Storyteller: 66-year-old Uncle Yao
I am 66 years old this year and I have a monthly pension of 6,000 yuan in retirement. Half a year ago, I met Xiao He, who is two years younger than me, through a community blind date.
My son started a family and started a business in another province, and my wife died of illness ten years ago. I have been living alone.
I am still strong and have heard a lot of life with my friends, so I have never thought of finding a partner.
, by chance, when I was having a blind date for the elderly in the community, I went over and got involved in a fun trip, but I was attracted by someone else. That person was Xiao He.
Xiao He looks like a logo, and his whole body reveals an elegant temperament.
Although I didn’t have the idea of finding my wife, she took the initiative to chat with me, and I couldn’t help but sit down and chat with her.
After retirement, Xiao He will learn to dance Latin dance every day, so he has a good image and temperament.
She also said that she has a pension of 3,000 yuan a month, and her son is already married, and she has no pressure on life.
After she introduced her situation to me, I told her what I was passing by.
After hearing this, she was very embarrassed and kept smiling and apologizing to me, saying that she was embarrassed to disturb me.
How could I mind when facing her? Not only did I not mind, I also added WeChat to each other.
Since then, we have met every day.
We are very close to each other, and we get along easily and happily, and our relationship becomes more and more intimate.
Two months after we met, I formally proposed to Xiao He the idea of living together.
Our two families also made an appointment for a meal, and the children on both sides agreed that we were together.
So she moved to my house and we started living together.
Every day we have been together, we are very happy.
Xiao He gets up early every day to prepare breakfast and will clean the house.
After breakfast, we will go for a walk in the nearby park and then send her to Latin dance.
When she finished class, we went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and then cook together.
She didn't have to attend classes on weekends, so we drove around for two days. A day like
is much better than I expected.
We have no emotional conflicts, and no conflicts in spending money.
I thought that such a life would be happy for the rest of my life.
However, after only four months of our relationship, her son suddenly came to my house to report every now and then, breaking all the tranquility that should belong to us.
It turns out that he lost more than 400,000 yuan in stock trading, and he has always relied on online loans to make up for the west wall.
can no longer be filled, so I asked Xiao He.
Xiao He is only one son. He doesn't want him to become a dishonest person, nor does he want him to be arrested and go to jail, so he will give him money every time.
is as much as eight thousand, and at least one or two thousand.
I reminded Xiao He several times to let her stop at the right time. If you continue to help this, it will only end.
Ko Xiaohe doesn't think anything is wrong.
She said, "He is my son, I can't stop saving him! If I don't give him money, he will sell the house to pay off his debts. Where will my grandson live without a house?"
In her opinion, her money was originally to be left to her son, but it is given to him in advance now.
Seeing Xiao He so persistently, I was not good at saying anything as an outsider in their family, so as not to affect my relationship with Xiao He.
But, I thought it too simple.
Last time, Xiao He's son asked for 500,000 as soon as he came to the door.
He said that the pieces he gave him before were only enough to pay the interest. Now he must pay back all his debts, otherwise he will be prosecuted and went to jail.
Xiao He could not bear such a result, and his tears were filled with anxiety.
She said that all her savings were only 200,000 yuan, and she couldn't afford to spend as much as 500,000 yuan, and that was all her pension money.
Xiao He's son said, "You give me 200,000 first, and you can help me lend the rest to Uncle Yao.I no longer trade stocks. I will work hard to make money in the future and return the money to you as soon as possible. "
Her son said it easily, but I felt mixed feelings.
I don't care about their own affairs. But since I mentioned me, I will say a few words.
"You have started a family and started a business now, and you owe the debts yourself, and you should learn to bear them yourself. I suggest you sell the house and pay off your debts, and then the family moves to your mother's house, which is always empty there anyway. "
As soon as I said this, her son was unhappy. "My mother's house is old and small, so how can we live in a family of four in our family. Besides, there is a school next to my house, which is more convenient to go to and from school. "
" It doesn't matter if you don't borrow it, but don't make any suggestions. ”
I glanced at Xiao He and said, “If you lend him all the money, I have no objection, but I will definitely not lend it. "
" You have to think clearly yourself. He is a bottomless pit and he has given all the money. What if you need money in the future? "
After I finished speaking, I left.
After I went out and moved home for most of the day, I asked her if she gave her son any money?
She said she gave it all, and because I didn't lend her the 300,000 yuan, she mortgaged her old house.
I was stunned when I heard this.
We only had half a year of partnership, and she had no savings. How do we live in the future?
I can support her and give her food, drink and shelter.
But what if her son comes again to ask for money, or she gets seriously ill...what should do? Her son is unreliable at all, and I will only drag you down.
Thinking of this, I really want to break up.
can put aside her son. She is really good, treats me well, and is hardworking for housework.
I am very hesitant now, don’t know if we should break up decisively or continue our lives?
Can you give me some advice? Thank you!
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