Introduction After entering the new society, the means of production in society have become more and more abundant, and both men and women can create wealth from different angles. The concept of equality between men and women is becoming increasingly deepened. In today's society,

Introduction

After entering the new society, the means of production in society have become more and more abundant, and both men and women can create wealth from different angles. The concept of equality between men and women is becoming increasingly deepened. In the current society, we have basically achieved equality between men and women .

However, this situation is only reflected in the laws and morals that society should have. In some people's concepts, there is still a feudal poison that has not been lifted. For example, many people still believe in "raising children to prevent old age". In their opinion, a daughter marrying someone else's family is a splash of water, and she will eventually rely on her son to support her elderly.

However, due to the constant changes in society, this old concept has also become "mismatched" with contemporary society. So in today's new society, families without boys will face in 20 years?

Although society still advocates equality between men and women, there are still many families who want to give birth to sons. On the one hand, it is for the sake of elderly care, and on the other hand, it also wants their sons to pass on the family line. But this is just the idea of ​​some families, and some families prefer to have daughters. They either prefer the girl's personality or are worried that they are not able to provide more financial support to their grown-up sons.

Someone asked a question for this, how will those families without boys live in 20 years?

One situation is that there are no boys or girls in a family. This is what we call DINK family . In fact, now affected by various new ideas and concepts, many people do choose to expire DINK life, but DINK family generally has significant characteristics.

For example, both husband and wife belong to a highly educated group and can accept this idea. They both have strong financial strength. I believe that without children, they can solve their pension problems. After meeting these two conditions, it seems that there is no problem in choosing DINK life.

and this kind of dink life does not have to worry about the development of children's lives, but it also has some disadvantages. For example, when you have no children to serve you when you are old, especially if your partner leaves, your life will become more lonely. When you still have the ability to take care of yourself, can also take the initiative to find some fun and enrich your life, but if you can only be paralyzed in bed or are sick and unable to take care of yourself, you will die alone in this way.

Of course, if the financial strength is strong enough, these people don’t have to worry about food and drink even if they choose DINK life, and they can even hire others to take care of themselves, which also serves as the role of children’s elderly care. For these people, as long as they have money in their hands in 20 years, their lives will be as comfortable as long as they have money.

There is another situation where you have a daughter at home but don’t have a son. However, many older generations still retain the traditional concept, and there is always an idea that daughters marry someone else's children. In their opinion, daughters cannot help them with their elderly care, and they have to support their parents-in-law.

For these elderly people, if they live in the city and have a pension, most of them will go to nursing homes after they get old. Now the domestic nursing system is becoming more and more complete and rich, and these elderly people in nursing homes can also enjoy the joy and satisfaction of living together.

But for some elderly people who have lived in rural areas all their lives, they definitely do not have enough savings to spend the rest of their lives in nursing homes. can even be said that because of their age, losing their labor force and giving up farming, they have no source of life.

Without a son to support her, many daughters have also taken on the heavy responsibility of supporting her, but because their daughters have to take into account their own family and mother-in-law and father-in-law, they are still limited in their ability. Most of them can provide their parents with some daily necessities they need or provide some financial support to their families from time to time, but they may not be able to bring their parents to their side.

However, this is just the view of some people with more traditional ideas. Some people believe that having a son should consider preparing the house and bride price for him to get married may cost the elderly’s lifelong efforts. And if the son is unfilial or the daughter-in-law is unfilial, and if he spends money on his own, no one will support him in the end.

If it is a daughter, the financial expenses will be less, which will help these elderly people save some pension money, and they may not have to worry about their later years.

In fact, because the situation in each family is different, there are filial children and unfilial children. Unfilial children do not distinguish between children, and no one wants to support the elderly, and filial children do not distinguish between children. Even daughters will allow parents to live a comfortable life. Therefore, we cannot generalize this issue, but should be determined based on the actual development of each family.

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After all, we should still "respect differences and understand personality", respect everyone's lifestyle, and respect their own choices.

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