As the saying goes, "Whoever drinks water full, but no love makes people grow old." People who love each other can always find many extraordinary ways to live. Even if the material conditions are not full, they are very satisfied in their hearts.
But if two people without feelings are forced to live together, no matter how many mountains of gold and silver there are, they will not be able to be happy, they will only age and grow older. Love can be fought for, but they cannot be forced.
The cold and beautiful girl in " carat lover " Gao Wen is very popular. She is a heartthrob star, but she has never acted arrogantly. She likes the doctor of public hospitals Lei Yiming and has been actively pursuing it.
Gao Wen hopes to become Lei Yiming's spiritual harbor. She slapped the woman who insulted the male god Lei Yiming in public, completely disregarding her idol identity.
She wore bright and sexy many times to attract male gods. In order to get the hug and care of her beloved man, she went into the water over and over again in the cold winter.
When Lei Yiming's life began to decline, Gao Wen was always by his side and changed his name to "New Life", hoping that he could regain hope for life.
Unfortunately, Lei Yiming always loves his roommate, the little fat man Mido. He is willing to be the emotional confession bucket of Midou , and he is not willing to be with Gao Wen, whom he doesn't love.
Zhang Ailing wrote in " Half Life Resilience ": No matter how bad your conditions are, there will always be someone who loves you. No matter how good your conditions are, there is always someone who doesn’t love you.
Gao Wen has put in a lot of effort in this hopeless relationship, and finally let it pass away with the wind. She did not force Lei Yiming to marry her, but only hoped that he would be happy in the distance.
Life is impermanent. Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you, do the following two things well, be smart and decent.
1. Fall in love with someone who doesn’t love you, do your best to take the initiative, be smart and decent
Many people regard the results as the end of their lives. Whether it is career or love, they will first make a complete set of risk estimates, and then decide whether to take practical actions to avoid major losses.
This set of ideas is applicable to the workplace, but not to love, because the courting process is the best result. Whether you end up entering the marriage hall with your beloved opposite sex, and reaching the gray-haired season, love that has passed is wonderful.
A truly smart person will not deceive himself or give up his beloved opposite sex, even if that relationship cannot see hope in life from the beginning.
There are many things you haven't fought for, and you don't know the final outcome. Maybe the person you secretly love is also silently like you, but you haven't found a chance to confess.
Step back ten thousand steps, even if he really doesn't love you, your behavior of striving for love will become a great wealth in life. Maybe this brave experience of pursuing love will attract your destined true destiny. Many things in life are hard to explain clearly.
2. Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you, you choose to let go, smart and decent
There is a book that says: "Love is neither determined by your or the other party's conditions nor by the matching of the nature of both parties. The key to love lies in time and timing."
People with rich experience find it difficult to refute this sentence. Many things that are worried about when they are young will not happen in the future, such as whether they will fall into a slump from then on if they fail to confess, etc. The reality proves that there are no negative people, only people who are unwilling to come out of the negative atmosphere.
Take Gao Wen in the play for example. She did a lot of unexpected things for Lei Yiming, but in the end she failed to get his sincerity.
She can use her star identity to "set up a trap" for Lei Yiming and force him to marry her, but Gao Wen did not do that. She firmly believes that the love between each other can last for a long time, so she finally fulfilled the fate of the male god Mi Duo, allowing her beloved man to freely pursue deep love in her heart.
Later, Lei Yiming went to Miduo's hometown to work as a township doctor, and was still silently with her. Gao Wen, who was enthusiastic and free and easy, also met someone who truly loved her, and everything was developing towards the sun.
Conclusion:
Love is a roulette game. The person you love may not accept your love, and the person you love may not be recognized by you.
The time and venue for meeting love is very important. A slight difference will cause earth-shaking changes. Everyone has different awakening time for love genes in their bones, and their understanding of true love is different, which leads to different views on love and marriage stories.
It is not ashamed to fall in love with someone who doesn’t love you. There is no need to rush to avoid it, and do not place yourself in the position of the victim.
It’s nothing wrong for you to love him, it’s nothing wrong for him not to love you, what’s wrong is time and needs. When he needs comfort the most, you haven’t met yet, but another woman stayed by his side all night, cheering him up and taking him out of the predicament of life.
The reason why Lei Yiming loved Mido was not because she became beautiful after plastic surgery, but because she accompanied him through a very difficult life path. They were soulmates who expressed their hearts to each other late at night, and later Gao Wen could not get into Lei Yiming's heart no matter what.
Smart people can always find decent opportunities for themselves. Whether it is career or love, it is not easy for those who can do the above two things well. They are brave enough to find love and let go boldly. Love is just so simple.
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