As a lifelong event for a wedding, I believe no one wants an accident, but the things in the world are unique, which makes people unable to guard against!
I believe many people have seen it on the Internet that when a wedding and a funeral encounter, who should give way to whom? Netizens are talking about this. Some people think that funeral should give way to the best, and some people think that the best should give way to the best!
From the perspective of human ethics, when a popular thing collides with a living thing, it is indeed a popular thing to let the living thing go. After all, the old saying goes, the dead are the most important. No matter how important the wedding is, it cannot hinder the dead from going up the mountain!
Someone encountered a similar situation. The groom took the initiative to stop the wedding convoy and respectfully kowtowed to the deceased. He offered to let the deceased pass in advance. He said calmly that the deceased is the most important thing and let the other party leave first!
Recently, when a wedding convoy passed by a nearby village, a family's wedding car was colliding with a funeral team. Everyone was stunned and wondering who should let whom?
not only the wedding convoy was surprised, but the funeral team was also incredible. They didn’t know what to do with such a situation. According to their local customs, they can’t go back to the funeral or marriage!
Finally, the two families stopped, got together and discussed it, and decided not to let anyone go, so that their families could slowly walk through the road together. All other wedding cars would be parked on the side, and the main wedding car would be passed slowly!
The funeral family did not object to the newcomer's proposal. After all, no one thought about such a thing. They could only settle for the second best, so that both parties could complete this matter successfully!
According to the captain of the wedding team, we were driving by a narrow village road at that time, and we didn’t see any special problems in our sight. This situation occurred halfway through!
For this kind of emergencies, we outsiders are not good at giving any advice. We can only let both of them discuss together to see who left first. In the end, they came up with a compromise solution, that is, no one will let anyone pass each time slowly!
There was no conflict between the two families. Everyone spoke with a kind look. Everyone knew the customs. In the end, this method was found. No one had to humble the general paths?
But when the funeral procession passed by, the groom got out of the car and watched him leave quietly. He did not rush to let the wedding car drive away, but he did not let us leave until the funeral procession disappeared!
From the above situation, both families are easier to talk to and do not ask anyone to let anyone go. Instead, they gather together to negotiate friendly and do not interfere with each other, which not only satisfies customs but also improves the beauty of adulthood!
In fact, if you put aside customs, anyone who encounters such a situation will probably take the initiative to give way to the funeral team and let others go first, which is the greatest respect for the deceased!
According to folk sayings, people can compete for the first place in other things, but never compete with the dead. In addition to being particularly unlucky, it will also make everyone feel that you are uneducated!
But their place is different. You can’t go back to the funeral and marriage. This problem is really difficult to deal with. There is no way to help the newcomers and the dead in this way!
such things are considered to be in a million. If you accidentally encounter them, you can only comfort yourself. It is understood that everyone makes money by seeing the coffin and eliminates their inner disgust. There is nothing else to do!
This is how life is. There will be various unpredictable events. If you encounter unfortunately, you can only face it calmly. It is useless to think too much. Just do your duty.
Looking at similar cases, grooms who are a little more general will take the initiative to make way for the deceased, and keep setting off firecrackers for their house when the funeral procession passes by!
In addition to expressing respect for the deceased, firecrackers can also cleanse their own bad luck. They can not only fulfill the righteousness and preserve their reputation. This approach is not completely undesirable...
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