were in love, they were with girls who were also educated youth.
These educated youth know that they will not always be here, and they will go back after all. Even if they like it in their hearts, they will not show it on their faces. They are afraid that after they have concerns, they will not be able to go back.
But Wang Jianguo actually didn't have so many concerns. He was rich when he was young, and suffered huge changes when he was a teenager. He failed to join the army. Later, he suffered a lot of hardships when he went to the countryside. These bumpy experiences made him mature early. He understood that he must seize the opportunity when he wanted to do things, and it would be too late to regret it.
Therefore, even though he was rejected by Liu Xiaoyan, Wang Jianguo was not discouraged and still visited Liu Mantang and Liu Xiaoyan during the slack season.
Until 1973, Liu Mantang was hospitalized after a sudden illness. Liu Xiaoyan was so anxious that she was at a loss and did not have enough money to pay medical expenses. When Liu Xiaoyan was in a state of confusion, Wang Jianguo came to help.
Wang Jianguo not only helped Liu Xiaoyan pay the medical expenses, but also took care of him every day. Because Liu Mantang was suffering from severe illness, he could not walk on the ground and could not even take care of himself.
Wang Jianguo went to take care of Liu Mantang every day, urinating and scrubbing his body, but he didn't complain.
Liu Xiaoyan saw all these things in her eyes and remembered them in her heart. As the saying goes, "It is easy to add icing on the cake, but it is difficult to provide charcoal in time." It is this timely help that made Liu Xiaoyan open his heart to Wang Jianguo and accept him.
After Liu Mantang recovered from the hospital, Liu Xiaoyan agreed to Wang Jianguo's pursuit. Wang Jianguo finally got the beauty back and the two were officially together.
. Destiny makes people
After they were together, the relationship between the two was very sweet. Liu Mantang also admired the young man very much and urged them to settle the marriage as soon as possible.
In 1974, Wang Jianguo wrote a letter to his parents far away in the Northeast, telling them that they had found someone they wanted to work with for the rest of their lives and were preparing to get married.
But it was also at this moment when Wang Jianguo and Liu Xiaoyan were preparing to hold the wedding, Wang Jianguo suddenly learned about a news: He submitted an application for admission to a higher education institution that he had previously approved .
Because he is active in work and friendly, everyone in the village has a high evaluation of him, so he successfully passed the review and the organization recommended him to a school in Beijing, and he will be admitted next month.
The news hit Wang Jianguo. He didn't want to give up this hard-won opportunity, but he couldn't leave Liu Xiaoyan to Beijing.
Although Liu Xiaoyan, who learned this news, couldn't bear to part with Wang Jianguo, she felt that going to school was the most important thing, and the marriage between the two could be put aside first.
After discussing, the two decided that Wang Jianguo would go to college first, wait until graduation before getting married, and then go to Beijing to live together.
It was soon the day of departure. Liu Xiaoyan reluctantly sent Wang Jianguo to the station. Before leaving, Wang Jianguo gave the jade pendant he had worn since childhood as a token of love to Liu Xiaoyan. The two agreed to meet each year and hold a wedding after Wang Jianguo graduated.
Wang Jianguo during his university period, the two kept in contact with each other by letter. During the holidays every year, Wang Jianguo would return to northern Shaanxi to accompany Liu Xiaoyan.
On the eve of Wang Jianguo's graduation, he was in a state of turmoil over the work transfer, but at this moment, Liu Xiaoyan realized that she was actually pregnant.
But in order not to affect Wang Jianguo's academic and work, Liu Xiaoyan did not tell him immediately, but planned to wait until Wang Jianguo handled the matter at hand before telling him the surprise.
No one expected that the two of them at that time would have given them a heavy blow at this time.
At that time, Wang Jianguo's parents returned to Beijing from the Northeast to continue their previous work, but when they learned that their son was going to marry a rural girl, they expressed their opposition very strongly.
Not only that, Wang Jianguo's parents also began to introduce him to a partner, and forced Wang Jianguo to break up with Liu Xiaoyan.
