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Carnegie said: "Our blessings and sorrows in a day often depend on our words and interactions."
A truly blessed woman will always pay attention to her words and deeds, use her ability to speak well, and will not blurt out anything.
In life, some girls do not care about other people's feelings because they look good, as if they should be accepted and forgiven no matter what they say.
However, unequal love will never be happy and lasting.
Zhou Yang (pseudonym) and his girlfriend were introduced by friends. She is very cute and is the type he likes.
Men actually lose themselves in love. As parents, they hope that their children can get married earlier.
But if the person he meets is wrong, he will not urge him blindly, and will also give timely reminders.
60-year-old mother said to Zhou Yang: "Women with these two problems, no matter how good they look, don't marry them."
01: Love to gossip and often ignore the feelings of others
I have seen a sentence like this: "Spitting into the air will eventually fall on yourself."
Those women who love to gossip others behind their backs will not only not get any cheaper in the end, but will also bear the price for it.
Zhou Yang's girlfriend is a girl who particularly likes to spread rumors. Although she is very beautiful, she is not pure in her heart.
When I first went home to meet Zhou Yang's parents, my girlfriend despised some relatives at home, and she couldn't speak at all.
Cousin Zhou Yang is already 34 years old and has not been married yet, but she is very capable. She bought a car and a house herself and lived a good life.
The prospective daughter-in-law began to deliberately say behind her back that she must be dating different men outside and being very scheming, so she is so rich. She can't buy a house and an expensive car by herself.
When talking about these gossips, Zhou Yang’s girlfriend didn’t know how to avoid it at all and told everyone she met. My mother has reminded Zhou Yang many times that she would tell her prospective daughter-in-law not to talk about other people’s gossip behind her back, which is very hurtful.
Not only did she not realize her mistake, but she also felt that her mother-in-law would take too much care in the future. She had not even married yet, so she was going to give her a warning.
Later, my cousin heard Zhou Yang’s girlfriend gossiping her from other relatives. The relationship between the two families was originally very good, but because of this, they could not interact anymore.
Zhou Yang's mother had to remind him that it is difficult for women who love to talk about other people's feelings. Marrying a woman with personality problems will lead to a painful future life.
For men, the most important thing is to choose the right wife. While everything is still too late, it is the right decision to stay away as soon as possible.
02: You can easily bring disaster to the whole family
Control yourself well is the highest self-discipline for an adult, but not everyone can do this.
Some women always like to meddle in other people's affairs and like to participate in other people's affairs.
The world is like a kaleidoscope, everyone has different choices and lives. Even no matter how close people are, you should know how to maintain a sense of proportion when getting along.
However, some people will stand at the highest point of morality and ask others to give more.
Just like He Minhong in " Ode to Joy 3", she blamed her roommate Achu for being too fierce tone towards her parents and misunderstood her indiscriminately.
The neighbor's grandmother asked too much, and Achu was reluctant to let her mother work so hard to be a nanny, but He Minhong began to feel sorry for the old man again.
But when she asked her to take care of her for a while, she complained again.
She wants to care about everything, but she is unwilling to give sincerely, as if no matter what she does, it is right and should be understood.
Zhou Yang's girlfriend is like this, and her emotional intelligence is also very low.
As the saying goes, "Look at the laziness after all the world, see through human feelings but nod."
We should not be too indifferent to people, but we must also know how to maintain a certain sense of boundaries, otherwise it will easily cause more trouble to the people around us.
Getting along with a nosy woman, it is not only difficult for her to manage her own small home, but also easily bring disaster to the whole home.
The rest of my life is long. Only by choosing the right wife can the days ahead be in a state of happiness and perfection.
May all sincere men meet the right people among millions of people, and depend on each other and tolerate each other.
As the saying goes, "Look at the laziness after all the world, see through human feelings but nod."
We should not be too indifferent to people, but we must also know how to maintain a certain sense of boundaries, otherwise it will easily cause more trouble to the people around us.
Getting along with a nosy woman, it is not only difficult for her to manage her own small home, but also easily bring disaster to the whole home.
The rest of my life is long. Only by choosing the right wife can the days ahead be in a state of happiness and perfection.
May all sincere men meet the right people among millions of people, and depend on each other and tolerate each other.
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