Introduction First love refers to the opposite sex that caused a person to first develop love. It should be said that it was the opposite sex that made him taste the taste of "love". A marriage and love expert pointed out that the first love of a boy and a girl is the "invention"

Introduction

First love, refers to the opposite sex that caused a person to first develop love. It should be said that it was the opposite sex that made him taste the taste of "love".

A marriage and love expert pointed out that . The first love of a boy and a girl is the "birth" of "love". Sometimes, this "love" is one-sided, and it means that you feel that you have a kind of love psychologically or emotionally, but the other party may not be moved.

However, First love is an unforgettable experience. First love is as beautiful as the first flower blooming in life; first love is as beautiful as the rising sun. First love is a simple and pure love, a relationship that is difficult to let go, and this relationship may accompany you throughout your life.

However, first love is immature, it is a kind of psychological love. Moreover, , the psychological love of , often has a strong fantasy color, not only fragile, but also not realistic, and often ends in vain.

A senior netizen once shared his first love story. The senior netizen said---------

In 1995, he was admitted to an ordinary high school. When he was participating in a military training activity, he accidentally fell and wanted to get up immediately. However, because his chin was hurt, he had to endure the pain and sat slowly on the ground. And at this moment, a beautiful girl supported him, which moved him very much.

In the following days, he deliberately contacted this girl named Xing Mouhui, but this girl rarely provided him with the opportunity to contact alone, and he was very upset about this.

Finally one morning, he got up earlier than other classmates. When he walked into the classroom, he suddenly saw that only Xing Mouhui was sitting in the classroom. So, he felt that the opportunity had come.

He first chatted with Xing Mouhui for a few words, and then he planned to give Xing Mouhui a beautiful bookmark he particularly liked, but he failed. Because Xing Mouhui said, "Thank you, but I don't like using bookmarks." So his "attempt" to use bookmarks to establish connections with Xing Mouhui was lost.

Although he was unable to establish a connection with Xing Mouhui, he always felt that Xing Mouhui had occupied his entire heart. In order to make Xing Mouhui understand his "good intentions", he decided to write a love letter to Xing Mouhui. But what he didn't expect was that because Xing Mouhui's parents went to the county town, Xing Mouhui transferred to school with his parents, and the love letter he wrote was not given to Xing Mouhui after all.

This senior netizen said: "Although my first love has no result, to be honest, the feeling of first love is still unforgettable. To this day, I still have the shadow of Xing Mouhui in my mind."

Another marriage and love expert pointed out that in the first love stage, a person's love for the opposite sex occurs and proceeds quietly. This kind of love is a kind of silent love. Since first love is very young, the possibility of moving from first love to establishing a family is not very high.

A sociologist pointed out that although the probability of success of first love in is not high, first love is hard to forget. If a person cannot forget his first love, then after several years, a couple of first loves may really come together or have an extramarital affair!

In fact, this sociologist's statement still makes some sense. Look, on the evening of October 8, something like this happened in Dongguan, Guangdong.-----

incident-

A video provided by netizen Feng Moumou showed that on the evening of October 8, a woman in her thirties and forties was walking on the street under the dim street lights. Behind the woman was a man of the same age as the woman. After about ten steps, the woman suddenly turned around and grabbed the man and punched him with two "bang bang". The man dodged and said, "Tonight, I will decide you."

video also shows that as soon as the man finished speaking, the woman said angrily: "I haven't met him for more than ten years. He finally came to Dongguan , so I will accompany him for one night. Is it too much? Do I not even have the freedom to spend the night with my first love? "

The next video shows that the man did not answer the woman's question. However, when the woman took two steps forward, the man followed two steps forward, always keeping a distance of three or five steps away from the woman.

So, what exactly is the video showing?

When a netizen Feng uploaded the video he shot to the Internet, a Ms. Sun, who claimed to be an insider, explained in the comment section.

Ms. Sun said: "The man in the video is my cousin, and the woman in the video is my cousin's wife. This year, both of them are 40 years old, and their son is 15 years old. "

Ms. Sun continued: "My cousin and my cousin sister-in-law were introduced to each other by a matchmaker. The two got married after they met for half a year. After getting married, my cousin went to work in a unit. Although his income was not very high, it was still okay to satisfy the life of the family of three. Moreover, their family also had a house for rent, which was not a family that was short of money. In this case, my cousin's wife became a full-time wife. "

Ms. Sun continued: "My cousin is a very honest person, and my cousin's sister-in-law often scolds my cousin for not understanding romance. Usually, my cousin's wife often goes to the foot bath city to wash her feet and dance in the dance hall, but my cousin doesn't go to these places. "

Ms. Sun finally said: "My cousin's wife went to technical school, while my cousin graduated from junior high school. I don’t know what happened, but my cousin’s wife actually contacted her first love when she was in Guangzhou for technical school. On October 8, my cousin's first love came to Dongguan to play, so I contacted my cousin's first love. My cousin's first love said: I hope my cousin's first love will accompany him in the hotel for one night. Not only did my cousin agree, but my cousin also told me about the situation. But my cousin felt that it was nothing to meet them during the day, but it was not appropriate for my cousin's wife to accompany her first love for one night. So, after my cousin's wife went out, my cousin kept following her. "

According to Ms. Sun, her cousin never stole her cousin's wife. In the end, her cousin really went to accompany her first love for one night! For this reason, her cousin was angry at home!

The above is a general process of this incident.

When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.

Netizen voice

Netizen young man: It's really weird. I'm 40 years old, and my children are so old. Don't you know how to be ashamed? Why do you have to spend your first love one night? Anyway, I can't figure it out.

Netizens' Flowers Blooming: Through Ms. Sun's narrative, we know: Ms. Sun's cousin is an honest man. Because of this, Ms. Sun's cousin's sister-in-law dares to publicly spend her first love one night with her first love one night. If Ms. Sun's cousin was a strong man, I'm afraid she wouldn't dare to lent her to Ms. Sun's cousin's wife ten courage. Through this matter, we will understand what it means to "be good people are bullied, and horses are ridden by others".

In short, netizens have a lot of discussions.

Lao Hu's opinion

A few years ago, there was a saying among the people: first love is a disaster, a destruction of family stability. The culprit. Although this statement is a bit absolute, when a person encounters a first love, it will indeed have more or less impact on his marriage life.

A netizen who has been engaged in research on marriage issues said that when a person encounters a first love, it will immediately evoke sweet memories he once had, which will lead to a shaking heart. Once he does not have enough self-control, he will easily recontinue his old love with his first love, and once the old love is rekindled, it will be difficult to extinguish it.Based on this, it is recommended that those netizens who are trying to establish connections with their first love or try to meet their first love should give up their hearts!

Lao Hu believes that in this incident, Ms. Sun's cousin's wife was a very self-controlled person. When she established a connection with her first love, she went to meet her first love regardless of her husband's obstruction. It was speechless. Lao Hu felt that Ms. Sun’s cousin’s wife should restrain herself, otherwise her behavior might disintegrate her family!

What do you think?