Someone said: "You never need to please someone who truly loves you carefully, even if he is handsome and unparalleled, he is a domineering the universe, rich as a country, and power over the world."
True love is never from begging, nor is it from kneeling down.
The person who truly loves you has many things, you don’t have to open your mouth, let alone you ask for them, and they will give them to you.
If a person doesn’t love you, even if you take the initiative to ask for it, he will not give it to you. Instead, he will despise you and will only make himself cheaper and humble.
There is a saying: "The sugar you want and the sugar you actively give you have different tastes."
deeply agrees. The candy you take the initiative to give you is real sweetness, and you will feel satisfied and beautiful in your heart.
The sugar I take the initiative to ask for always changes its taste, and it comes with cheapness and sadness.
A person who has you in his heart really hopes that you will be happy, that you can be happy, and that you will take the initiative to give you his love and goodness.
And a person who doesn’t love you at all doesn’t care about your thoughts and feelings, and will not give you anything.
No matter the lover or husband and wife, no matter how good the relationship is, don’t ask for something, especially these three things.
First: Love words
All love words are actually the expression of real emotions and the real voice deep in the heart.
Those who love you will involuntarily say love words to you, and sometimes, they can't help but talk sweetly to you.
Love words are the transmission of emotions and can also warm up each other's feelings.
But love words are the active expression of each other, the release and transmission of emotions, and are not suitable for taking the initiative to ask for it.
When you have no love for you and have no feelings in your heart, even if you force him to say some love words, he can't say it, because love words will only come out when the love is strong.
Even if he forcibly made up some love words, he seemed afraid and not so real.
Those unreal love words are awkward and even more uncomfortable when you hear them.
Those who love you will take the initiative to say love words; those who don’t love you will lose the meaning of love words even if you take the initiative to ask for love words.
If the relationship is not in place, don’t turn love words into false feelings.
has the relationship in place and the relationship is strong. Naturally, there will be some love words, or even some whispers between each other.
Second: Gift
Some people may think that if two people are together, the other party should buy gifts for themselves.
Yes, those who love you will naturally take the initiative to buy you gifts, because they always want to be nice to you, and always want to give you surprises and romance.
See you happy and you feel satisfied, and he will be extremely happy.
But for a person who doesn’t love you, he can’t remember to buy you a gift, nor is he willing to buy you a gift.
To put it bluntly, I just can't bear to spend money on you, and I think it's a waste.
People who are unwilling to buy you gifts, even if you reach out to ask for them, they will not be willing to buy them for you, and they will still feel that your material gains are not worth the loss.
In fact, the gift is not about the noble and the humble, but about the kind of intention.
People who love you are always worried that they don’t give you enough; people who don’t love you always dislike you want too much.
If the gift is coming, it will lose the meaning of the gift and instead make each other more distant.
A bouquet of flowers and an ornament is a sense of ritual and a heart.
The person who has you in his heart doesn’t have to reach out to ask for it. On many important festivals, he will take the initiative to buy it for you.
Third example: Contact
Yesterday I went to have a meal and heard a woman calling: "Can you take the initiative to contact me? I will call you every time."
Listen to her words and you can feel her grievance and the sadness that has been holding it in your heart.
I heard the other end of the phone say, "There is no time."
The two of them didn't say a few words, and hung up the phone. The woman ordered the rice without eating it, and left in disappointment.
Contact this thing, it is not something you want. If someone with you in his heart, he will definitely contact you on his own initiative. No matter how busy he is, he will take time to call you.
And a person who doesn’t have you in his heart will not contact you even if he is not busy, because you are not important to him at all.
A writer once wrote: "If a person is not free, it is not really not free, but he doesn't want to have time; if a person has no time, it is never really not free, but he doesn't want to have time for you."
Yes, time is like water in a sponge, there is always a squeeze, it depends on whether you have that thought.
If a person is unwilling to contact you on his own initiative, even if you want his contact, he will still not give it to you, and he will even be too lazy to pay attention to you.
Therefore, there is no need to ask him to contact you humbly. Not only will he not get the desired result, but he will make himself more and more humble.
A writer said it well: "If you love someone, you don't need to tiptoe. Those who love you will naturally bend over."
agrees deeply.
People who don’t love you, even if you stand on tiptoe, it will be of no help; people who love you don’t need you stand on tiptoe, they will bend down to spoil you.
true love is to give you nothing to please, not deliberately want it, it will give you everything you expect from the heart.
Life is short, don’t be wronged by yourself. Instead of reaching out to love, don’t love yourself well.
For the rest of my life, in the world of love, if you don’t like it or force it, those who love you will love you seriously; those who don’t love you will wave goodbye.
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Author: Chu Lanqi, a writer who keeps writing.
May you find warmth and belonging in my articles, thank you for your attention.
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