Wang Jianguo refused to obey and had a big fight with his parents.
Seeing that his son did not give up, his parents simply used a big move and wrote a breakup letter to Liu Xiaoyan in the name of Wang Jianguo, and told Liu Xiaoyan in the letter:
"You and me have a huge gap in identities. My parents strongly oppose it. I absolutely cannot marry you against my parents' wishes. I have found a beautiful woman in Beijing, and you and I will break up."
. Liu Xiaoyan, who had no idea why, was heartbroken after receiving the breakup letter, but out of self-esteem, she also replied a letter, telling Wang Jianguo that she was ready to marry someone else. Since then, the two of them have no relationship. Liu Xiaoyan did not tell Wang Jianguo that she was pregnant.
is such a misunderstanding, which made Wang Jianguo and Liu Xiaoyan separate from each other from then on, and with unexplained misunderstandings, they parted ways from then on.
But life always has to go on. The disheartened Wang Jianguo finally followed his parents' opinions and married the girl he met on a blind date.
It was not until 7 years later that Wang Jianguo accidentally learned from his companions who were working in the countryside together that when the two broke up, Liu Xiaoyan was already pregnant, and saying that she was lying to marry someone else.
Only then did Wang Jianguo learn the whole truth of the matter. It turned out that the breakup letter was written by his parents to Liu Xiaoyan in his own name. Liu Xiaoyan, who didn't know what to do, thought Wang Jianguo had changed his mind.
By chance, under , the lover who was originally happy was separated and could not finally get married.
guilty Wang Jianguo immediately set off for northern Shaanxi to find Liu Xiaoyan to explain what happened back then, but it was too late, and Liu Xiaoyan had long stopped living here.
Wang Jianguo asked the villagers and learned that Liu Xiaoyan got married a few years ago and took her father to another place and never came back.
Looking at the old cave of the Liu family, Wang Jianguo was sad. If time could be reversed, he thought he would come back to find Liu Xiaoyan in person and explain everything clearly, but the road was done, and time could not be reversed. No matter how much regret there was, he was helpless.
htmlFor more than 0 years, Wang Jianguo has been inquiring about news everywhere, hoping to find Liu Xiaoyan's whereabouts. He also wants to see his daughter he has never met before.But there are so many people in China, looking for a needle in a haystack. He traveled all over northern Shaanxi after work, but never heard of Liu Xiaoyan.
He understood that he might never see Liu Xiaoyan again, but the regret in his heart was always with him, making him unable to forget it.
Until 2021, Wang Jianguo was 72 years old at this time, but things turned around this year.
A new neighbor moved next door to Wang Jianguo. Originally, Wang Jianguo didn't care, but once when his neighbor's youngest daughter was playing outside, Wang Jianguo happened to see a jade pendant on the child's neck, which made him look very familiar.
He called the little girl and looked at the jade pendant carefully. After a closer look, he realized that this jade pendant was actually the one he gave to Liu Xiaoyan back then.
Wang Jianguo hurriedly found his neighbor's house and asked the origin of the jade pendant. Only then did he realize that the little girl's mother was Liu Xiaoyan's daughter and a child she had never met for decades.
Wang Jianguo looked at his daughter who had not met for many years and burst into tears. In his daughter's story, Wang Jianguo learned that this jade pendant was left to his daughter by Liu Xiaoyan, but Liu Xiaoyan died of illness in 2000.
went around and searched, and it turned out that my daughter I had been looking for for many years was close at hand. It’s a pity that this person has left, leaving only the remaining hatred.
Liu Xiaoyan never knew until her death that the breakup letter that made the two break up was not written by Wang Jianguo.
Fortunately, Wang Jianguo finally found his daughter in his twilight years, which can be regarded as making up for some of the regrets of that year.
Sometimes fate is so helpless. It is difficult for lovers to get married, and they will survive again in desperate situations.
No matter what, you must cherish the present so that you can leave no regrets.
