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A relationship is over, how to forget the person you loved deeply?
Many people choose to delete and block the other party, feeling that as long as they no longer receive any messages from the other party, they will no longer be moved or miss them.
Some people also start a relationship again and fill the gap in their hearts with the freshness of being with their new love.
In fact, forgetting someone is not a difficult thing. As long as you make up your mind to forget and give yourself some time, you will definitely be able to get out.
You must know that there has never been anything that cannot be overcome in this world, and there is no one who cannot let go. It depends on whether you are willing to say goodbye to the past with ruthlessness.
Women are long-lasting creatures. Even if they are hurt, they will still be obsessed with that man. This is a woman's characteristic and a woman's weakness.
If you forget without certain means or certain methods, that kind of emotion will always be hidden deep in your heart and will come out and affect your mood at the right time.
Can't put a person, what should I do? Is there any good way? These three women gave the best answer.
Wu Minyu, 27 years old, flight attendant: The best way to forget about a person is to make yourself busy. There is not so much time to think about it, and you will naturally forget it over time.
Two years ago, I broke up with my first love boyfriend who had been in conversation for more than five years. I couldn’t get out for a time, and when I saw things I had experienced before, I would be in love with the scene.
or even when people are in a quiet night, I can’t help crying when I think of the sweetness of the past, and the pillows are often wet.
At that time, I was in a bad state and couldn't be interested in anything. I was very decadent.
lasted for a long time, and I felt that I could not continue like this. I had to do something to change this situation, so I soaked myself in work.
I took the initiative to apply for a flight abroad, so I spent most of my time on the plane, and sometimes I would forget my worries when I worked.
If my colleagues have inconvenient places, I will also go to the shift. In short, I will keep myself busy without getting stuck.
It took almost a year to go, and slowly, I found that my emotions became calm. Even if I saw items about the past, I would not be lonely.
even, I can sound very calmly that they are talking about him, there is no big fluctuation anymore.
When I first broke up, I thought I would never get out of my life, but the fact is that it only takes one year to erase a man from his life.
Busy is the best water for forgetting love. If you can't forget it, you can only say that you are not busy enough and your life has not been filled with work.
Zhang Sanni, 26 years old, photographer: A good way to face a broken heart is to travel. Put yourself in the famous mountains and rivers around the world, and will reappear the love of gas for life.
I am a very idealistic person. A broken heart has always been a topic I cannot face, and it will make me feel the evil of human nature.
So, after my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, my mood was depressed to the bottom and I didn’t dare to trust people anymore.
Moreover, as long as I remember his care and love for me in the past, and his determination when he broke up, I felt a hatred in my heart. I couldn't bear to be hurt by my favorite man, which was a big blow to me.
During that time, I spent a long time drunk, locked myself in the house to drink, and didn’t go to see friends or work.
About three months later, I had a hint of cheering up and I started my travel journey.
I took my camera and started my experience journey. After entering nature, I found myself slowly being healed.
Then, I registered a social account and updated the photos I took every day to record my life in this way.
After traveling for almost half a year, I have completely emerged from the breakup and have no feeling about my ex-boyfriend's betrayal.
I found that there are more things worth paying attention to. The scenery hidden in the rarely visited places was moved out by me, which gave me a great sense of accomplishment.
The pain of breaking up love has become a small corner of the past and can no longer affect my mood.
Gong Chunhong, 29 years old, art teacher: The fastest way to forget a person is to find a new person to replace him, and those hurting him will slowly heal.
My ex-boyfriend and I have been in love for eight years. This year, we are discussing marriage, but the dowry was not negotiated. He broke up with me in anger.
When I heard this news, my head was buzzing, and I couldn't believe it happened to me.
At the beginning, I still had the expectation of reconciliation, thinking that he would come back to find me, but this kind of thing didn't happen.
We really broke up, and this thought has been circling in my mind, which makes me very uncomfortable.
I kept asking about his recent situation and knew that he had a new development target. Perhaps out of revenge, I must find a target before him and started my blind date journey.
Originally, I didn’t expect anything, just thinking about finding a taller among the short guys and finding a slightly better one, but I didn’t expect that I really found a very suitable one.
get along with me, and I realized that he is very good, so my focus shifted to him. The feeling of competing after a broken heart disappeared.
's impression of ex-boyfriend is becoming more and more blurred, and the resentment and comparison mentality gradually disappears, and I begin to immerse myself in a new relationship.
Time and Emotional Class:
It can be seen that replacing busyness, travel and new people is really a good way to get out of love.
A relationship ends. If you really love, you will indeed feel regret and sad, which will make people feel depressed for a long time, but as long as you use the right method, this is not a problem.
In fact, in a person's life, you will meet many people. Some people will leave you with an unforgettable memory, but in the end, there is only one person who can accompany you home.
So, since the relationship has ended, it proves that the other party is not the person who accompanied you home in this life. If you face that relationship with this kind of mentality, you will find that life is just a passing visitor. After a long time and a long distance, you will naturally forget it.
Just like Yishu wrote in " Round Dance ": During the journey, everyone's performance time is specified, and it is destined to leave. When it is time to leave, I am reluctant to leave.
Your relationship is over, so let’s leave each other with some decentness, say goodbye with ease, and meet someone who is more suitable for you.
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