text/Oxygen
pic/From the Internet
Yishhu said: "The love that truly belongs to you will not make you suffer, and those who love you will not make you worry about gains and losses. Anyone who feels hard is forcing it."
A good relationship may also need to go through quarrels, but it will not make you sad alone. It will face it with you, and will try to find a step to ease the relationship between each other.
But the wrong person will destroy your confidence and emptiate all your energy. Some girls, even if they have not experienced happiness in the previous relationship, still cannot let go after breaking up.
The more you give, the harder it is to turn around. At this time, some strange behaviors will occur, such as blocking your ex-boyfriend’s WeChat, or immediately entering a brand new relationship.
It seems that as long as you love someone else, you can forget all the memories of the past.
But when you do this, you will find that your life will be more and more painful, and you can't get out of the shadows and pains of the past.
In fact, the best way to let go of a person is not to block and a new love, but these three words: not to show off.
01: You have loved each other so sincerely, it doesn’t matter if you can’t forget it
Tang Lu (pseudonym) has been in love with her boyfriend for five years. The relationship between them is not just a boyfriend or girlfriend, but also has a sense of family affection.
She has long regarded her boyfriend as her husband's role, but the other party doesn't think so.
Before they planned to get married, the two people had more and more conflicts, and finally ended the love in a quarrel.
More than two months later, the ex-boyfriend had a new girlfriend, and Tang Lu was still immersed in her past relationship and could not get out.
She couldn't even walk into the cafe she had visited before.
She will deliberately avoid where her ex-boyfriend will appear in order not to meet her.
Tang Lu did not block him, nor did she find a boy to fall in love. When someone asked her if you hadn't let go, she would not hide it.
She would say to her friends very calmly: "Yes, I haven't let it go yet. We have been together for so many years. It's impossible to forget it just by saying that we're going to forget it. There's nothing to be ashamed of."
In this relationship, Tang Lu gave a lot, and she respected each other's love very much.
Ex-boyfriend can start a new relationship so quickly. She has no right to blame, but she will not retaliate against her ex in the same way.
's most fierce counterattack against men is definitely not that you fall in love with others, but that you work hard to live every day in the present.
Half a year later, Tang Lu met true love. Regarding her ex, she did not say a single word about the other party after the breakup, nor did she complain or hate.
We have loved each other so much, and it is normal for you to give yourself some sad time after breaking up.
Before she could let go, Tang Lu did not deliberately pretend to be relaxed. When you should cry, cry when you should be sad, when you should be sad. When all the reluctance and memories begin to become blurred, this pain will definitely pass.
After a broken heart, the more you show off, the harder it will be to get out of the fruitless love.
02: Bravely admitting that you have not let go, not showing off your strength is the best way to heal yourself
Blocking and new love will not reduce the pain in your heart, not showing off your strength is the best medicine.
The more calm the girl is, the more she dares to admit that she has not let go. The person who left first was not that amazing.
Maybe he won everything right now, and you can only stand there and cry silently.
, he seemed not sad at all, and even began a more free and easy life.
However, you are immersed in the pain and feel unable to extricate yourself. It is difficult for girls who are too strong to admit bravely that they have lost in front of others.
But the more you show off, the less you can get rid of the pain of the past. He has gone far away. If he wants to let go completely, the first thing he has to do is to admit and accept.
Only by admitting that you are not so free and easy can you accept the fact that he has left long ago.
No one in this world can heal your pain, and time cannot be done. Only when you become brave and face all life difficulties and love without getting it, can the wounds on your body heal quickly.
The best way to put a person is not to block and a new love, but to the three words "not show off".
The moment you lose the person you love deeply, you are very sad, reluctant, unwilling to give up, and miss him very much. It doesn’t matter, these emotions are reasonable.
If you have no sadness after breaking up, it probably means that you have never really loved you.
Those who give and experience love with their heart are the real winners.
bravely admit it without letting it go, and then manage your life seriously. Slowly, you will find that before you know it, you suddenly no longer like the person you love deeply in your heart.
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-