text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Women in love are always easily blinded by men's promises, naively thinking that promises will eventually become reality.
However, the promise is just because the man is not sure, and it does not mean that he will really end up in one go.
The relationship between men and women is not as stable and long as you imagined. If there is a little temptation in the outside world, a man's heart may become restless.
The restlessness in his heart made it impossible for a man to continue to stick to a relationship. Even if his person is still there, his heart would have flew out long ago.
Although no woman is willing to accept such a result, it has to be said that this is a very common phenomenon in the emotional world, after all, emotions are free.
However, although changing one's heart is common, not every man can admit it readily.
In order to evade responsibility, many men will not directly admit that they have changed their minds at all. Instead, they try their best to cover up the fact that they have changed their minds as much as possible.
Men think that as long as they hide well enough, the responsibility for the broken relationship will not be on them.
It turns out that if a man falls in love with someone else, no matter how he hides it, he will leave traces.
trace 1: Attitude becomes very perfunctory
The man confidently thought he could hide everything, but he forgot that from the moment he fell in love with others, his attitude began to change.
The change in attitude is irresistible. The more attentive you are when you love, the more perfunctory you are when you don’t love.
So, if a man falls in love with someone else, no matter how he hides it, his attitude changes will leave traces.
's perfunctory attitude reflects the disappearance of a man's love. The more perfunctory he is, the less his love for women will become. When this love completely dissipated, he might turn around and leave.
I remember someone said: "Personality is also an attitude, a rejection attitude."
Indeed, when a man starts to become extremely perfunctory, it means he is rejecting the love of a woman.
If the man around you also starts to treat you with a perfunctory attitude, then he is most likely to fall in love with others. Don’t be stupid and don’t understand.
trace 2: The number of dates is getting less and less
Whether it is a man and a woman in love or a married couple, they will make appointments from time to time.
Dating is a kind of management of feelings. Under the premise of true love, two people will take time to make appointments no matter what. Even if they just watch a movie, they can convey their love between them.
This is indeed the case when we fall in love. Once a man stops loving each other, everything will change.
If a man falls in love with someone else, he will date a woman less and less. Even if the woman has carefully arranged it, the man will make excuses to break the appointment.
Although the reasons given by men are very legitimate every time, this is too coincidental. There is something happening when it comes to date, which is obviously deliberate.
Men can reduce the number of dates, not because they don’t have time, but because they no longer love them.
If you encounter this situation, then you should understand that most of the people you love no longer love you. Even if he doesn't admit it, you should be vigilant.
trace 3: Playing with your phone is getting longer and longer
Although playing with your phone is a way of entertainment, it also requires a degree. In this era where everyone is working hard, there are not many people who can really play with their mobile phones for a day.
Especially for men in love, they have to complete their work well and take time to accompany their girlfriends, so they will not stay on their phones all the time.
When a man loves a woman, he does play with his mobile phone less, but once he falls in love with others, he will play with his mobile phone longer and longer.
Mobile is an important tool for him to contact his relationship. In order to cultivate feelings with the person he likes, he has to hold his mobile phone all day long.
Whether he is working or dating his girlfriend, he holds his phone tightly in his hand. As soon as there is news, he is like he is injected with chicken blood and can't stop chatting.
Not only will he play with his mobile phone for a long time during the day, but at night, he will also keep his mobile phone away.
Women cannot ignore such situations. You must know that this behavior of a man is actually a proof that he falls in love with others.
Xiaojing Summary:
From love to not love is a trend in the development of love. As long as everyone can get together and part, it is no big deal.
However, there are not many people who can really get together and part. Many men are thinking about how to shirk their responsibilities after the love changes.
In order to put the blame on women, men will try their best to hide the fact that they change their minds and pretend to be in love.
Man confidently thought he was pretending well, but he didn't know that from the moment he changed his mind, many things had begun to change.
So, if a man falls in love with someone else, no matter how he hides it, he will leave traces.
If a woman does not want to bear the harm of betrayal, then open her eyes and observe carefully. Once these traces are found, please make plans early.
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