I used to know a friend because he had some psychological troubles and had not solved it. He actually realized that he really had this tendency to commit suicide. Later he found that he would often do some dangerous behaviors.
For example, when he goes to drive a motorcycle, he drives wildly. Sometimes he even accidentally throws the motorcycle off with a bang, and then the person falls in front of the big car, and it looks like he doesn't want to live anymore. At first, he did not realize that his behavior was a potential suicide. Later he realized that he said, "Hey, I found that I would have such a behavior, maybe because I really don't want to live anymore."
, this method of accident, subconsciously pushes himself to death. What is the difference between it and the type of suicide directly?
There is a difference that it can convince yourself more. Although some people are very depressed, what if they really commit suicide? He might think, oh, it's quite a pity for his parents to do this. But if his subconscious mind causes an accident for himself and dies because of this accident, it seems that in his heart that he has an explanation to his parents, it is not that I, a person who ignores your life and death, hurts you like this, but an accident.
My friend later realized that he often had a fantasy in his heart, and he thought that if I met a bad person on the road and did bad things there, I must rush up and take courage. If I accidentally killed by a criminal during this brave process, I will die as much as possible.
Actually, among historical figures, there is a character who I think has this kind of mentality, which is Tan Sitong in the late Qing Dynasty. He seemed to be a little depressed before. When I looked at the historical records and some descriptions of Tan Sitong in history, I found that maybe he really had the tendency to not want to live. Later he chose to sacrifice himself and awaken the people to leave the world in this way. In this way, he himself felt that I had an explanation for my family and myself. I did not commit suicide, but sacrificed.
Of course, we cannot say that Tan Sitong is such a person, that is, depression doesn’t want to live anymore, so we do those grand careers, and we can’t say that. We can only say that this may be one of the many factors that affect him, and this factor will actually increase the probability of his death, which will not damage Tan Sitong's greatness. But, this may be an influencing factor.
The same is true for others. We cannot say that everyone who walks accidentally, falls on the road, and who is almost hit by a car after running a red light, subconsciously doesn't want to live anymore, we cannot say that. It is possible that he has another mentality, not necessarily this mentality, but it is just a possible mentality. This mentality of not wanting to live will increase the dangers in his life, and sometimes it may really make him lose his life.
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