What does it look like to love someone? Should I be kind to her unconditionally, or should I be obedient to her? Many men think that when they follow you, a woman, they will treat her well.
is not actually like this. People who are really good to you will not stay in their mouths or think they are good to you. In other words, she will not understand how good you are to her. You just touch yourself and have nothing to do with him.
Men may also love you when they are good to you, but this kind of love is not necessarily sincere, because almost any man can do it well in words, but it may not be true in action.
When a man treats you with actions, not only that, but also hopes that you can trouble him, then he really loves you. Only such a man is worth cherishing for your whole life.
Simply put, when a man is willing to be troubled by you, he must love you and must want to live with you for the rest of his life.
1. A man who wants to be troubled by you really loves you
Frankly, love is really confusing and makes people foolishly see. You think the other person really loves you, but he is just superficial love. You think you will last for a long time with the other person, but you never thought that it was just a while.
What I thought was eternal in the end seemed to be just a short-term possession.
Some women think that men will say sweet words to them, and that they can care for themselves with gentle words is to love themselves. In fact, it is not. Everyone will say gentle words, and gentle actions may not be able to do so.
In life, we will encounter many things, and even some things will make others lose patience and do not want to be troubled by you. You may think that they are tired because they are tired, but in fact they are tired.
Even if a man who doesn't want to trouble you loves you, it's very small. In other words, this love is not worth mentioning at all.
friend Xiaonuo met such a man. At first, Xiaonuo thought that the other party loved him because the other party was very gentle to him. Although the two met few times, they felt that the distance between their hearts was very close.
Xiaonuo is a person who is particularly serious about love. The love she hopes for is not a while.
Just when Xiaonuo thought the other party really loved her, there was still a problem. If it weren't for the fact that she had something to bother the other party, she wouldn't know that this was the result.
Xiao Nuo’s affairs are very simple. If it were someone else’s boyfriend, he wouldn’t say anything, but Xiao Nuo’s boyfriend would be different. He thought Xiao Nuo was very annoying.
When Xiaonuo made her request, her boyfriend said, "Why are you so annoying? Can you solve such a thing yourself? I'm the most annoying about such things. If you don't know, you can check it yourself."
After her boyfriend finished speaking, Xiaonuo thought she had heard it wrong. It was really hard for her to imagine that this was said by the person she loved the most. At that time, Xiaonuo thought that her boyfriend had encountered something unhappy and would be fine after a while, but it was still the case later.
Xiao Nuo asked me what's wrong? Why did my boyfriend become like this? Seeing her expectant eyes, I really couldn't bear to lie to her, but this is the fact. In order not to make her sad, I said directly that I didn't know and let her think about it carefully.
Women must not deceive themselves. Whether a man loves you can be seen from his attitude. If he loves you, he will naturally be particularly good at treating you. Naturally, he will not be afraid of being troubled by you. Only if he doesn’t love you will feel troubled.
Never think that you are troubled by the other party, because there is no trouble or trouble in a true good relationship. He will do your thing with his willingness because in his opinion you are the most important person.
2. A man who is willing to be troubled by you will accompany you for the rest of his life
We always feel that life will not last long, and life will come as we live, but in fact, life will be particularly long; we always think that there will be no problems with our relationship, but as we walk, problems will occur. Why is this happening with
? We seem to be unable to find a reason. If we insist on finding a reason, it is very simple, that is, the other party no longer loves you, because we don’t love you anymore, everything will be disbanded.
Never make excuses for people you don’t love. Since you don’t love them anymore, it means that they are not the same person and they are destined to be unable to go to the end together in their entire lives.
Men who is willing to be troubled by you hope you will cherish it because he loves you from the bottom of his heart. Since he was with you, he has never thought about it for a while and what he thought about for a lifetime.
Maybe such a man will make you feel unemotional, maybe you will feel bored living with such a man, but you have to know that no matter what, he loves you from the bottom of his heart.
It is really not easy to meet people who have been with you for the rest of your life. Maybe we will go through many detours in love and meet inappropriate people. If God is lucky enough to let you meet the right person, don’t think too much, but show your sincerity and cherish it.
Life is really hard, love is not easy. I really hope that every couple who loves each other can survive all the hardships together, and walk hand in hand until they are old and live their lives the way they like.
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