Text/Qiaomu In today's society, there are more and more older single women. One thing we have to admit is that there are many older single women who are too outstanding and cannot find a match for them, so they are willing to leave them.

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In today's society, there are more and more older single women. One thing we have to admit is that there are many older single women who are too outstanding and cannot find a match for them, so they are willing to leave them. An older single woman like

does not need outsiders to worry about, because she has good financial ability, high knowledge, and loves to study, has a house and a car. Whether she gets married or not, she can live a good life in her life.

There is also an older single woman who is left behind not because she is too outstanding, but because she is not very good, but because she has too high requirements for men, she is left behind.

There are often many sad reasons behind some older leftover women who cannot get married.

1. Want to change the fate of the family

Some women have lived in bad original families since childhood. She has been brainwashed by her parents since childhood. It is useless for women to read so many books. The most important thing for women is to find a rich man to marry and then change the fate of the entire family.

Women who are usually born in such families also accept the concept of their parents and are more accustomed to the requirement of high bride price when getting married.

Some people get married. For the sake of their relationship, the dowry is only a bit of meaning, but women born in such a family will never accept such dowry and marriage.

For some families, parents insist that their daughters need high bride price because they want their daughters to live a better life after marriage. Even if the man gives high bride price, parents will either save the bride price for their daughter or transfer it to their daughter after marriage.

However, for families who want to change the family's destiny through marriage, they will never give it to their daughter, nor will they help their daughter get a fuss. Instead, they use the money themselves, or leave it to their son to buy a house and get married.

If the man is unwilling to give high bride gifts, the woman's family would rather be single and become an older single woman than let her lower her requirements and get married casually.

So behind her insistence on high demands on men, it is just because she was brainwashed by her original family. When she encounters such an original family, no matter how good the relationship between the two is, problems are likely to arise.

2. Want to change your economic situation

Some women are left because she doesn't have time to fall in love, and she spends most of her time at work.

And some women are left behind not because they don’t have time to fall in love, but because they have too high requirements for men to get married.

Maybe she only earns 3,000 yuan per month, but she asks a man to earn 30,000 yuan per month; maybe she has been working for so many years and has been renting a house, but she asks that men must have a house and a car when they get married.

Men who have excellent conditions in all aspects actually have higher requirements for their partner. Women who hope to change their destiny through marriage are often not worthy of their conditions.

The kind of woman who hopes that she can change her own economic conditions through marriage has never thought of relying on hard work to change her economic income. She thought of the fastest and shortest way, which is to rely on marriage and men.

When she did not find a man who could achieve such a high demand in real life, she had to be left behind.

The remaining woman is actually a bit sad because in the time she lost, she did not make any breakthroughs in her career and gain a skill through her; in terms of love, she did not catch a reliable man.

So behind her insistence on men, the high demands is just because she doesn't want to suffer, so she puts all her hope on men.

3. I have been hurt by love

When I was young, women also believed in love and men. She once gave a lot of money for men and love.

is just her efforts. Her belief is exchanged for the harm caused by men to her, so when she gets married, she will not choose feelings, but will choose men with better conditions.

So women who have been hurt by love will not choose pure love when they get married. They would rather choose a marriage with a material basis and a man with better conditions.

After getting married like this, the two will not have differences or conflicts over money. In real life, there are too many love and marriages that are defeated by material things.

Women have seen too many tragedies. She doesn't want her marriage, and the same tragedy will happen.

A woman who has been hurt by love has to demand men with such high requirements to protect herself.

The older leftover women who cannot get married often have a lot of sadness behind their high requirements for men:

Women who want to change the fate of their family have to demand high demands on men;

Women who want to change their economic situation have to demand high demands on men;

Women who have been hurt by love have to demand high demands on men.

In fact, women are the most realistic in their lives.

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